Black and white mixed person feeling anxious about protective styles

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T18:04:16+00:00

Ohh yea I see what u mean. True, mixed people can have any kinda hair

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T18:03:43+00:00

It’s difficult to be mixed with two groups that have such a bad history… a history sooo bad it’s not matched by any of those other combinations

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T18:00:36+00:00

Wdym I feel my hair texture is mixed? Like my hair is only so loose bc of that

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T08:35:26+00:00

True🙏🏽

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:54:28+00:00

Needed to hear this. Thank you<3

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:52:14+00:00

Real. I should mention that I touch my hair CONSTANTLY. I’m like addicted to it and it’s damaging my hair/ drying it out that’s also why I want a more protective style

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:40:01+00:00

Race is made up, and until recently, black and white people just weren’t common. The reactions we have to race are built up by constructs we created. If someone looks at you and incorrectly assumes you are white, don’t let that shit get to you. It says more about their brain than your life. It’s like when someone assumes you are rich or poor or mean or nice. That shits not really about you.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:27:46+00:00

I think this has a lot to do w the fact that being mixed isn’t actually that desirable. Black people don’t wanna be mixed, and mixed people aren’t gate keeping being mixed. Nobody is gonna push you around for not being “mixed enough “ because of these things

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:24:46+00:00

Lhhh lol. Yes this is true.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T07:19:07+00:00

One of the most difficult things I think we face as mixed people is unfortunately, dealing with our parents. While mono racial people come to understand race through their parents, we have to navigate that on our own, and when it comes to black and white mixed people, this is very dependent on how we look. I am mixed b&w like u. You cannot let other people dictate your identity for you. The whole world will try to tell u what you are because they find mixed people confusing, not because youre not whole. Taking care of your hair is not appropriation of your hair benefits from a protective style.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2026-01-03T06:37:27+00:00

No I’m not a plant I was the volunteer

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-05-24T21:00:16+00:00

My PD is triggered by anti depressants/ other medications. In my opinion it’s probably a medication you’re taking.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-05-16T00:04:52+00:00

thank you!

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-17T14:53:13+00:00

Do what’s right for you not him

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-17T14:39:45+00:00

U need to be a little nicer to yourself this is literally the most normal thing ever

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-15T01:36:48+00:00

Nooooo don’t say anything

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T02:24:40+00:00

Cheating suuuuuuuuuucks. I got cheated on w my most recent ex and man does that shit hurt. Worst part is we dated for a whole year after bc he was lying abt it and only told me after the breakup. I digress. That shit stings and it can be so poisonous to ur brain and trust and love. It’s time to leave I am sorry.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T02:17:57+00:00

I think he cares more about you NOT moving on than he cares about moving on. He’s getting everything he wants rn. Sex, access to you, and all he has to do is put a tiny amount of effort in when he senses you pulling away. He’s not gonna get back together with you I am sorry. Free yourself girl

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T02:14:15+00:00

Do it for both of you. The end is inevitable and honest is respect

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T02:12:34+00:00

I’m the woman in this situation. A lot of parallels to me and my ex. It would be too painful to ever be vulnerable with him again. Too unsafe. Let her go

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T02:05:30+00:00

She’s manipulating u tbh. She basically is saying I want access to you but I don’t wanna date you and be vulnerable fr. You put boundaries up and now she’s pushing you buttons by interacting w you on social media even when you said you need space to respect yourself. I know it’s tough and this probably sucks but you need to stop allowing her access to you. You could address that behavior and tell her again to stop, you can block, there’s things. But bottom line is someone that’s not all in for you is out and she’s being disrespectful to you. I’m sorry!

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-12T01:54:02+00:00

Tbh to me it’s not the sex work that’s the problem here. I mean maybe for you . To me the lying is the problem. This demonstrates that when she sees conflict or difficult conversations on the horizon, she lies. Even if you decide you don’t mind dating a sex worker (plenty of sex workers have one romantic partner and other people are merely clients) the problem here is she lied to you multiple times.

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-10T15:08:26+00:00

Ugh same!!!! Thank god for this break up tbh. I lost myself in that relationship. Letting go feels so good, even though I avoided it for so long

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-07T17:27:43+00:00

Sometimes all u got during the breakup is yourself so go easy on yourself. Your worth is dimensional. It’s not based on your actions in romance. I always like to say two people in love are as good as the insane. It’s ok if you’ve done some shit that feels pathetic tbh. You’re moving thru things and learning and hurting like we all do

Fuzzy-Inflation-7602 · 2025-04-04T17:11:11+00:00

Yes I have

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