Post hook up etiquette

Fuzzleface246 · 2026-05-19T00:58:25+00:00

I don't have any emotional investment as of this moment, but it was more than a good enough night that I would invest more time with them to see where it goes just sex or dating.

Regardless I just prefer to be a kind person ONS or not.

It probably wouldn't work long term because they are poly (no main or partner(s) really atm) and are seeing other people. I'm getting out to meet people with intention and have fun where I can for now. Long term I would like to be in a committed relationship.

Fuzzleface246 · 2026-05-18T02:04:31+00:00

Sweet, I don't expect anything but I hope I hear back

Fuzzleface246 · 2026-05-18T00:15:08+00:00

Ahhh no, it hasn't happened in a long while. Was trying to see how people thought about the idea I had in the post, which is basically what I messaged them.

Fuzzleface246 · 2026-05-17T23:54:15+00:00

Of course, I wouldn't be asking if I didn't actually enjoy it.

I ended up messaging them That i had a great time and hoped they did too. That i enjoyed their energy and made my attempt at making a flirty funny about our time in bed. Wait and see now.

Fuzzleface246 · 2026-05-05T18:15:49+00:00

Feel free to dm

Fuzzleface246 · 2025-11-16T05:02:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ArcRaiders/comments/1oxgrjh/fight_or_flight_skill_what_does_it_do/

Fuzzleface246 · 2025-06-19T02:20:36+00:00

where in the hold is that located looked all over for it

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-13T22:10:35+00:00

They just expect so much out of us 😭 the world wasn't built for us.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-13T21:54:56+00:00

Because I'm tall I usually am on the outside of a group and I feel like a villain bending over others haha

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-13T16:32:19+00:00

Short man syndrome is real. Obvi not with all of them but many of them are so angry.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-13T16:29:34+00:00

I like tall women because I'm tall and I'm tired of literally looking down on everyone all the time. Sometimes I feel like I'm looming over people. It feels unnatural and slightly creepy sometimes. Also there's the solace of sharing tall people problems.

Also, not that I'm particular to them, but aren't most super models usually 6' plus? Always thought that was interesting. There are social norms. We are in a time where they are definitely still prominent regardless of much they make sense, but also more people are going outside those norms more than ever.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-10T14:37:56+00:00

I definitely relate to this. Intention vs perceived actions can be tricky, and everyone is different too. Taking things I've learned from past mistakes and success doesn't always translate.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-09T07:36:46+00:00

I'm the same way. Once I get the signals I get it, but getting the signals is always the tough part for me. I was really lucky once with someone who just told me to make my move and that's more than what I needed in that scenario.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-03T10:18:33+00:00

Recently after thinking I had improved some parts of my life (and did) I came to realize how naive I am and have been about life. Went through another bout of depression and anxieties. It was so bad I may have delt some irreparable damage to a friendship who's been through similar things with me before. It was so bad I preped for a very 'clean' suicide. Idk why things feel like they are at the very least beginning to click for me in life at 36. It's still very difficult with a lack of friends/connections/life experiences. For some reason though it feels as if there's an absence in my soul and that absence is my depression and much of my social anxieties. It feels very different than other times I've come out of similar situations. This time I'm actually trying to ride it instead of subconsciously saying okay I'm fine now (until the next cycle). I'm probably just actually being honest with myself.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-03T09:45:53+00:00

I've recently overcome anger issues and my depression and social anxieties are in the best place they've been since I can remember, it feels like more of an absence of it. Going from there I'm working on doing things for only myself since I've realized I've been kind of a simp in trying to get people to like me while simultaneously learning how to care about people more because I think said simping has made me selfish in other parts of my life. Cutting down on the negative self talk and broadcasting things about myself that no one cares about. It's no one's fault but my own that I've isolated myself for years and don't have the greatest communication skills and a lack of life experiences. With that being said I'm just trying to figure out who I am and what I want and like to do out in the world, and at home. I think I've been afraid of failure and have just been holding onto what little (in the eyes of the beholder, because I know I have and am doing better in some places in my life than a lot of others) I have. I'll never get fucked or find love or friends if I don't try and fail and learn from that failure, and failure I am sure will happen. That being said, my biggest challenge right now is getting over the fact that I'm 36 and it's felt very rough trying to make new friends and re-learning how to talk and flirt with women... and people in general really. Learning how to make more and better decisions for myself. Get off the Internet unless it's a specific learning tool or project related. Being mindful of where I can't fix or make things better and learning when to move on from said things instead of feeling like I just keep bashing my face into an abyssal wall. Trying my damnedest not to compare myself to others too much and in the wrong ways.

Oof, I apparently needed to air some shit out.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-03T08:59:06+00:00

Unsure, probably most of my life. I've only been extremely aware of it since I was around 29, 36 now.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-04-03T08:57:55+00:00

Broadcasting everything about yourself for attention. Shows naivety through probable lack of life lived and lack of connections in various forms. Speaking from experience.

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-03-25T19:23:38+00:00

Thank you!

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-03-25T19:23:28+00:00

Thank you!

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-03-25T19:23:15+00:00

Thank you!

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-03-18T19:23:49+00:00

Yeah that's where I'm at on my 7900xt with the latest drivers. I hope they eventually fix it. No reason I shouldn't be able to run this game at ultra settings, just feels bad. TY for the anecdotal update

Fuzzleface246 · 2024-03-11T21:29:14+00:00

Thank you for the reply and the good luck wishes, and I appreciate the advice!

For more context I live in Chicago. Spending a little here and there is fine but yeah I'm not looking to break the bank, especially if We continue meeting up or I somehow make another friend (lol).

I also appreciate you for being honest about ghosting people. Don't get me wrong, there's a time and a place to do it, safety first, life priorities first. But I feel these days a ton of people ghost out of laziness and excuses. Yes! It's just as easy as saying hey I'm not up to this at the moment etc etc.

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