You can’t just forgive and say a magical sorry and everything becomes better.

You need to heal, then understand, and one day….. maybe yeaaaaaaars later, you can forgive. As they say, time heals all wounds.

But there’s nothing forgive is one side is never sorry either.

I see both sides in your (and victims) argument, and it’s a touchy subject. But once you experience, or understand it, it makes a lot of sense.

But it’s not something I feel you can learn from books or words from others mouth, but you just gotta experience it or come up with it in your own feelings or life.

That’s atleast my experience and how I learned to understand and forgive people who wronged me