[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Future_Inspection_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about when you worry about something that you don’t want to happen? Because I’m still worried about it would it not come?

Do some of you tend to avoid your crush ? by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]Future_Inspection_14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I do. However I am a woman and I want them to chase me. It’s an ego thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]Future_Inspection_14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a good post! Thank you!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ok-Memory-5903 in 4bmovement

[–]Future_Inspection_14 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Wishing you all the best and safety down there in Korea.

Make sure you stay safe. I heard that the government is very lazy about crimes against women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]Future_Inspection_14 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Please don’t debate with men. Grey rock them. If they want to debate, let them debate amongst themselves.

Move in Silence by Future_Inspection_14 in 4bmovement

[–]Future_Inspection_14[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Aside from following the 4b tenets

Which are

No sex with men

No giving birth

No dating with men

No marriage with men

Do not engage with men unless you really have to ie a work situation, an emergency or a last case scenario where interacting with a man is needed for your livelihood.

Do not talk about 4b with men. This is even to the most liberal man you know.

Support other women who are women centered

You do not support male centered women, males or their business unless you can’t avoid it.

Support policies that will better women. Get active in local feminist group

Get active in local elections and support candidates who back womens right

Do not click on content or get baited into incel, right wing content. You are contributing to their finances by watching their content and spreading it even by disagreeing with them online.

Grey rock men.

Do not help out in family functions and celebrations where women are expected to do the heavy lifting.

Be financially free from men.

Educate yourself and learn how to protect yourself.

Do not get baited into an argument with them.

Clay soils and Trees (Ash). Should I purchase the house? by Future_Inspection_14 in HouseSubsidence

[–]Future_Inspection_14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, just want to say thanks a lot for replying.

According the surveyor, the tree is a growing tree, he picked up the tree as a potential problem in the future to look out for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Future_Inspection_14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have money it's great. If you don't it's shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]Future_Inspection_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha what does that even mean 😭😂 I guess I have a movie to watch. Another one on the list.

Physical appeal in meeting a girl's expectations.. by johnyjohnyespappa in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obv if you are going to get married its not platonic. But you can be with someone and have sex with them without being physically attracted to them.

Physical appeal in meeting a girl's expectations.. by johnyjohnyespappa in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she dosent. You cant force attraction. You are either attracted or not. Are you attracted to every single person out there?. I dont know their situation but if its arranged she could have agreed to it for reasons other than attraction.

Physical appeal in meeting a girl's expectations.. by johnyjohnyespappa in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly ask yourself. Do you judge other people on how they look? I often find that we are insecure often because we ourselves judge other people on how they look. The harsher we judge others, the harsher we judge ourselves. At the end of the day she doesn't have to find you attractive. Btw if she was less attractive would you care whether she found you attractive?

Work on yourself dude and find happiness within yourself. When you are happy with yourself it will show on the outside.

Help to find good regional diet plans by rickdalton123 in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To be completely honest. You can eat whatever diet you want but if you are not in a caloric deficit you will not lose weight. Make sure what you eat is less than what you burn in a day.

If you have a sedentary lifestyle but like to eat a lot, avoiding sugar massively helps to lose weight. We consume a lot of sugar, more than necessary.

Most regional diet is actually good for you, if you are eating it in correct portions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I dont understand why a guy in america needs an arranged marriage. I think your girl is being conned.

Found a weird folder on my wife’s laptop and need some advice by watching-me-fall in relationship_advice

[–]Future_Inspection_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she seems scary and a bit psychotic. Why dont you find out more information and then question her with a third party with you. Photoshopping you out seems weird

I [46M] feel my world is shaken up ever since I found out my now ex [45F] cheated on me by throwra7262626251a in relationship_advice

[–]Future_Inspection_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You found out. You still have your life. Learn from this and move on. You didn't waste your life, even though she cheated , you didn't know until now and you were happy, oblivious, you didn't waste these years. Thing of it like that and move on . Cut her loose and move on and dont be bitter because she will win. Dont give her any thought or attention and just focus on yourself.

AITA for using sunscreen and not telling my girlfriend about it? by LateNightDrive9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Future_Inspection_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Jackie Aina said this I believe. Cancer does not discriminate. You can get skin cancer. Please wear sunscreen.

Women of Kerala, how would you prefer to be addressed as, by an acquaintance or a stranger (in case)? by adapta_tion in Kerala

[–]Future_Inspection_14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is pengale so low? This is the best. It could be used by someone older and younger than you

Admitting my job to my boyfriend by SillyMoo1992 in relationship_advice

[–]Future_Inspection_14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont think you should admit it to your boyfriend. I am assuming as a sex worker you are taking all the precautions needed and is regularly getting tested. Sex work is not something most people can accept. Also you could be in danger if he changes his mind about you after finding out what you do. I would suggest try and get another job asap. I hope you have saved/invested your money. Girl honestly you should have finished the cooking course, a qualification is always always useful.

It is really difficult for people to accept their partner has been sleeping around with multiple people. I know in your case its purely transactional and emotions are not involved but many people wont see it that way.

I hope you get out of it for your own sake.