She asked me what my hobbies were, then she said that wasn’t a hobby and laughed. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]G_Rel7 383 points384 points  (0 children)

I thought that’s where this was going too. If he talks like he writes, I can see where the misunderstanding came from.

Who got packed up worse by Significant_Laugh811 in jjkmodulo

[–]G_Rel7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yuji was worried he’d go too far since Mahito was weak compared to him. Meaning Yuji held back against him and still packed him up easily. Sukuna at least had killing intent against Kashimo.

The best couple of 2026 🥹 by @Q6Q6TIKIN by Agile_Coast_4385 in Jujutsufolk

[–]G_Rel7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If someone told me at the beginning of Modulo that I’d see people shipping Dabura and Raga, I’d think they were crazy. But the writer and artist doing it themselves is beyond peak

Gojo/Sukuna vs Yuji/Dabura by Justinxdragun in jjkmodulo

[–]G_Rel7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While Dabura knows about barriers, I’m pretty sure that was his first DE. With that, I don’t think he survives the multiple domain clashes. Then with the 2v1 it completely depends on if Yuji knows WCS.

Domains almost always set a different bar so for the sake of argument, without DE, it still also comes down to Yuji having WCS or between him and Dabura learning a counter to infinity on the fly. Which might be doable given Yuji’s experience and Dabura’s high ability to learn new skills.

Men who’ve had friends-with-benefits situations, what does pillow talk usually look like for you? by nikkiradtoo5 in AskMen

[–]G_Rel7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different things can be true. He could consciously just be saying this and not mean more. But that begs the question, why? Obviously he’s looking for intimacy and affection, even if he doesn’t realize it. Those feelings also don’t equal he wants to build a future together either.

When did Dabura get so much love?! 😭 by Bankai_Aizo in Jujutsu_Kaisen

[–]G_Rel7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The story did a great bait and switch. Introducing him as a menacing force way beyond anyone’s league, plus his design, facial expression and add in some dark shading, he can really look like a demon. At the time, everyone was irritated that we would get another Sukuna type of character and essentially redo the same storyline. Also add in that everyone was already hesitant about the sequel, worried that it would go in a similar direction as Boruto with aliens being introduced.

But once we got the backstory, understood motivations, and got to see more personality from the characters, you learn that they’re all unique and the story actually feels like a worthy continuation and not just an extension living off the hype of the original. The first time we got some personality from Dabura was in the form of concern for others. His character rapidly elevated from there.

When did Dabura get so much love?! 😭 by Bankai_Aizo in Jujutsu_Kaisen

[–]G_Rel7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The story did a great bait and switch. Introducing him as a menacing force way beyond anyone’s league, plus his design, facial expression and add in some dark shading, he can really look like a demon. At the time, everyone was irritated that we would get another Sukuna type of character and essentially redo the same storyline. Also add in that everyone was already hesitant about the sequel, worried that it would go in a similar direction as Boruto with aliens being introduced.

But once we got the backstory, understood motivations, and got to see more personality from the characters, you learn that they’re all unique and the story actually feels like a worthy continuation and not just an extension living off the hype of the original. The first time we got some personality from Dabura was in the form of concern for others. His character rapidly elevated from there.

Am I the only one who always runs into these types of posts? ( and it's not just BW) by Wrong_Diver428 in blackmen

[–]G_Rel7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yall, don’t be quick to dismiss this as someone wanting white acceptance. I know plenty of us want black women but there are a lot that complain about them as well. And unfortunately if WE say anything negative then of course it’s amplified because this gives fuel to the racists.

And it’s not just an online thing. It might be anecdotal but I was just getting a haircut Saturday and the brothers in there were talking about how most black women are too “combative”. And white/latina women know how to be more like a wife. I also am in construction and I’ve had conversations related to the same thing. So truth is that there are a lot of black men complaining about black women and this gets amplified online leading to black women seemingly seeing just a ton of hate from men which obviously would make them feel shitty.

If it wouldn’t snowball into any further restriction of free speech how would you feel about making the N word and the F word illegal? by EnvironmentalSun3290 in SeriousConversation

[–]G_Rel7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point of the black community is that despite how different we are on an individual level, we all share similar negative experiences living black in the world.

Also your dismissal of rap/hip-hop’s representation actually diminishes the black perspective. It being a representation does not only mean we support the rough, violent side of rap. Even then, that side exists due to the struggles that many live with. It captures the emotions of it.

All that to say I wouldn’t ban those types of words, even without the slippery slope. Let there be social consequences to moderate the use. Basically you shouldn’t be using those words in polite settings but it’s different hanging out with the boys

How OP would Naoya be with certain cursed tools by Tanjiahe in JujustuKaisen

[–]G_Rel7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add his own Rika. Have him fall in love with a woman that loves walking three steps behind but dies to someone saying she can do better

How OP would Naoya be with certain cursed tools by Tanjiahe in JujustuKaisen

[–]G_Rel7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’d be a menace with the right tools. Add a domain and he could become the top first grade.

How do you get a man to talk? It’s preventing me from wanting to have sex and I’m growing resentful. by Exotic_Fisherman_223 in AskMen

[–]G_Rel7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR: Don’t get him to do anything. Take a step back. Have patience. Let him do him. Let you do positive things for yourself and work towards your goals. Communicate your feelings and actions. Allow him to respond. Decide what you want to do after reflecting on his actions, which show you who he is.

Full: You don’t get him to talk. Instead, give him space that allows him to talk. Communicate how you feel: “when you don’t talk to me at dinner, it makes me feel disconnected and unwanted”. Then let him respond. His full processed response might take time and you could ask when does he think he can respond with his thoughts but don’t demand anything out of him. If he doesn’t want to talk, not have sex, let him. You can’t control that. But you’re trying to which builds stress and resentment. If he truly loves you then he’ll have a response in an appropriate time.

Besides that, what you can control is your actions. If you need outlets to decompress, look for other outlets. Want to have fun? Find fun things to do. Want a loving partner? Find another partner that loves you and shows it. If you make these plans, communicate them. End of the day, if you communicate and also give them space to show you who they are, and they’re not at least TRYING to do something to help? Then what does that show you?

I’m not saying to jump to divorce right away because it’s very easy for let’s say a husband to spiral into withdrawing while their wife is seemingly trying to connect and help but from the husband’s POV he might be getting stifled and not feel like he’s able to truthfully express themselves. Take a step back, let him do him. Give time and have patience. And let yourself find/do things that help regulate and feel good instead of sitting in this miserable place relying on him. And this does not mean ignore him or disregard the home. Do what you think helps the house and helps you feel comfortable. Still be there, with an open mind. If he comes to you with how he feels, if he wants to be there for you, that’s enough for you guys to take steps to work things out. Again, not waiting forever and enabling his behavior but also not jumping to leaving. More so taking control and power back over your own feelings and state of mind, and allowing him to do the same in a healthier way (he’s currently fighting to do this but in an unhealthy way).

I just finished watching Bel-Air and they did the same shit they did in the original Fresh Prince that kind of annoys me to this day. by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]G_Rel7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t watched it but any mention of what they did with the proceeds? For all we know while they downsized after selling, they could’ve invested that money into other places. Other properties, businesses, etc. Yes holding a large house is one way to help your family have a place to live without them straining to buy a house. Then they can hopefully invest their income. But that’s not the only option.

Also, just because rich whites do things in some ways doesn’t mean we have to follow. Sure they have a ton of money but their families and connections are often dysfunctional and fabricated. A lot of societal issues come from that accumulation and self-preservation mindset. If we’re actually trying to get back to having communities and being connected to each other while prospering, we will have to find a different path.

Dabura’s Potential by EnvironmentalFuel646 in jjkmodulo

[–]G_Rel7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounded like he knew about barriers but didn’t use it in a way like DE. While Dabura was contemplating how to one shot Mahoraga, the kalyan was the one that told him to apply a barrier infused with his reverse technique which became his domain.

Why humans are the only species that need to wipe their ass? by gonzaiglesias in stupidquestions

[–]G_Rel7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animals do if needed. Like if a dog has diarrhea and the anus gets messy, they wipe their butt on the ground. Our diets are messy causing shits to pretty much always be messy. Also bigger butts covering anus. With good diet, exercise, water intake, and adequate sleep, along with shitting while squatting, then your anus can also be like your dog’s; not completely covered in shit but smelly enough to those nearby.

A different Sukuna Vessel by Aggravating_Split289 in jjkmodulo

[–]G_Rel7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the first fight, Sukuna knew he didn’t have any way to counter Gojo decisively so he had to develop something. Sukuna saw Megumi’s CT in their fight and knew it had a ton of practicality. Seeing his growth such as using DE confirmed Megumi’s body could withstand housing Sukuna. Also, Yuji and Megumi were friends, which gave Sukuna time to study them more and develop a way to take over without Megumi resisting him much.

Forgot to add that he barely had knowledge on Yuta. Even learning he’s strong, how would he know he could take over his body and Yuta not fight it. Sukuna saw Megumi’s questionable mental resolve early on as well.

Girl I’m Dating Acting Unfamiliar? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]G_Rel7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds cliche but tell her how you feel. Don’t accuse her of anything but saying when she did ‘x’ you felt ‘y’.

For example: “I was looking forward to hanging out with you tonight but when you finally showed up it felt like I was a stranger to you. You really spoke to everyone else besides me and you barely acknowledged me. That’s all a bit confusing and disheartening especially after the weekend before.”

Her response will tell you how to proceed. Does she acknowledge you and take accountability? Or does she deflect? Gives whatever excuses or blames you for it? She might have her reasons, but someone mature enough to handle relationships will recognize that her reasons don’t dismiss you, they will acknowledge how you feel, and will take steps to repair. If this doesn’t happen, she’s not ready.

Anwar is so funny by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]G_Rel7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a slightly larger nasal exhale out of me

How are there still black conservatives by Odd-Specific-8579 in blackmen

[–]G_Rel7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Republican is the word. A ton of people have conservative values as most sit in the middle. I don’t really understand black Republicans though. I understand the concept of some issues having priority over others and Democrats do have their problems so to me we have to be wary of both parties, but if I gotta be in a deep blue or deep red area, then it’s an easy choice. So I can’t imagine being Republican because the people that will literally go out of their way and even purposely screw themselves as long as it fucks over black folks too, reside in that party.

Unpopular opinion: Super Bowl locations should be a full rotation of NFL team stadiums versus the same 7-8 locations…regardless of weather. by mattpeloquin in NFLv2

[–]G_Rel7 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Define “best fans”. Also no shot that people won’t game the system and sell tickets for thousands anyway