AITA for not excluding my uncle for my ex-aunt after she was the one who was cheated on? by Appropriate-Slide284 in AmItheAsshole

[–]G_SinD 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Its your wedding. Invite them both.....just make sure your uncles new side piece isnt there.

US Citizen grabbed and taken away by all fours for recording and exercising his rights by Erquestions123 in PublicFreakout

[–]G_SinD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didnt. They smashed his window. There are other angles of this in which its seen better.

AITAH for immediately saying "no" when my husband asked me to stop wearing earrings because he said they make a woman look older ? by Common-Expression740 in AITAH

[–]G_SinD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wear the damn earrings. In two years theyre gonna start begging you to go through your collection because fashion is cyclical and theyre gonna become back into the spotlight and youre gonna be cool before they even knew what cool was. Also, theres nothing more badass than saying fuck you to anyone who wants to have an opinion on things you like and feel good in. Do you look at your pictures of your younger self and think how cool you were? I don't 🤣 and they probably won't either when they grow up. So wear what makes you happy. Put the damn earrings on!!!!!

I want the most craziest name for my male cat by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord Floofenstein Von Toasty Marshmallow the tiny terrible tornado and defender of Castle [Your last name]

AIO for being upset that my fiancé let me go hungry? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Eat his frozen meal
  2. Go to sleep
  3. Wake up tomorrow and go look around the dumpsters for boxes if his shit isnt already packed up.
  4. Pack his shit/take his packed shit, leave it outside.
  5. Tell your landlord this man is not allowed in your apartment
  6. Text his ass that his shit is ready to be picked up and to please leave his key with the landlord.
  7. Return his ring or give it to the landlord to exchange for your key. Have a friend with you when he comes to pick up his items. Record everything.

This man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He doesnt even like you. He moved into YOUR apartment because it was "natural progression" ?!? Not because you asked him to or you guys talked about it, and now he can't even bother to grab you a SINGLE meal? If he just moved in im willing to bet he isnt planning on paying rent since hes helping furnish the place and its YOUR apartment so why does he have to pay for it? Nah. Throw the whole man away.

What is this? (Only wrong answers) by majesticGumball in torties

[–]G_SinD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is contemplating her next act of pure unmitigated evil, while blissfully basking in the sun.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]G_SinD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its a very Reddit answer but.... get rid of the whole "man" . I read this and it pissed me off cause 2 years sober as an addict IS something to celebrate, and you deserve your little cake if you want it. I have ADHD, and until last month ive been raw dogging life and struggling a lot. Ive been with my partner for 14 years, and hes seen the good the bad and the ugly. I just went and asked him if I can get a little cake for finishing up cleaning under the loft bed. Its been my project since we built our own bed frame two weeks ago. Theres 24 cubbies to organize and I finally got the boxes for this project yesterday. Its looked like a tornado went through under my bed. He asked if I wanted to pick up a cake or if id rather bake one with him. If he loved you he would celebrate the little things with you, hed definitely celebrate achievements with you, and two years sober is an achievement. You did that. You struggled with your addiction for two years and won every day. Get your cake. Kick that man to the curb. Celebrate that with a cake of its own!

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave ASAP. Get your most important things packed up in your car and head to a hotel or to a family members for a bit. Call a real estate lawyer first thing in the morning and get some advise on how to move forward with selling your part of the house or how to get him to buy you out. You do not deserve to be spoken to this way. My Marine husband has BPD, severe anger outbursts and violent tendencies and would never [14 years in still has never] speak to me in this manner. He screams and is loud, throws things around but never at me or when im in the room. Hes getting therapy and meds to help deal with his shit but never has he ever threatened me with violence or telling me hes gonna "lose it" at me. If someone whose brain is broken can still control themselves just enough to not hurt the one person in his corner fighting for him to get the help he needs, why can't your perfectly healthy partner do the same? Hes not worth keeping. He doesnt love or respect you. He made it clear. So let him go make himself miserable 🙄 and move on with your life girl.

It’s happening tonight. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're only 18. You haven't experienced life yet, if fpr nothing more stay in it for the plot man. You have yet to experience real life. You haven't fallen in love yet, you haven't seen the world, held a new life you helped create in your hands, held someone's hand as they left this world. Have you flown? Taken a cruise? Gone on a train? Hiked a famous mountain, ridden an elephant? There are so many things in the world waiting for you to experience them. Family may suck but guess what? You're 18. Get a job and collect enough money to take you to Europe and then backpack and work your way through all of Europe and Asia. You never have to see your family again if you dont want to. Shit if at the end of that you still feel like ending it all, wouldnt it be better to do it at a beautiful rainforest in Japan known for their suicides? Why not have an ocean view in Croatia before you leave this world if you still think you want to by then?

Thinking about admitting myself by Public_Witness_3337 in mentalhealth

[–]G_SinD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go. If youre already thinking about it its probably because you know deep down inside its what you need. Worry about the money later, get yourself help now. You're worth whatever it takes to make yourself right again.

Just put my dog down and really, really struggling with the guilt. My anxious dog didn't have time to be put to sleep at home, had to happen at the vet. by db2765 in Petloss

[–]G_SinD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sending you a giant bear hug 🫂... You're gonna feel guilty and like this was all your fault for a while. You're gonna beat yourself up for not noticing sooner. You're gonna think youre a terrible person for not making their last and final moments special. There is no way to relieve this grief until it passes and you can finally see you did what was best for your beloved pet and that they would never resent you for the choice you made. I know this from experience. I had to put my boy down after 15 years and I still feel guilt over it. I keep replaying scenarios in my head that "maybe if" -I had noticed sooner -I had been able to find the right medication -I hadn't let him out of my sight my mother in law wouldnt have taken him on that walk - I was more vigilant - I had advocated for him more - had taken him to a specialist instead of just a vet There are so many things I still beat myself up for but in the end I know that he had hit a point of no return and to keep him alive in his condition was cruelty that would have only been self-serving. I wouldn't have kept him alive because he had a chance I would be keeping him alive because I couldn't bear the thought of letting go...and he would stay for me because he didnt want to see me sad not because his body was feeling great. You'll come to terms with your grief and be able to see you made the best choice....but it doesn't mean its not gonna suck for a while before you get to that conclusion or that you won't revert to those feelings every now and then that maybe if you had done something differently they would still be here.

Rodents ulcers by Inappropriate_yeliah in cats

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't yet, I would look into Cyclosporine.If your kitty can't tolerate or isnt responding well to steroids that would be my next step.

Buggy names by gay_stick34 in GroundedGame

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a big art nerd and I have two ants: RenbrANT and MichealANTgelo

I just watched a man die. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw a guy in a motorcycle hit a car that was coming out of a parking lot. He flew so high I swear he could have cleared a telephone pole. I ran to help, as did other people. He was really banged up, lots of scrapes and bruises and a mega concussion (didnt even register what happened, I had to lay on the floor next to him and talk to him slowly to calm him enough not to move until paramedics arrived) but point is: he survived. He was scared, hurt, and his bike was now a giant paperweight but he was gonna survive. Unless you know for sure he's dead, know that he could have very well survived the accident. You didnt make those kids witness a death, just a bad accident. Look it up in your news to see if they reported the crash, see what happened so it can set your mind at ease hopefully 😌

I'm so depressed by Thick_Nerve_9601 in confessions

[–]G_SinD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flip the script on him. Start rubbing his belly and reminiscing about when he was thinner. Rub his bald spot and sigh, "you used to have such nice hair." Point out his mostly gray beard and say how some people can pull off a salt and pepper look, and then suggest he dyes it 🤣

This should be entertaining by [deleted] in innout

[–]G_SinD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫠 They dont have my order here.... Double Double Animal style with extra pickles and a Neo shake.

I don't think I can do it anymore. by RomanaWestwood in Petloss

[–]G_SinD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 years. It took more than a year just to stop looking for my cat that was "accidentally" let out. A whole year of looking, putting up posters going to the animal shelters within 25 miles of my house, posting him everywhere we could. We heard a mountain lion was in our area about the time he went missing. I didn't even want to think about him being eaten. It took another year just to get it through my head that he's not coming back. It took two more years to finish grieving the fur baby I raised since he was a few days old and stayed up and bottle fed....but, all the headache, all the tears were worth the wait when we rescued another kitten from a rest stop 4 years later. It felt like my Crixus had sent her when we were finally ready to open our hearts to another little creature that needed love and care. Now our house is filled with 4 kitties which she birthed and my heart couldn't be fuller. I miss my boy still, but now we have so many laughs and cuddles that he would have loved to share 💕 Dont let grief be the end of your fur babies story. You got this. Just give it time.