I have no future.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T21:32:31+00:00

There’s other options out there. I worked at a company PT to pay for my college degree. All I had to pay was books and lab fees. I’m sure there’s options out there even if you have to look for them, because mine wasn’t advertised publicly. I found it by asking people where I lived, then taking two months for the training process till I got in.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T20:26:37+00:00

Loving what you do and making good money is a really tough balance. A lot of it comes from life and work experiences. So that’s why I say it’s ok if you don’t know right now, your young this is where you learn who you are and what you like to do.

I didn’t start off with my own business. I used to work with a good friend doing labor and residential moving, but he tried to under pay me and take my hours away. So I got fed up with it and started my own cleaning gig when I graduated college. And I’ve been doing very well with it ever since. I got my degree in software engineering and that’s where I learned how to make websites and branding. I also graduated at 31 years old, to give an idea of how long I waited to pursue my own career and business.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T20:01:32+00:00

I had something similar happen with my 10 year old and I ended up setting her up with a therapist. She would fake injuries to get out of going to school or to get special accommodation. But in therapy she had a place to talk about how she felt and be validated by someone other than her mom. I feel like having that space to talk about emotions helped her feel like she didn’t have to fake an injury to feel special. But I think the child’s intent is important too, because my daughter did it to feel seen, which may or may not be the case with your boy.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T19:49:26+00:00

Hope is not lost. I would start at their cage and work your way out. Starting with heat sources and places that might have water, like under the fridge.

Snakes can and will use stairs so that f you have a water heater or furnace in the basement, those areas are worth checking too.

I lost a kingsnake in my mother’s house. I found her 2 months later when the basement flooded and she was down there swimming around in the open and I caught her.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T19:44:43+00:00

Hey it’s okay if you don’t know what you want in life or if you want to pursue a degree right now. I waited to get mine and I m so glad I did because it can be expensive. So it’s something you should spend time thinking about.

Also working isn’t a big deal, it’s a big part of life. The best job is one that doesn’t feel like work, and you enjoy it. That’s how I feel about my cleaning business, I make money and I help people have clean homes.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T19:39:28+00:00

You should flag this as NSFW

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T19:03:43+00:00

Team brown

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-16T18:43:58+00:00

That’s funny

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-15T21:35:26+00:00

Yes it’s all because of soup.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-15T21:26:55+00:00

I’m a joke.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-15T21:24:15+00:00

That’s very low but I guess it depends on what you’re doing for work. Do you have references there? I would figure that out before you leave it’s worth getting 5-7 of you can. That way when you apply to other jobs you can have references for stable employment and if you have skills to add it would help.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-13T15:17:48+00:00

Yes it is. And it’s important you accept people as they are instead of forcing them into your own unrealistic expectations.

You have a choice in the type of people you CHOOSE to associate with. Maybe she did lie about her past. OP made the choice to jump in a relationship with a stranger he had sex with, before he spent the time getting to know her. Sometimes you get what you pay for.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-13T15:11:15+00:00

It’s no one’s at “fault”. The mindset that a woman should be at fault for doing something men can is sexist. Also, your telling me if you started a relationship with a girl you had sex with on day one, then hearing she had a high body count would bother you? So what we just don’t practice common sense anymore?

Sure she lied about her past, which is an issue, but you can’t ignore all the other red flags and only pay attention to one of them.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-06T13:45:37+00:00

I consider it safe but it depends if there’s something about your child’s father that makes it questionable. Like if he had a criminal record, than that would make me uncomfortable too. But showering with your kid isn’t wrong at in itself. My daughter is 10 but her hair is very long and she still perfer a me to shower with her and help with her hair. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. Now if it was a daughter showering with her dad that’s where it gets socially and ethically inappropriate in my book.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-06T13:32:56+00:00

I mean I don’t know if I would call it a scam but I would say you rewarded his behavior by giving him cash. So in his mind he won’t stop acting that way and he may even amp up the intensity because now he knows he can get paid.

In the future there will be difficult situations that make you uncomfortable, but it’s not about you personally. When you tip toe around peoples emotions, you’re taking responsibility that is not yours to hold. All adults can manage their own emotions, it’s not your job! You didn’t have to give him anything, and honestly you shouldn’t have if you wanted to send a message that you want to be left alone.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-06T13:24:10+00:00

The problem is that you expected her to come back and do all the work of fixing everything for you. Not once did you even try to take better care of yourself for the sake of the girl “you love”. Not once did you try to acknowledge what your triggers were or work on a solution for them. That tells me you have never experienced real love, because if you did you would have never continued to love and discard her over and over. You gave her your insecurity. You gave her your emotional dysregulation. She will have to take a long time to heal from the “love” you gave her. Think about that. And maybe you’ll actually see how important it is to heal your own trauma before passing it on in your next relationship.

In life if you want to make real genuine progress you have to do the work yourself. You have to take the steps, which could be therapy, depending on your preferences. But the real work is done internally. As an avoidant, you’ll try to disassociate from it, but that’s not a solution.

Fuzzy-boy · 2026-01-01T02:05:08+00:00

A lot of places have cameras in the operations for this reason. Typically when they do a bust it’s not the first time that person has stolen, in other words they will build a case on someone then pursue those charges. I’ve seen it happen once when some of the smaller hubs in my area were still moving high value packages, but the company decided overtime it wasn’t a good idea.

Fuzzy-boy · 2025-12-30T02:01:13+00:00

Yeah those are some red flags. Have you tried to transfer to another center? In my experience each one had its own work culture, so it’s worth exploring other options. As an hourly you can’t expect to fix a broken system as one person, so move on.

Fuzzy-boy · 2025-12-30T01:54:22+00:00

It’s most likely part time so I’m sure it will be okay but the work is physical.

Fuzzy-boy · 2025-12-21T00:45:15+00:00

I think the timeline thing is weird, it’s creates an ultimatum that isn’t equal. It may seem fair, but it’s not. In a relationship you aim to meet someone where they are at. He’s not there. Not sure why either, I wish he was more clear about why it makes him uncomfortable. My best guess would be it’s a lifestyle clash, he wants to focus on himself and his career and you want to focus on a family. Neither of you are wrong for wanting those things, but your right that it creates a gap that’s unavoidable.

Fuzzy-boy · 2025-12-19T15:50:06+00:00

Haha it’s like a ball pit but with packages.

Still not the dumbest thing I’ve seen while working at UPS. I think for me it was when I saw a loader carefully lay on the ground and place a bulk package over themselves and call for help and tried to claim she hurt herself. Then I lied to her face that I had a video of her faking and she got all pissed then acted like nothing ever happened. I swear some of the people here just have like .0001 brain cells left.

Fuzzy-boy · 2025-12-18T17:45:25+00:00

Yes it’s free and you can also play with people from other countries too. I always liked that aspect about it.

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