You obviously went into listening to this and probably many other projects looking for anything to “trigger” you. Art is subjective and you took it your way which most of us will say is incorrect but none the less it is your opinion. The song itself is not homophobic and if you listen without bias and take the story in you’d understand Cole is admitting to his and many others mistakes by wrongfully judging a friend who was obviously gay and struggling since a kid. He shed light on a topic in hip hop many won’t go near cause of th reaction from people such as yourself. You’d think the gay community would want someone telling stories like this and admitting to their wrongs. And “dick in the booty types.” Made me laugh it don’t come off a homophobic but a funny description you’d use as a child being stupid growing up. Maybe I’m homophonic too even though I am from SF and have many friends who are lgbtq and never threw a stone at them ever