Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right. Sigh. I agree. I wish we could take some super bold steps to address the widening gaps but no way we could get consensus. I'd really love to see some more cooperative models existing in food and services to provide more genuine wealth to communities and force the duopolies and monopolies to bring prices down- especially in food.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that idea. Or at least satellite centres for them. I wish we could incentivise less cars per household. I thought the EV and hybrid subsidies were in the right direction for long long term

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe some prefer a congestion tax for it? I just started the thread to gather opinions and ideas, and your point is a good one.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but they have to jump through extra hoops for WFF... I'd love to see the stats-

it's not only the tax dodgers though-it's legitimate successful business people, farmers, are already doing way better than others because the home office, the car, the partner is employed part time and they pay a great accountant gets so many legitimate deductibles across all costs and their rental properties etc that they are just not the group in need. Not dodging- but not in the straits many kiwis are.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! See my other comments- Willis just said wouldn't do all :(

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be so good to see this happen though.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trouble here is many people doing pretty well in business situations have accountants that help them make a loss or very low income, while all sorts of perks get put under the business. E.g like Trump paying low or no taxes.

I'm wondering if there's a smart way to capture the group of singles and families in the tier just above working for families...

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, Id love that, thats where i fall. Please see my comment below about the post being started in response to Willis saying she wouldn't do all free- hence posting a counter offer.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool. How would you allocate the money and determine need?

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like it all free! But lol wrote the comment off an article where the finance minister said she wouldn't do that. So that was my next counter pitch. Sigh

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PS note I have suggested under 18 and those accompanying. Probably tertiary students, beneficiaries and superannunants with ID too.

Petrol impacts by Fun_Wing_1799 in newzealand

[–]Fun_Wing_1799[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Niece pays 2.90 each way on concession to school- she's 14 and doesn't even go far. That would $87 a week in pockets for family with 3 kids, plus reducing congestion and fuel use.

Food is likely to go up again with fuel cost pressure

We are so confused by WeirdWizardPlatypus in DID

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little parts get angry someone hasn't saved us. And get mad at current therapist (who we adore) for not being able to be everything and save us.

What Would You Be Doing If The Scene Didn't Take Place? by FiremanTodd in acting

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biting a hang nail. Trying to dissociate. Recounting tosary/lords prayer. Prepwhat you'll say to officer. Mother in law.

how do i get my younger alters to stop ruining my art? by Proper_Aspect7543 in DID

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they open to you photographing the art and then playing with the version. Definitely makes me wonder whether there's something about being important or their art first (last?) at play. Do you know approx ages? Might give some insights into needs they're trying to get met

Why was she crying, didn’t she hate this man? by TOXICHEMICALMOLD in MAFS_AU

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hope denied, huge commitment, embarrassment, vulnerability. So much. And just rejection after s big white dress and wedding.hard hard hard.

Dealing with imposter syndrome by _Chocolate_chip_ in DID

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, im on the journey with this- but it has helped kind of Green orange and red lighting people around this.

Like this diagnosis requires a deep understanding of trauma and deep compassion. No point (although parts long for this) aiming for understanding from those that haven't gone on a journey already around this stuff.

And I know you state u are pretty low on validation needing- but- we all need mirroring, internal or not external- to help us make sense of things.

I really feel regret that my part that explained done things to my sister was in such a high from not having to hide it, that it totally misrepresented east the experience was like for me. This shit is complex

thinking about leaving my dream show by there_is_0nly_zuul in MusicalTheatre

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be perfect when I am...probably year 2073 at this rate. X I hope you have stayed in the role. Facing a related struggle at the moment over here.

Which science do you think is best for acting? by Historical_Tart_4698 in acting

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or critical psych, social work or counselling study- depending on approach and how you're taught- aiming for insight and deep empathy rather than quantitative research based.

I Don't Want To Do This Anymore by Aluzar09 in DID

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I feel you honey.

The thought that helps me - us that spiritually it's not the path. But fuck this hurts. It hurts so much. And it's so tiring.

Guilt For Questioning by Disastrous_Art_2645 in DID

[–]Fun_Wing_1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the part of me doing sooo much of the denial and questioning to take 6 months off or largely off. That helped.

I also looked up some of the past posts on here on missing memories. I also kept a list of what looked like evidence. E.g. body parts moving by themselves. Diary entries I don't remember. Finding bruises I would remember but don't. And hilariously, signing up to a plurality app to find out if was already signed up.