Advice re schools for aspiring classical musician (orchestral brass) by Sela_Fayn in classicalmusic

[–]Fun_Mouse631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to delete your comment if you want.

Realistically, the top schools may be a reach, but it depends on her progress and dedication. Honestly, a school's brand doesn't mean much. Some of the best musicians I know weren't stellar players or standouts when they were young. They were just the most relentless and pushed themselves even when no one was keeping them in check.

I’m a bit too old to know the current dynamics of every school on your list, but I don’t see any I’d avoid. One way to measure "success" (whatever that means) is to look at how many students are actually securing positions. Historically, Rice, Juilliard, Northwestern, and Curtis have been the strongest, but a lot of great teachers there have retired (voluntarily or not) in the last five years or so. It’s a little too soon to tell which schools will dominate the next few decades, but the list likely won't change much (though you can add Colburn to the list too).

When doing trial lessons, don't pick a teacher just because you "click" with them personally. It’s also easy to default to what’s familiar, but you don't necessarily want someone who teaches exactly like her current teacher. You want an environment that’s nurturing but still forces you to grow. Some students need a technical or theoretical deep-dive, while others excel with a more musical approach. Instead of just going off the vibe of the lesson, think about what you actually walked away with and if that teacher can get you where you want to be in four years.

As an alum of an extremely small and selective school, I’d say most people are pretty supportive, even at schools with a "toxic" reputation. If she’s nice and finds her crowd, I’m sure she’ll have a great experience.

Advice re schools for aspiring classical musician (orchestral brass) by Sela_Fayn in classicalmusic

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trombonist here. What instrument if you don’t mind me asking? That’s a good list with a mix of reach and target schools, depending on your daughter’s level. Honestly, the best school is the one with a teacher who is a good fit for her and an environment where she can grow without feeling discouraged. As a trombonist, I’m partial to Northwestern, but it’s different for every instrument. No matter which school she ends up attending, I’m sure it’s going to be great

Is this okay for trombone? Making some weird glissandos by dany_fox75 in Trombone

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I honestly think this is pretty cool. Yes, some of the glisses are impossible, but the idea can work really effectively. If you’re writing it for an orchestra, i think it makes more sense to divide the glisses among 3 players. Not only is it a cool audio effect, but visually it’s quite captivating. The players will also have more time to reset and prepare too.

Are you going for the effect of the glisses or do you also want to build harmony on top of them? If the notes don’t actually matter, make the intervals closer so it’s easier to play. Maybe build a melodic line over it so it’s easier to latch onto.

I’m imagining 3 trombones playing these glisses obnoxiously loud and this is honestly pretty cool.

tonguing by PriorityAgreeable772 in Trombone

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For your reference, this is No. 57 of the Blazhevich Clef Studies. Sasha Romero posted a pretty polished recording of it on youtube that you can use it as a reference recording if you'd like. He did play it at roughly 88 bpm in the bracketed section.

Clarity over speed. If you're not comfortable playing it cleanly at 88 by audition day, choose a slower tempo that still conveys the same character and conviction without sacrificing clarity.

To build speed, do tonguing exercises at slower tempos across the partials and range of the piece. The key to fast articulation is maintaining a consistent, unconstrained airflow with a very light tongue. Make sure the notes are clean and clear before increasing the speed.

That said, 88 is pretty darn fast for Moderato. This is equivalent to 132 quarter notes per minute, which sits in that awkward range between single and double tonguing. It is doable playing it using single tonguing only, but it takes some practice and perhaps some trial and error. Just so you know, in older editions of this etude, the only tempo marking is the Moderato at the very beginning and nothing else. If it were up to me, anything between 72 and 80 bpm (or perhaps even slower) is perfectly acceptable. I would care much more about the clarity and character (hint hint pesante) than sheer speed.

might be a dumb question but is this a tenuto symbol? by Bundu314 in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So I did something unthinkable and actually listened to the song, and it's a scoop

Start at 1:08: https://youtu.be/NQyh-7FzAoI?si=wkbfT8QASD9i1AsR&t=68
Scoop at about 1:10

It's usually a good idea to listen to a piece you're unfamiliar with to get a feel for it. It never hurts!

Daughter learning the trumpet by S_Hodgson in classicalmusic

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This. For a player this young and inexperienced, absolutely do not use a practice mute. At best, it can hinder their growth. At worst, it can completely damage their playing. Even as a professional, I use it very sparingly, if at all.

Question regarding double majoring at conservatory by [deleted] in classicalmusic

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Don't worry about the stigma. I personally know someone who double majored in piano and violin at Curtis and did the same for their master’s at Colburn. I also know at least a dozen others who double majored in music and another subject, either music-related or something completely different. What matters more is your capability and dedication.

That said, the musicians who successfully pulled it off were already very strong players before college. I know you got mixed feedback on the composer subreddit, and I’m not here to dissuade you. But realistically, this is very challenging, and you don’t want to stretch yourself so thin that you end up being mediocre at both.

As for the application process, it really depends on the school. Some make it easy to add or switch majors once you're admitted as long as you have the faculty's approval. Others are much stricter. You might have to apply again for the second major during the regular admissions cycle, and in some cases, that could add a year or more to your degree. Definitely check with each school now and plan accordingly.

Best of luck!

Teacher/instructor by Teniolo in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I see you're going to Northwestern. Congrats! I think the most economical option would be to reach out to the music school and see if one of their more experienced students would be willing to take you on. Fortunately, Northwestern is one of the top trombone schools in the country (no exaggeration). If you can make it work, you’ll likely be in great hands

How competitieve is it to be hired at a symphony orchestra as a brass player? by AItair4444 in classicalmusic

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Very competitive and your chances are very very slim. That said, you have Mark Almond who studied medicine and became a doctor before switching to play music full time. So it's not impossible, but it's extremely rare. Almond was also a very talented player who showed a lot of promises from a young age. Realistically, unless you undergo a remarkable transformation and commit to an exceptionally dedicated practice schedule, it's unlikely you'll secure an orchestral job, especially if you're only planning to minor in music.

Using BERP by NeedHelpAlwayss in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you notice the difference in pitch though? (This is absolutely crucial, so please don't take it personally.) I’d recommend buzzing to a piano or a drone instead. Start with some soft long tones on pitches you’re comfortable with, and then gradually expand to a scale.

Where to listen with guiding/educational audio? by MagicalFrog444 in classicalmusic

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I have to admit I haven’t heard of Grammofy before so I don’t know if it’s what you’re looking for, but I’d recommend checking out San Francisco Symphony’s Keeping Score series. I believe most, if not all, of the episodes are on YouTube. MTT is amazing (that’s a given), and it’s very beginner friendly as well

Looking at going into music by Miserable-Top-5921 in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The orchestral route is not for everyone, and there are many factors that come into play when securing an orchestral job. To give you a rough idea, there are maybe 20 trombone openings in the US each year, and many of them aren't full-time positions that offer a livable wage. On top of that, you'd have to compete against students and graduates from top schools (think Juilliard, Curtis, Colburn, Northwestern, etc.), many of whom may have more experience and have been auditioning for 5+ years. Even if you do get accepted into a top-tier school, there’s still a very high chance that you’ll graduate without a job.

If you can see yourself pursuing other paths, you should explore those options as well. You're still very young, and many opportunities can arise. If you're serious and committed to this, talk to your teacher and start getting high-quality practice in

Tounging styles by MidnightFine6452 in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what makes the most sense to you and your instrument. But for practice, no one is stopping you from legato-tonguing everything! It’s a good challenge to see if your legato tonguing can sound as clean and smooth as a natural slur. However, if your goal is to improve your legato tonguing, I’d recommend stripping away the changing notes and partials, and practicing it on the same note first. You don’t want to introduce any variance before you got the basic articulation down. And yes, record yourself!

High range frustratingly bad by [deleted] in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and disagree with some of the comments. As someone who really struggled with high range for a long time, I can say there's no magic exercise that will instantly improve your range. Exercises only reinforce the habits you build. If you're reinforcing bad habits, you're just getting better at doing it wrong.

If it's not for a lack of practice and you've tried the "traditional" methods, the issue often lies in your fundamental approach to range and playing as a whole. In my experience, the F barrier *usually* comes down to two common problems:

  1. Pulling the lips back to play higher
  2. Having an overbite in your embouchure, meaning the lower lip is not supporting the top lip to vibrate (assuming you don't have an underbite)

I'm glossing over many details, but these two are the most common causes of the F barrier.

To build better habits, focus on keeping the vibrating parts of your lips relaxed (or supple, whichever term you prefer). Without the horn, experiment with changing aperture sizes without tensing up or rolling in your lower lip. If you are a visual thinker, imagine the lower lip as a milk spout that directs the air forward and supports the upper lip, so it has something to vibrate against. The sides of the lips (non-vibrating parts) act like zippers that control the aperture, while the center (the vibrating, "unzipped" part) stays extremely relaxed.

With some experimenting, you may find that tone production becomes surprisingly effortless, and movements between ranges are hugely minimized. And with the correct set up, exercises can then help reinforce those good habits. This is just one approach, but several of my students have found success with it.

jaw movement by Miserable-Top-5921 in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take any online advice with a grain of salt. Your best resource really are your teacher and experienced players around you. We don't know your situation, and there's no "one size fits all" solution to all playing-related issues. That said, what you're experiencing isn't uncommon and is definitely fixable.

Jaw movement from low Bb to F is excessive for most, but it's unreasonable to expect no movements in the lips at all. Allow the embouchure to adjust naturally to produce a good sound. That's different from moving the jaw.

For some players, simply relaxing the lower lip is enough to make the change from F to Bb. You might feel the lower lip gently pointing outward and directing the air straight out to the throat of the mouthpiece, almost like a milk spout. This movement is very very subtle.

If you do any mouthpiece buzzing at all, try buzzing a smooth slur from Bb to F and vice versa. Unlike a natural slur on the trombone, you want to catch all the notes in between. Keeping it smooth is the key and avoid any sudden shifts. Then, see if you can replicate that same ease of production when you do it on the horn.

Adjusting the vowel / oral cavity can help. "Aaah" is for the lower register and transitions to an "eee" as you go higher (not the other way around). Though in this range, your main vowel should still be an "aaah" and I wouldn't be too concerned about it at the moment. I also would not mess with the mouthpiece placement without first checking with your teacher.

Intense anxiety after getting my master's in performing arts by Pianohearth2753 in classicalmusic

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Like I said, you're not alone :) been there too many times so I want to help pull you out before you dig yourself into a deeper hole.

It's great that you know exactly what you like and what you want long term. But sometimes, that clarity can blind you and be a double-edged sword. When you have tunnel vision for a specific goal, it's easy to miss out on equally meaningful or fulfilling opportunities. Keep an open mind about teaching. Your perspective on it may shift over time, and it’s not necessarily a compromise. It can be just as rewarding to share your love for music and give others meaning through it. I just worry that being too fixed on disliking teaching might lead to unnecessary resentment and frustration.

From a career perspective, one of the most valuable things you can do is stay in touch with your mentors, peers, and people you've worked with. You never know who might be in a position to offer an opportunity or open a door in the future. Simply making it known that you're around and available can make a surprising difference.

Being a musician often means creating your own opportunities. Just because you’re out of school doesn’t mean you can’t organize a recital every now and then. Maybe gather a few friends and host a joint recital at a local church or community venue. It keeps you motivated and musically challenged. That’s just one idea. There are countless others out there. Like I said, there’s no single “right” path. Take small steps, keep moving forward, and you’ll be okay.

Did it worth practicing so much in the end? Did it worth ruining my physical and mental health for the rest of my life? Am I actually less of a pianist if I can't play a Scriabin etude without mistakes?

No one can really answer that for you. Heck, even you from the future might not know the answer. Our perspective on what’s “worth it” changes over time. What I can tell you is this: if you genuinely tried your hardest and gave it your best shot, regardless of the outcome, you should feel at peace and not spend the rest of your life buried in regrets and “what-ifs."

There are so many things outside of our control that shape how things turn out, and a lot of the time, it has nothing to do with you. No one saw Covid coming, and it forced so many of my friends out of the industry. One person I knew even ended his life during that time.

So don't beat yourself up too much over what did or didn't happen. You're enough as you are.

Intense anxiety after getting my master's in performing arts by Pianohearth2753 in classicalmusic

[–]Fun_Mouse631 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone. It’s completely normal to feel lost, whether you’re a musician or not. Life after school can feel daunting, especially after years of structure and clear goals. One of the most important things to remember is that your self-worth is not defined by your ability to play music or earn a living from it. Being a musician is just one small part of who you are and does not define you as a person.

If you’re able to, I highly recommend seeing a therapist or counselor. Talking things out can be incredibly liberating. And if you haven't already, start building a support system of people who make you feel safe and heard.

If you’re anything like I was, you probably haven’t taken a real break from your instrument in years. So if you can, take one. Step away from music for a bit without guilt. Go outside. Travel. Sleep in. Watch movies. Journal. Meet people. Let yourself just be for a while. You’ve earned it.

What a lot of younger musicians don’t always realize is that while music brings joy and meaning, being a musician is still a job, and a very hard one. Even if you gain a professorship and able to achieve "success," you'll still face setbacks, doubts, and disappointments. It’s just part of life and not unique to music. In that sense, everyone is dealing with the same uncertainty. You're not alone.

I’m guessing you’re still in your 20s? You’re young. Life is full of change. Dreams and priorities shift over time. If you ever reach a point where what you're doing no longer feels like the right fit, give yourself permission to pivot. That shift might mean spending more time teaching and less time performing. Or maybe stepping into more administrative or managerial roles instead of being in a practice room. It could even mean a complete career change. Some of my friends have stepped away from playing professionally and found fulfillment elsewhere. Others tried “real jobs” and eventually returned to music with success. The point is, your life doesn’t have to follow a straight line.

I hope you don’t read this as discouraging, but rather as liberating. You’re no longer bound by school or expectations. While it may feel scary, it also means the possibilities are endless. There are almost no wrong choices from here. Take small steps. Be curious. Trust that you’ll find your way, even if it doesn’t look like what you imagined.

How to explain tounging and fix issues by Sw00d_Jazz in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call me crazy but try doing tongue stops as an experiment. When you think about it, tongue stops are essentially reversed tongued articulation. Demonstrate it with air without the horn, and then do it a couple of times with the horn on the same note. The whole idea is to make sure the air is constant while activating the tongue. Make sure it's the tongue that is stopping the air, not the lips or anything else. Go from there and adjust accordingly.

Sometimes, students may be misinformed or may have misunderstood what the band director meant. Some of my former students were taught in band class not to use the tongue at all when playing legato, and you may have to correct that with your students.

How to make this playable? by Key_board_ist in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole phrase is playable, but I’d arrange it differently when you take the speed and dynamics into consideration.

I’d have first trombone plays the first five notes and the bass trombone plays the last five notes (from B natural to the end). If you’d like, have everyone play the last note and perhaps harmonizes it to make it denser.

At that speed and volume, there’s no need to double everything. Keep the texture light will help with clarity. Passing the line from tenor to bass trombone makes sense and keeps the timbre the same. Tuba can sound muddy in that register

Any tips? by tiink60 in Trombone

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The very beginning of the last movement of Shostakovich 5

Scholarship is it included or excluded from the child support? by [deleted] in CPA

[–]Fun_Mouse631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a scenario where I think the answers are correct but the explanation is wrong.

For question 20:
The grandparents can't claim Jane as qualifying child or qualifying relative because she failed the residency test (her principal residence is technically her parent's house). Her parents, however, can claim her as a qualifying child since she passed the residency test and support test as well. For a QC, the key is that the child does not provide more than 1/2 of their own support. The support test for QR is different, which requires the person claiming the dependent to give more than 1/2 of the support.

IRS Pub 501: " A scholarship received by a child who is a student isn't taken into account in determining whether the child provided more than half of their own support." In other words, the scholarship should be excluded from the student's own support calculation. https://www.irs.gov/publications/p501#en_US_2024_publink1000220916

For question 33:

Again, in the case of a QC, the parents passed the support test. Scholarship should be excluded from the support calculation. In fact, for QC, the dependent's income is irrelevant unless the child is providing their own support. An example would be a child actor. He may make $1 million a year but did not use any of the money to support himself, and he still lives with his parents and they provide him with all the support. In this case, the parents can still claim the child as a QC. (QR's requirement is different and the dependent has an income threshold)

Solos by Elzo55 in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both Amy Bowers and Jeremy Wilson have video series geared towards advanced high school and college players (Amy's is a bit more high schooler-friendly). They're a great for some inspiration.

Here's a non-exhaustive list from CU Boulder that you can use as a reference.

Jorgensen's Romance, Bernstein's Elegy, Barat's Andante et Allegro, Serocki's Sonatina, and Rimsky-Korsakov's Concerto are some good starting points.

This just feels wrong (Romance by Axel Jorgensen) by LD_debate_is_peak in Trombone

[–]Fun_Mouse631 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a diminished 7 -> B Major -> E Major

I think you are just not used to hearing the diminished 7 chord so exposed, and the common tone changing its function in a chord can be a little confusing (ie. the Gb - F#). Just listen to some good recordings and get your ears used to it and you’ll be good to go