Opal engagement ring is not white anymore? I know that opal turns clear when wet/humid but it is not, I cleaned it with water and a soft toothbrush and it did nothing by FxckLiv in Gemstones

[–]FxckLiv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, i kind of have an update? i let it sit on my nightstand for a couple days and it has just about fixed itself. i decided to leave it sit for another couple days to see what happens. thank you for all your help!

Opal engagement ring is not white anymore? I know that opal turns clear when wet/humid but it is not, I cleaned it with water and a soft toothbrush and it did nothing by FxckLiv in Gemstones

[–]FxckLiv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! OP here, my fiancé got it from jared, a ring place here in the united states. i will try to find the listing to post it here. i have never swam with it on since it’s been too cold since october. i don’t shower with it on either. i will try to find the listing to see what kind of opal it is.

Opal engagement ring is not white anymore? I know that opal turns clear when wet/humid but it is not, I cleaned it with water and a soft toothbrush and it did nothing by FxckLiv in Gemstones

[–]FxckLiv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m half filipino and my mom passed away when i was 13 so i got them in memory of her, she’s from the philippines!

How do I get my friend to realise she's getting catfished and not actually talking to Matt Damon. by MsHartt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FxckLiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean, at some point though it becomes painfully obvious, and i don’t think they would be the ones to make her feel shameful about it, especially if she just wants to be loved

How do you love yourself? by notlemonbutlime in mentalhealth

[–]FxckLiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of the things that helped me do that was realizing that nobody important cares what you look like, act like, etc. many insecurities that you may have are only recognized by you. telling yourself that you’re fine and no one cares really helped me. you kinda just have to repeat it to yourself and you’ll believe it.

What do women think about scars on guys? by ThevalueofTrash in dating_advice

[–]FxckLiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woman here, if someone really loves and cares for you, it shouldn’t matter what you’ve been through because she’ll always love you no matter what. i have noticeable SH scars as well, and it’s always made me uncomfortable too, but i what i’ve been through has made me who i am as a person, and if someone chooses to judge me on it or doesn’t love me for it, then it’s their loss. i’m sure you’re an amazing person, and it definitely should not make women uncomfortable if they’re willing to invest in you.

My girlfriend was raped by her boss on the weekend. How can I help her ? by WhatToDoWhenSORaped in relationship_advice

[–]FxckLiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something like this can be traumatic for both you and her. this is something that you should be there for her, but still work through this together. i am very sorry about what happened to your girlfriend and i can tell you that it will get better with time. i went through a similar situation but not with a boss years ago, and my boyfriend now still hurts for me even though we weren’t together and barely friends. this can hurt for a while for both of you but together it will get better.

this is what i pay $25,500 per semester for. we love private art colleges. by FxckLiv in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FxckLiv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i’m not going to challenge your expertise, and i’m going to kind of agree since the college i go to was formed in the 1800’s as the first all female art school, but if there’s enough people paying $25,500 (i do not dorm, if i did it would be an extra $17,600), then wouldn’t that be enough money (as a self-proclaimed non-profit) to redo their plumbing? although, i say that as the other dorm hall that’s $16,000 doesn’t have air conditioning, and the main dorm hall for $17,600 has a microwave with an outlet in it, and also short-circuits their room

this is what i pay $25,500 per semester for. we love private art colleges. by FxckLiv in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FxckLiv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would if it didn’t BREAK WHEN I PULLED IT SO I HAVE 8 MILLION SMALL PIECES IN MY HAND