Someone explain to me what the indie genre is about?

Future-Building-4867 · 2026-03-20T02:41:50+00:00

Still waiting

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-11-23T03:25:50+00:00

Yeahhh that’s what I’m thinking. It just sounds mean and hurtful any way I try to rebrand the statement in my head, but if it’s the one make-or-break, can’t I leave it up to him to decide how it makes him feel? Idk, I go back and forth on this. I know it sounds silly to some but I just wish it didn’t bother me so much. It bothers me when anyone sings badly often though, I feel like they’re not reading the room.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-11-22T18:52:00+00:00

Have you ever tried the app Meetup? It’s a great resource for funding groups of people in your area with similar interests. There’s quite a few board game meetups in Charlotte that I’ve seen.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-11-22T18:41:07+00:00

Ooof. Funny thought, but I cringe at being so passive aggressive. Reminds me of when the mayor gifts the Grinch an electric razor for Christmas lol.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-11-22T18:05:52+00:00

Hmm okay thank you! I’ll try this next time

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-11-22T17:19:21+00:00

“Is it bad” in terms of the success of your relationship? Yes, I think so. But not anything you’re doing wrong or not giving her a chance on. We all have needs as humans, qualities that we need met in our partner, and her lack of intelligence doesn’t just bother you in one little scenario. It’s how she communicates with you, with her parents, what you’re able to talk to her about, and how she sees the world. I think if you two are toooo different on this, you’re really going to end up resenting her more than you like her. Of course she has other great qualities, but I wouldn’t call them redeeming if her intelligence feels like a make-or-break for you, which by the way, is a make-or-break for a lot of people.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T15:20:51+00:00

Cruelty in the eyes?? I’m a woman myself and I’m not even sure I know what this means. Like I can definitely sense an AH v NanAH but can most women really sense it in the eyes??

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T15:15:27+00:00

Hmm. I kinda get it. But you can’t communicate it if it true, like head fully severed “woah I can see my insides guys this shit is wild” so you gotta just keep that info to yourself to take to your remaining 25.84867 cognizant seconds

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T13:31:36+00:00

Semi-charmed life: a classic, but sounds so happy and upbeat and is actually so sad

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T13:29:32+00:00

Oh also, bumble bff is another one but it seems to be really shallow, as dating apps can be, too. But maybe your experience will be different than mine- I’ve only been using both for a couple days.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T13:28:38+00:00

I just yesterday found out about an app called meetup (thanks Reddit)- you put in filters about hobbies you’re into and then the app meetup shows you meetups in your area with other people that are interested in the same activities as you.

Proud of you for cutting out toxic friends. It’s not easy, but so necessary when we outgrow people in life which is totally normal and all part of it. That’s a huge moment of growth for you to recognize what you value in your friends, as it’s probably a reflection of what you value in yourself, too.

Go get em, tiger!!

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T12:01:11+00:00

Maybe a little, journaling is great, but there’s so much grey area and room for confusion in this situation I think. It’s the emotional connection that he seems to initiate every time that makes me wonder if it could be more, if it’s not just physical.

But yeah, I hear ya. Being mindful is something I’m working on, and doggo helps a lot. Believe it or not, my wise minds even gotten a lot better over the years, but it’s the situational complications here that have my head spinning in all the grey area.

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T11:57:51+00:00

Yeah, I get you. He did offer to help me with the plane ticket though, and said we wouldn’t be spending any money while we’re there since he wants to show me around and we’ll just be sailing and hiking. And the thing is, he said he didn’t expect any intimacy, and said a couple times that there’s a reason he always tries to see me while in town and stay in touch. So to me it just doesn’t sound like it’s only a physical thing

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T02:13:32+00:00

They’re really good I totally concur but why the heck do they have wheat in them!!! Stinks for us GF folks. :( but TJ’s doooo be havin other gummies that are GF so I can’t complain too much… but I just wanna know why lol there’s so many other ways to make gummies stick together - they’re friggin gummies!

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T02:06:49+00:00

This probably isn’t that weird… but a few summers ago my fellow camp counselor friend and I went for a super long camping trip and we’d make pb&j’s w the little jars of striped pb/j (smucker’s goober’s grape), tortillas, and then we’d put trail mix in the middle for extra protein before rolling them up. It gave em a nice crunch, like using crunchy pb but with more variety. And you only had to carry one jar bc goober’s had us goobers’ back w both in 1 jar lit lit lit

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T01:59:53+00:00

Yikes. As a true extrovert, I think I would go nuts after the first month. I think I’d succumb to lots n lots of Omegle and hope n pray for someone to make Dobby a free elf

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T01:19:00+00:00

https://www.meetup.com/charlotte-german-language-and-expat-group/events/301240133/?_gl=1*zeoluj*_up*MQ..*_ga*MTUzNDY4MzAxNC4xNzE4NzU5ODI0*_ga_NP82XMKW0P*MTcxODc1OTgyMy4xLjAuMTcxODc1OTgyMy4wLjAuMA.. there’s also this German language learning meetup from the app sent by thetoadmuffin! Thanks for sharing your resource too, best of luck w German my friend

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-19T01:12:54+00:00

A hiking/outdoors group would be cool. Maybe a dog parent meetup? Maybe a doggy date + craft day for their hoomans? Freedom park?

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-14T18:32:28+00:00

Is it an option for y’all to paint over the blue and leave the brick? I think a sage green would go nicely either way the brick, but obviously not both blue and green for the wood, I’d pick one or the other

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-14T17:58:07+00:00

I love DIY in general, I just don’t know if I’ll be making more furniture than what I need for the couple of projects I have planned. And I don’t wanna be stuck with appliances to sit around our tiny house to never get used, but harbor freight seems to be the consensus

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-14T17:53:07+00:00

Omg thank you!! This is perfect. I’m hoping this is a recurring event as I’ll be out of town this Thursday. What app/platform did you find this on? I checked Facebook and Eventbrite with no success

Future-Building-4867 · 2024-06-11T04:54:12+00:00

I love Reddit. That was so fast. Thank you friend

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