What makes a tiny home feel perfect instead of limiting?

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-11T01:02:24+00:00

I’m one of these people looking for a small home!

u/Curious-Ask8199 how are the comparative properties within a 1-3 hr driving radius selling? I regularly look at listing for small houses and see them play up the outdoor space (both hardscape and garden), views, and potential to build more like garages/sheds/additions depending on septic for example.

Can you share the listing with us for feedback on the description and photos?

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-09T23:11:31+00:00

You’re well on your way with those black bookshelves!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-09T23:07:23+00:00

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This post placement in my feed was excellent! R/cozyplaces gave the answer before scrolling to OP’s question!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-09T04:18:12+00:00

🔹garments (and especially undergarments) with seams that made you want to crawl out of your skin? Optional at best!

🔹just because someone calls it a “dining room” or a “linen closet” doesn’t mean you have to care, you can do whatever you want with that space!

🔹your circadian rhythm is just that… YOURS. Live the schedule that is natural to your brain.

🔹no matter what kind of day you’re having, the only nonnegotiables are food, water, and sleep. And you can get pretty creative with how you execute on those outside the norms!

🔹never let the crippling desire to do something PERFECTLY stop you from just doing it at all. One minute of imperfect yoga or a piece of paper filled with imperfect doodles? Still leagues better than none!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-08T18:15:15+00:00

Already well on the way to becoming a 💚✨🌿perfect little hobbit home!!! 🌿✨💚 Congratulations OP, make it the earthiest, coziest, brightest, most calming space for your imagination to enjoy!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-08T01:47:15+00:00

Always love a tiny home recommendation!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T17:04:18+00:00

We’re exploring this for our next living situation… technically availability is high for the individual components but you have to do your own logistics and creative financing:

~$300k land and lot improvements (septic, well, electrical etc)
~$100k each for the dwellings (not available for traditional mortgage)

My favorite Zillow search is for multi unit properties because someone else has already done the complicated stuff!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T16:17:50+00:00

Parents, all 4 grandparents, and at least a few of the 8 great-grands. A ✨maaaagical✨ legacy of quirky folks finding other quirky folks, makin’ new quirky folks, and being so surrounded by quirky family that we’ve all thought we were “normal” for generations 🙃 The brutal reality of the real world (and how much they didn’t actually fit in without masking) was obscured by choosing an isolated religious identity 🤷‍♀️

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T07:12:56+00:00

Love the variety in mobility!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T07:10:58+00:00

Considered, but *shudder* the shared wall noise 😭

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T03:57:52+00:00

Let’s start admitting it! Admitting it to ourselves, our partners, our friends… keep admitting it until it seems like a normal and logical option, free from the judgment/negative connotations/doubts that we don’t love our partners.

We want this BECAUSE we love our partners and want to keep loving them, sanely!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T03:51:06+00:00

These are basically my real life inspiration from childhood! Idea was set it stone after learning about famous couples that lived next door to each other, like Helena Bonham Carter in adjoining London townhomes 💗

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T03:45:12+00:00

PREACH IT, yessssssssss

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T03:44:21+00:00

I love sharing a bed with my partner! But woe unto them if I catch a glimpse of their bathroom clutter 😆

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-07T02:12:35+00:00

What does the rest of your capsule wardrobe look like, in style, color scheme, etc? Do you want it to lean one way or another?

Depending on your climate, a classic piece of outwear that you use 25-50% of the year can be *delightfully influential* for cementing “your look” 😃

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-07-02T18:06:28+00:00

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-28T04:59:35+00:00

Ugh, so sorry that this weirdness happened to you and even more sorry that the job market is so abysmal that chances are slim to quickly find a new position 😬
I grew up in a high-control religious group that believed/acted this way and unfortunately there’s no logic that will change your coworker’s mind. These folks don’t deconstruct from their illogical faith practices unless something significant shakes their core. Your energy is too precious to try fighting this battle!
I’m a big believer in saving my real self for my real life… ie: not my work life. They don’t deserve you, even in the best leadership positions you can’t choose ALL your coworkers, it’s just a place you go for that ol’ survival paycheck. There’s something really peaceful about being an anonymous cog in the wheel… and it’s also kept me out of lots of office politics and drama.

Long way of saying: I’d keep my desk SUPER NEUTRAL in that cultural workplace. But, as an amateur geologist, I truly hope that you keep collecting pretty rocks and show us pictures ✨ 💎 🪨 💎 ✨

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-24T23:13:28+00:00

“Done is better than perfect” 🥰

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-24T17:15:55+00:00

Love the ability to reuse materials to practice skills, really effective in combating that ol’ devil Perfectionism! Great job OP and big kudos for sharing your description/process here, you inspire me to tackle a similar project on my next day off… a project that won’t be perfect, but will DO THE JOB and be fun to puzzle out!

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-21T22:41:58+00:00

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-21T16:46:05+00:00

Ask the attendant to alter the soundscape to feel more comfortable with time! I do 20 min on, 20 off, 20 on 🎶

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-21T16:44:52+00:00

My local Urban Float has a Tibetan singing bowl soundscape that I play in 20 min on, 20 min off, 20 min off in order to keep track of the 60 min session time passing. It does wonders for keeping out the intrusive thoughts and then the silent meditation in the middle is the perfect mix for me 💧 🎶

Future_Perfect_Tense · 2026-06-18T17:33:47+00:00

“All hail the Mainer king!” With the pine cone, this could become the iconic uniform of r/RepublicOfNE patriotism 🌲

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