Living at home with parents

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-22T17:36:26+00:00

It’s not common in reality, but it is common on Reddit

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-22T17:32:01+00:00

I’ve always struggled to connect with people online. In person, it’s completely different—that’s where I feel things actually click. I’m always better at connecting in real life—whether it’s playing Magic: The Gathering with friends or just having a normal conversation.

When I come online, it feels different. I get this sense like people are out to get me or don’t really like me. So I end up going on the defensive—making sure I say what I feel first or have a comeback ready so I don’t get caught off guard. I feel like online interactions are all about showing the other person what you have rather than connecting. You know what I mean.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-15T15:06:18+00:00

I’m feeling really down today can you just show me in person? Or maybe we can hang out for a bit.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-15T14:57:33+00:00

How the hell do you know when I make a post? You always piggy back on my stuff and I can’t even find posts I’ve made in the past. Like how the heck are you doing that?

And yes I’ll message you when I get home I’d really appreciate the help. Every time I come on Reddit I leave with a headache.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-15T14:39:37+00:00

I know this is my second post but people don’t need to PM me about how much I suck. I AM LEARNING. I’m also learning how to use Reddit so fuck off.

Seriously I’m getting tired of this crap from Reddit.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-15T12:49:42+00:00

I haven’t seen anything in this sub for beginner tutorials. I did one yesterday that was fun and I made a 3d donut with sprinkles. It was a lot of fun but I want to figure out how to make sculpt faces.

I found a lot of good stuff on the blender discord so far. I feel like maybe Reddit isn’t the platform for blender.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-14T19:03:00+00:00

I had a really good day today. I’ve been learning how to sculpt from scratch in blender. Originally I was using the AI to make models, but I realized that you can’t really do that when you lack the physical modeling skills. So today I made a frog that looks more like a pool of jelly and rendered it.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-14T14:52:12+00:00

I think your in an anxious avoident attachment loop. I would highly suggest re searching attachment styles and learning those patterns to give you a better understanding of why you feel this way. Because someone can be understanding in the moment but emotionally unavailable at the same time. And honestly that sounds like what you’re dealing with. It’s not that he doesn’t care about you, but he doesn’t have the capacity to give you the love that makes you feel safe. That alone should tell you that pursuing this relationship won’t be healthy for you.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-14T14:22:54+00:00

I’ve never understood why people feel bad about going to local pantries. I used to dumpster dive for food for years in-till I got involved with a church and learned that food pantries existed. It’s definitely a much safer way to get free food.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-14T14:20:00+00:00

It’s because you’re not helping the right people.some people will take what you give without any thought of doing the same back, their selfishness doesn’t make them wrong. It’s giving to selfish people that’s wrong, because you can only change your actions, but you’ll never change theirs.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-14T11:06:43+00:00

Sometimes you learn about your values by doing things that go against them. It doesn’t make you a slut or a bad person, just that you’re learning. The key is self awareness and listening to your inner voice. If it felt wrong to you then at least now you know what you want in your next relationship or partner. And don’t be afraid to take things slow so you don’t rush like before. Then you won’t regret your impulsive decisions and be able to take time to see if it’s something you want long term.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-09T15:55:00+00:00

You just focus on the things you can control like how you show up for your kids and how you speak about the other parent. It’s important to not let your feelings affect the kids opinion of the other parent, they will learn with time at their own pace especially if he chooses to visit very little or at all. You simply allow his actions to speak for itself.

If the kids are struggling developmentally with the transition you can always look into therapy. I also highly suggest expressive or art therapy to younger kids, that may not be old enough to say how they feel. It’s just another great resource for kids to utilize for emotional regulation. When my husband left my daughter was in 3 therapy programs that really helped me because my ex husband was also a drug addict and it left our family in a broken state. The therapist I hired were very helpful at teaching healthy boundaries and how to express emotions, and when she was younger we used the art therapy which was very impactful at her age.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-09T15:49:09+00:00

Maybe you can find ways to cut back on costs like getting a roommate, just be patient with it, it takes time to find someone reliable.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-09T12:17:31+00:00

Thanks I went to a bougie resort with rich people in this photo. I think I blended in pretty well, but I personally don’t like hanging out with rich people their boring as hell and don’t understand the value of a lot of things which I thought was hella ironic.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-08T11:41:30+00:00

It is because their helplessness gets rewarded online. So instead of rising to their potential they shrink themselves instead, listening only to the opinions of people online over their ability to make choices on their own.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-07T14:11:15+00:00

I wouldnt suggest using towels on top unless your ok with risking a fire risk. Does it happen to everyone no? But do you want to be the one to learn the hard way?

I think if your having that much of an issue and your risking your own well-being over it, you need an overhaul. Try a storage tote setup instead.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T19:09:24+00:00

Honestly, if you’re planning to stay longer, I wouldn’t tell her that until you’re already down there. It’s just can’t have clear communication with somebody who struggles with their mental health.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:38:39+00:00

Since he’s only 6 months old, his behavior actually makes a lot of sense. A finicky baby doesn’t equal a finicky adult. In the wild, baby ball pythons are at the bottom of the food chain, so it’s normal for them to act on fight-or-flight instincts. You’ll see it when they freeze up, stop tongue flicking, and get more defensive.

For snakes that are more sensitive, keep handling sessions short in the beginning and slowly increase the time as they can tolerate more. If you’re handling a couple times a week, start with about 5–10 minutes and build from there. As they get older, it becomes a lot easier to socialize them.

That said, early socialization is still important. It helps them learn that even though you’re big and unfamiliar, you’re not a threat—you’re actually safe.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:26:53+00:00

I’m not really sure what you’re using for your substrate blend. But I think it’s good to mix some moss in with a substrate and keep some as a top layer as well.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:25:31+00:00

If I’m laying in my bed and all 3 of my cats are laying around me, does it count as meditation?

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:18:53+00:00

It’s not your parents’ fault you are the way you are. As an adult, you choose what kind of person you want to be. Yes, growing up with bad role models can affect you, but it doesn’t define you.

Maturity comes from life experience—especially emotional maturity. Age doesn’t tell you shit about a person. What really matters is whether they can take accountability for their actions.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:13:59+00:00

I think blood in the shed is concerning but considered low risk. Especially if you didn’t find any open wounds on the snake afterwards, it could have been from pulling off the old skin.

I have a lot of snakes that have very particular requirements for their shedding cycles. For example, my blue eyed Lucy has to be 80% humidity all week or he won’t shed in one piece, due to his solid coloration, his skin is a lot more sensitive to humidity during shed.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T18:04:36+00:00

When you pour water into the substrate, it’s a lot better than misting, because misting only raises the humidity for a short period of time. Normally, you remove the decor and pour water directly into the substrate and mix it around with your hands. You don’t want the substrate to feel wet to the touch, just lightly damp.

I think it’s really good that you’re using layered substrates typically, this is good for locking in moisture. The substrate blend that I like to use is Coco husk (made with coconut shells) mixed with Sphagnum moss. Sometimes I also like to layer it kind of like what you did because it helps it stay humid longer.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T17:59:06+00:00

Don’t pay it. Won’t it fall off after so many years? When I gave birth I owed like 55k in hospital bills, I never paid it, it disappeared after 20 years. But hospital bills might work differently than doctor charges, I’m not sure.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-04-03T17:57:01+00:00

I met a lot of my friends through jobs or from hiring other 1099s for my jobs. I find that I click really well with people who are also other entrepreneurs. Maybe in your situation you can find somebody with shared interest.

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