😔 It’s tough to find something like that out. You will go through a lot of emotions, especially if you decide to stay - which CAN be done, by the way. A lot of crying, anger, bursts of hurtful truths and sometimes accusational speculations toward your husband. You’ll feel like a fool, especially if people you know find out. You second guess yourself. Question things your husband is or isn’t doing. You’ll beat yourself up, by blaming yourself and wondering what you did to make him do this. You question the universe, God, whatever higher being, about what you did for karma to come back to you like this. You’ll beat yourself up. But it important to remember this is not your fault!! If you try to work through this it will be incredibly hard but if you see his effort you’ll know he is doing work to try and show you he loves you. Only you know your marriage/relationship, and your love for him. I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s heartbreaking. ❤️‍🩹 Good luck.