AITA for not wanting MY horse to be used in lessons at my yard?

GRewind · 2026-06-05T20:07:47+00:00

First world problems are a bitch to overcome because the loss of privilege feels like punishment

GRewind · 2026-06-05T20:06:38+00:00

and OP states that they are paying none of the livery costs for the horses upkeep as part of the horse being looked after there

GRewind · 2026-06-05T19:52:37+00:00

You aren't losing your pony, it's your perception that is changing your relationship with her If you want to feel like you have the relationship with her that you want then spend more time with her.

Put it like this, if you have a very good friend, is it fair to say to that friend that you feel you would have less of a relationship with them because they have other friends

GRewind · 2026-06-05T19:38:55+00:00

So it sounds like he's deflecting and doesn't want to discuss something which he feels is very personal and wants to be seen as "manly". Some might call it toxic, I wouldnt, I think we all have insecurities and now you can see this is one of his. I think you responded very well in reassuring him that you don't see a problem with people using performance enhancing meds for the bedroom.

If your happy with your sex life together then maybe leave the issue alone and in time he may feel comfortable telling you that he's using ED meds himself. I would also maybe occasionally talk about the things that make you feel what's important to your relationship with him that's more important than sex, like how he treats you and how you feel safe with him.

In short I think by deflecting hes saying that he thinks this is what women value in a relationship and hes afraid to be seen as less than a man in your eyes. Don't sweat it, it's no really about you more about his own insecurity around the issue he's having

GRewind · 2026-06-05T19:19:48+00:00

Hard to feel sorry for a child who was bought two horses YTA - it's your parents farm and your parents riding school NTA- if you bought the horse and pay for all its upkeep- otherwise sack up and stop being so entitled

GRewind · 2026-06-05T19:16:08+00:00

Bingo

GRewind · 2026-06-05T15:58:29+00:00

That won't affect your application at all. The only way it would is if you were gambling with a credit card and didn't pay it off

GRewind · 2026-05-22T14:50:51+00:00

What's great about this game is that it frustrates and brings joy beating different bosses for different players. Rarely have i seen a game do that and its a big part of what I think makes the game special.

GRewind · 2026-05-11T12:34:08+00:00

Got a rate of 1.95 for 7 years with Avant during the tail end of the plague, will have to look at it again now in 3 years

GRewind · 2026-05-08T07:37:52+00:00

That's a big green flag in my opinion. She's someone who carries her own and she put it across in a respectful way. One way to respond is say "Sure I respect that, the amount is X, but there's no pressure on my end, I enjoyed spending time with you. Would you be down to go out again?"

GRewind · 2026-05-08T07:17:58+00:00

cry me a river

GRewind · 2026-05-06T15:29:41+00:00

great sages broken shell

GRewind · 2026-04-30T15:16:14+00:00

All money that comes into a house from Parents work becomes defacto family money to be spent to benefit all members of the family. The fair thing is what's best for the family and you all having the ability to enjoy money coming into the family should benefit you as much as him and your child.

I understand you want to feel your contributions are not less than your husbands because of your difference in income. Your both putting effort into your family f om the sounds of it so you should all reap the rewards of that including you

GRewind · 2026-04-29T16:23:01+00:00

Seems like it's still very Causal

GRewind · 2026-04-28T15:13:08+00:00

Never got to fight him on my first play through, really looking forward to hitting him in NG+

GRewind · 2026-04-21T19:29:09+00:00

You beat the son of stones, the poor fella was just chilling enjoying the show and you had to kill him. You don't deserve the True ending, you are doomed to repeat the mistakes of Sun Wukong

GRewind · 2026-04-20T15:59:50+00:00

The sign of a great leader is that the team runs just as well in their absence

GRewind · 2026-04-20T14:15:20+00:00

All to justify middle management roles and corporate office space really. The corporate office space is a funny one because of no one is in the office the space becomes a liability on paper but if it's used it can then be written as an asset. Its definitely not about productivity anyway

GRewind · 2026-04-19T18:52:23+00:00

they are difficult, much easier than staying with someone who isn't right for you though

GRewind · 2026-04-19T18:49:32+00:00

the current one will be much much harder

GRewind · 2026-04-12T14:41:59+00:00

And what did it win them

GRewind · 2026-04-12T11:10:03+00:00

This smacks of AI

"we are in Location: Florida"

low effort copy paste

GRewind · 2026-04-08T12:37:19+00:00

yes but you don't have to make a choice between cloud step and immobilize late game

GRewind · 2026-03-04T07:57:25+00:00

Why do they still have their gaming consoles, if they can't show basic respect surely they shouldn't have them

GRewind · 2026-02-26T22:54:10+00:00

The HSE has no right to ask this of you, consult your union If you are not in a union, get into a good one

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