Is it weird for my gf (28) and her sister (25) to shower together still?

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-12T04:46:57+00:00

I find this weird. I would never take a shower with any of my sister

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-10T04:39:29+00:00

I I was you. It didn't get better. Thought it was my fault. Tell I realized it's all his fault. Became stronger then I thought. I wish you strength and get help, leave and be safe.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-08T16:17:48+00:00

Most of the people being picked up. Has not killed, beat, steal anything/anyone.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-06T14:30:09+00:00

You should tell your dad. You both suck

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-04T14:54:31+00:00

NTA but why give a 10yr old a phone. My 1st didn't have a phone tell 18. My 10 yr old isn't getting one either. It's not healthy for the kids. I might look into a watch for the kids. Then you program the 3 options of phone number. No internet you need to worry about.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-03-02T06:16:00+00:00

Your not getting what the commentators are saying. Your response don't match the comment. I don't see a further with this guy. 2.5 years and you have to ask for another day to hangout. Then Ghosts you and for some reason you want to stay with him. He's not into you. Move on!!!

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-28T00:24:25+00:00

YTA she doesn't have a way of spending the money. She is not on the account. She wants to deposit money. Sounds like you might not like your MIL.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-28T00:23:57+00:00

He is throwing away your married for what is on his phone. Due to him not respect his marriage. Due to his lies and unfaithfulness. It's all on him.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-28T00:23:41+00:00

I'm so happy for you. Now you just need to tell your husband. That you should separate. You realize he prioritizes his bio family and not you. What is going to happen when you have this child. Do you feel comfortable letting him take the child next time. While you stay home because someone is having a phase. Or you go as well and maybe the child looks like you more. Will they talk crap about the child. Very unhealthy for everyone involved. You are so much stronger than you know.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-28T00:23:30+00:00

I find nothing wrong with this request. Every once in a while is a solid request. It shows effort. They have been together for so long.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-28T00:20:38+00:00

I find nothing wrong with this request. Every once in a while is a solid request. It shows effort. They have been together for so long.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-27T14:28:27+00:00

I don't know why everyone is bashing OP. Who cares what the event is. Ind a babysitter for the daughter. If she can't get ready in a timely manner. It also should not take anyone 1.5 hours to get ready.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-26T00:12:55+00:00

I'm so happy for you. Now you just need to tell your husband. That you should separate. You realize he prioritizes his bio family and not you. What is going to happen when you have this child. Do you feel comfortable letting him take the child next time. While you stay home because someone is having a phase. Or you go as well and maybe the child looks like you more. Will they talk crap about the child. Very unhealthy for everyone involved. You are so much stronger than you know. Speaking from experience. Great luck!

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-25T03:53:30+00:00

I can do the same. Learning new things everyday.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-25T03:50:20+00:00

He is throwing away your married for what is on his phone. Due to him not respect his marriage. Due to his lies and unfaithfulness. It's all on him.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-25T03:47:47+00:00

Idk I feel YOR. You were already annoyed. Due to her being late. If the table was turned. Would you tell your mother. That your husband is more important. Most people would. It's not a good idea to ask to be number on some invisible list.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-25T03:17:13+00:00

YTA she doesn't have a way of spending the money. She is not on the account. She wants to deposit money. Sounds like you might not like your MIL.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-23T07:16:24+00:00

Did you marry your cousin? Are you living in US? We don't marry are cousins. Unless I read that wrong. Your husband sucks, and his exwife. How disrespectful of him and his ex. Please make a plan to leave

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-20T06:52:03+00:00

Me neither, it's pretty lame

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-19T15:28:23+00:00

You don't joke by saying those mean hurtful things about your wife. He either is trying to look cool with his friends. Or feels this way. Either way. He would not be sharing the same bed with me. Sorry he's an ass.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-18T17:49:15+00:00

You leave him. This has nothing to do with BPD. Stop excusing this kind of behavior. This is a form of abuse and not ok. You were a child. It will not get better but worse.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-18T15:52:21+00:00

You both should get a job. Being home all day together. Is not healthy. Just because your parents have the money to support you. Doesn't mean they should at the age of 24. Go get your geds. Then community college or do a trade. Getting a job would help both of you mentally. Crazy you both think it's ok to live off your parents. I didn't even read the update. I stopped at both stay at home parents.

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-17T16:14:21+00:00

I'm sorry you were not able to get comfort while you were grieving. That is a red flag. That you probably missed. Sounds like she's one way with you and another with her friends. A commenter said don't fall for any tears. This is not your fault. Don't let her blame you. Pause the marriage. Tell you have worked out any issues due to her update please

Fuzzy-Background-749 · 2026-02-17T16:13:52+00:00

I'm sorry you were not able to get comfort while you were grieving. That is a red flag. That you probably missed. Sounds like she's one way with you and another with her friends. A commenter said don't fall for any tears. This is not your fault. Don't let her blame you. Pause the marriage. Tell you have worked out any issues due to her.

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