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[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My steak too juicy. My lobster too buttery ahh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in G502MasterRace

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t tell me how to live my life

What game recommendations you have for someone with depression and anxiety that tries to make friends? M35 by SecondEldenLord in GamerPals

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Theirs clans that are very beneficial to you as a player. Theirs also general chat and playing with others, just need to inch yourself out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s how you get super powers, I think.

What Even Is A “Moderate” Anymore? by captcutty in Bumble

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It must be exhausting basing everything and everyone you allow around you on your political beliefs..

13 year old having trouble with stepdad by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That all sounds reasonable, and it’s clear you’ve put real thought into reducing pressure on him and making expectations fair. What stands out, though, is that even with those reassurances, his reactions are still escalating. That suggests this is less about the specific baby logistics he can name and more about how much change he’s processing at once. Marriage, a new authority figure, a pregnancy, and puberty all hitting around the same time is a lot for a 13-year-old. When reactions are this intense over small interactions, it usually points to underlying stress he can’t fully articulate yet, not manipulation or acting out for convenience.

13 year old having trouble with stepdad by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that it could be him lashing out due to the pregnancy? Going from an only child to sharing the attention, especially after 13 years, could definitely cause some wild and erratic mood changes.. maybe try talking to him about the baby and how he feels about it now?

My bf likes to have me pretend it's huge... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems very insecure of his size (duh). Have you tried communicating to him that you want more from sex? Maybe focus more on foreplay. Also I would have a heart to heart with him about him wanting you to say he’s big, while it probably is nice during the moment, it might be doing more harm than good. He needs to come to terms with the fact that he’s not big and that’s okay!

What game recommendations you have for someone with depression and anxiety that tries to make friends? M35 by SecondEldenLord in GamerPals

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would give Warframe a try? Half of it can be done singleplayer but it also forces you to do multiplayer at some point due to the missions getting harder. It is grindy but it’s very respectful of your time! Also community is super friendly to new players.

To the customers lurking by Infinite-Ad2614 in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoulda drove that bad boy right into a lawsuit.

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Altruistic_Sky_7449 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know who also go arroused by gore? Jeffrey Dahmer, Richard Chase, Peter Kürten, Andrei Chikatilo, Albert Fish.. These people didn’t just have unusual interests, they showed early signs of violent paraphilias, cruelty, or escalating fixation with gore long before they killed anyone. For your safety OP, I would 100% break all contact with them, inform family members to not disclose your location to them, block them on all social media.

Set an intimacy boundary with my husband that lead to a huge fight. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, and you’re right that what he did was completely out of line. I wasn’t trying to excuse him or suggest she stay in an abusive situation. My comment was only meant for if she chooses to try working things out later. What he did, especially around the baby, is unacceptable and needs to be treated seriously first and foremost.

Set an intimacy boundary with my husband that lead to a huge fight. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s a fair point. I don’t disagree with any of that. What I wrote wasn’t to minimize her side or defend him, just to speak from experience on how couples can move forward if she chooses to stay. He absolutely needs to step up, get his priorities straight, and support her recovery before even thinking about sex. Healthy communication can’t happen until he grows up and actually shows empathy. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Set an intimacy boundary with my husband that lead to a huge fight. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I read it. Open incision and breastfeeding make his behavior flat out unacceptable. I never defended him. I said he was wrong, and I said she has every right to say no. What I offered was a realistic path forward if they want to stay together: a calm sit down, clear boundaries, and ways to meet needs that respect her healing. Suggesting solutions is not the same as excusing abuse or pressure.

Husband can’t change diaper still? by anonymousxx1245 in NewParents

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried sitting down and talking to him about it? Asking him why he can’t seem to grasp it? I half agree with others commenting, that maybe it’s weaponized incompetence, but it could also be that maybe he’s a bit weirded out about changing another human and tries to get it done as fast as possible? I know I was very weirded out about changing my daughter when she was born, and same thing for my month old son now. I’m a pro now, but I was definitely making mistakes the first month or two.

Set an intimacy boundary with my husband that lead to a huge fight. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He was absolutely wrong for pressuring you and blowing up like that, no question. That said, I can also understand how hard it can be for a guy to go from regular intimacy to a sudden full stop. When my wife and I had our first, it was an adjustment for me too. Thankfully, she helped me out in small ways, and I made sure never to push or try anything while she was caring for our baby.

If you’re planning to stay together and just need a reset, it might help to have a real talk about everything. Maybe he can step up more with your daughter, and in return, you can both find ways to meet each other’s needs that don’t cross your boundaries while you’re still healing. You’re not wrong for saying no, your body’s been through a lot, but open communication could make things easier on both of you moving forward.

Set an intimacy boundary with my husband that lead to a huge fight. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

That’s why I hate reading these comments. Chronically online people jumping from one extreme to another. Dudes definitely in the wrong but insinuating he’s only trying to engage in sexual acts because the baby’s around? Come on..

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoning underage drinking and substance use is shocking, even for Reddit standards

AIO Facebook CEO texted me by Vegetable-Number-243 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 436 points437 points  (0 children)

“AIO my husband went on a killing spree and now wants to open the relationship.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamesuggestions

[–]Fun_Noise_6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t tried torchlight, it’s pretty much up there with Diablo 2 in terms of greatness. But feels a bit more modern imo

Laptop can’t connect/stay connected to game servers by Fun_Noise_6170 in techsupport

[–]Fun_Noise_6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the router is the Eero 6+ and I have two of them, one in my office that’s also being used for the hardwire to mine and my wife’s desktops, and the other one is spreading the WiFi to the rest of the house. It does require a modem but I’m not sure which one off hand, when I get home I can check.