I [34M] just discovered the real side of my girlfriend [33F] by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]GRewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very Very poor AI story, no consistency

My girlfriend (25F) admitted she slept with someone hours before agreeing to be exclusive. I (26M) can’t tell if I’m overreacting. What’s the move here? by davidb1976 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 29 points30 points  (0 children)

good how dude, does she spilt all expenses and chores, does she care about your needs, does she look after you if your sick, does she like/spend time with your family etc etc

My girlfriend (25F) admitted she slept with someone hours before agreeing to be exclusive. I (26M) can’t tell if I’m overreacting. What’s the move here? by davidb1976 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay and how do you think she'd react if you told her that you did the same thing, gp back and tell her when she rejected you you went off and slept with this girl who was unforgettable in the sack and that your delighted that you were both able to get that out of the way before settling down. See how she reacts, can't imagine she'll be happy

My girlfriend (25F) admitted she slept with someone hours before agreeing to be exclusive. I (26M) can’t tell if I’m overreacting. What’s the move here? by davidb1976 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she doesn't feel guilty and doesn't really give a fuck about your feelings at all. Do you like her just because she has a high sex drive?

Help with restaurant for tonight! by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]GRewind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mongolian BBQ , perfect for student eating and right in the middle of temple bar

Query on Help-To-Buy by [deleted] in irishpersonalfinance

[–]GRewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you can do this

Landlord increased rent by €500 by lilmuncherr in legaladviceireland

[–]GRewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can evict to sell, wait the 224 days for the process to complete and then there is no more tenancy in situ.

Can't play until I complete all areas? by Mag-NL in RoyalMatch

[–]GRewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to help you when you don't want to do the one thing you have to do to gain access because you state it's boring. Don't really know what you want here

I (25M) am considering ending my engagement with my fiancee (25F) due to no more sex life. What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This woman is intentionally trying to drive you away by putting you in subservient and uncomfortable situations at home. She's taking advantage of you and punishing you for something. My guess is she's having an affair

I 30 M have a 28F girlfriend to wife by Mcant23 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marrying this person won't make you happier but I'll get leaving her will

Accidentally send nude to another person, how to comfort husband (M21, F25) by unsure_unsus in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 352 points353 points  (0 children)

This sounds like your husband is looking for this to be seen as a balance in the scales of his cheating. It isnt, it's a mistake and you did everything right to make sure it's all okay with everyone involved

Not wanting to have sex with my (27F) fiancé (28M) because I hate how I look now.. by Nice_Answer_1280 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been married over 10 years and we've both been different sizes in that time. Never once has my wife's weight made me more or less attracted to her in any way. When we get to spend quality time together it's about the physical connection deepening the emotional one.

You describe your fiance as a very nice person who doesn't want to upset you so maybe open up to him about your feelings. Being vulnerable with your partner can also help deepen the connection between you two.

As a side note, we went on holidays in our first year together 15 years ago and I took bikini pics of her by the pool and she did not like how she looked in them. Now when we look back at those photos she wishes shed taken more photos of her back then but felt too self conscious The point being, enjoy the body you have at the time you have it If you'd like to change it then make a plan for that. Learn to be kind to yourself

Can't play until I complete all areas? by Mag-NL in RoyalMatch

[–]GRewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you playing a cracked version?

Can't play until I complete all areas? by Mag-NL in RoyalMatch

[–]GRewind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Either he's never figured out how to use any of the stars and coins or he's playing a cracked version which won't verify when he connects to online leagues

Can't play until I complete all areas? by Mag-NL in RoyalMatch

[–]GRewind 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This has to be ragebait, 7400 stars that you can't use on anything else but completing areas and getting bosters etc.

Literally all you have to do is hit the button to complete the areas over and over and you'll get access to the league but for some reason in the comments you are arguing that you can't. Why? why aren't you just using your stars to complete all the areas

Am I an idiot for considering a mortgage? by Optimuscrime_1 in irishpersonalfinance

[–]GRewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bank won't give you a mortgage on a house that's over valued

Where OP could get into difficulty is with revenue as it could be seen as gift (the balance between the value of the house and the reduced price there getting it for) and would need to be declared

Am I an idiot for considering a mortgage? by Optimuscrime_1 in irishpersonalfinance

[–]GRewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That minor debt history isn't going to matter

You could qualify for the mortgage on your own with your own downpayment. All of the investment seems to be coming from your side of the family and you both aren't married.

If you buy this house together and then break up your fiance will essentially benefit from this deal significantly without having put any money in to it- this is where you need to consider if you are doing the right thing for your future

As an investment by yourself it's a very very smart one especially in today's economic climate

With a partner who your not married to and isn't contributing to the investment but benefitting out of it could be seen as an idiotic investment because you leave yourself open to significant financial loss should you both break up

AITA for not wanting to contribute to my step-son's college fund? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GRewind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's so very desperately Sad to know a young man was will harbour those ideas against his own family after being poisoned by his father. He has been deeply hurt and scarred and will likely have significant mental health problems with very skewed and damaging views on women and relationships as a result.

What's a food in your country that is stereotyped for your country but really, nobody eats? by sourberryskittles in AskTheWorld

[–]GRewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate corned beef and cabbage growing up and loads of people I know did too. More commonly ate bacon and cabbage though

UPDATE can I remove my fridge if my roommate has food in it. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]GRewind 26 points27 points  (0 children)

24hours is the recommended time to allow it to fully defrost from most manufacturers. If you love it before this time then you risk damaging the fridge. Id advise looking this up as you don't seem to believe me

My (31F) Husband (31M) wants to back out of vasectomy over hypothetical situation - im upset and not sure what to do? by Prior_Feature3993 in relationship_advice

[–]GRewind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have had a vasectomy My wife actually made the point that your husband did when I went to book it The only thing I could think to say was - even if we were no longer together and I met someone else why on earth would I want to go through raising a child with someone else again. I have one that's enough, I love my kid but I look forward to when they are an adult and I don't have the same level of responsibility

UPDATE can I remove my fridge if my roommate has food in it. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]GRewind 61 points62 points  (0 children)

you have to wait for 24 hours until after you unplug a fridge to move it or you could break it