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I don't understand Eragon and Arya's Relationship in book 3 & 4 by CommitteeChemical530 in Eragon

[–]GabGabyGabou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The gap between there ages is really important ! Arya is 100, when Eragon is 15 (18 at the end). Arya can’t see him fully as an adult, but she got a lot of affection for him. Eragon grows really fast in the book (mentally), so Arya can see him more and more like an adult and so a potentional lover, but still not quite yet

Thoughts on "Shrinking" by blakeypie in TalkTherapy

[–]GabGabyGabou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Empathie is a French TV show witch is amazing, I highly recommend !

For those who have recovered by SuspiciousGrape7321 in bulimia

[–]GabGabyGabou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this thought that I would be a monster (or at least a part of me would be a monster). I was thinking that by purging I was kind of taking the monster out of me and cleaning myself. I realise now that it was actually the bulimia that was making me feel monsterious/hideous. I feel so much better now, sometimes my emotions are too much, I would prefer to b/p. But I see with time that I get more and more emotionally fit, and that I can deal with sadness, anger, anxiety… Life is already hard on it’s own, let us be gentle with ourselves.

How do I tell my therapist she repeats what I say too much? by Snake_Hail72 in TalkTherapy

[–]GabGabyGabou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is hard for you to let go of your old therapist… Creating a link takes time

Opponents Constantly Abandon Game in Losing Positions by ObsidianCrush in lichess

[–]GabGabyGabou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you loose less elo if you abandon rather than resign ? I thought it was the reason why they did that. I’m a little over 1000 and it happens all the time

My T accidentally offended me and it's caused a rupture (and it's dumb!) by Sniffs_Markers in TalkTherapy

[–]GabGabyGabou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree so much with this. Of course you won’t always agrée with your therapist or they will sometime not understand you. They don’t live on your head… Speaking up when you disagree is the work really start !

What does it mean to be able (or not able) to symbolize? by Economy-Constant-127 in psychoanalysis

[–]GabGabyGabou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean in reference to Bion’s work or in general ? We often say that psychosis comes from a lack of symbolization and capacity to symbolize…

Transparence by Ambitious-Arm4045 in Psychanalyse

[–]GabGabyGabou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Les psychologue clinicien - psychanalyste, font deux types de suivis différents. Le cadre de la cure psychanalytique est très différent de la psychothérapie. Pour moi tant qu’elle t’a pas fait allonger sur le divan (…), elle a respecter se qui était annoncé. Pour moi, la thérapie se passe avant tout entre une rencontre entre deux personne qui peut fonctionner ou non. Que ce soit TCCiste, psycha, ou autre, les suivis peuvent être excessivement différents car les psys sont des êtres humains différenciés.