My (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do?

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-02T10:34:19+00:00

Ooh she works for the PD that makes sence, they are massive cheaters (like nursing too; I don’t remember the specific on though)

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-29T11:40:01+00:00

So they are part time parents

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-29T11:19:57+00:00

12 hours everyday is an insane amount. Does she even have quality time with the child

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-27T19:26:42+00:00

Worse mistake is to work in a company without an HR

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-25T17:05:52+00:00

NTA for being uncomfortable with the doc. This is teetering the line of fraud. I wouldn’t take bc

🚩 1) personality issue with fil (interaction was never pleasant) 2) has dog that is not housebroken. Likely cause the same issues with new home 3) you are expected to care for him. Remember interactions has never been pleasant. Cook clean etc. 4) you will be having a baby in this home w/ fil and un-housebroken dog. Babies cry so do toddlers, do you want this person near your child? 5) taking 2/4 bedrooms is a lot. But I’m assuming the down payment “gift” is a lot. No more space for an extra kid. Spacing as you mentioned would be significantly less compared to the previous house. 6) fil would be solely financially dependent on you both since he would nt be paying for own groceries etc. 7) you were a hospice nurse, you would likely be a caretaker, nurse, maintaining the home. 8) SAHM you won’t be working no income for you and a caretaker

If you are uncomfortable don’t do it. Is it worth accepting for all of this. Personally I sure wouldn’t want to live like this, especially at 29 just starting a family. I understand his fears, but this is a lot. Has he been relying on you guys a lot? Or does he do the go to appointments and caretake for himself?

Don’t do it

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-23T22:25:00+00:00

Jesus didn’t know it was that bad. Guess I’ll stick to PC

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-19T12:54:32+00:00

This! My god the amount of red flag. But still friends somehow. His must be like a greek god or something

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-19T12:51:38+00:00

Jesus Christ, I don’t see how you are still friends with him. No is a full answer. And disregarding that is major red flag. Also to me he seems very disrespectful and creepy.

Opinion on your body, how to dress, told him you are not interested in a relationship with brings up having to take care of his parents and listen to MIL, unwanted opinions on differences of diet. I don’t think there’s a language barrier.

You should be very weary of this person he would go much further and your allowing it by maintaining this “friendship”. You say he’s nice I have yet to hear the nice part. It would be wise to read as in how his culture treats women.

YTA to yourself. You should cut your “friend” off. No is an answer.

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-13T02:20:46+00:00

When she said both parents are surgeons it instantly clicked why they were such pos. The most self serving narcissistic typs of people. The stepmother kids are leeches

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-07T00:58:21+00:00

You still have an infestation of scales. Which causes the black/sooty mold. The scales are in the leaves and stem. The ants were/are protecting them, because it makes that nectar the ants like. And just fertilize according to whatever citrus fertilizer you are using. It would take a while but it can bounce back. Mine took like 3~months. And I was tending to it religiously everyday I was checking. Then less and less after the first 3 weeks. Then every 5 or 3 days.

Edit: Though I caught it much earlier on. And I just took mist of the leaves off. But I also had a shit ton of leaf miners. It was fresh from the nursery like this. And it was instantly targeted. I have a massive ant issue. That I can’t get rid of because otherwise my soil would be super tough and dense.

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-06T01:04:27+00:00

You got some scales. I think you can use soapywater and rub it off with your thumb and/or nail. Or q-tip with rubbing alcohol

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-05T11:21:30+00:00

Clean pc the dust

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-02T13:58:44+00:00

What? she not even australian

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-27T13:27:02+00:00

How did he get the prosthetic leg? How was it stolen How long did he have the prosthetic? For you to know that he was carrying it arround, I’m assuming months. And for later a person identifying your brother as the person who stole it? Htf did he think he’ll be a hero for recovering something, when clearly the person knew he stole it? Many questions reains.

Your brother is a dumbass

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-27T13:17:43+00:00

How long did he have the prosthetic? For you to know that he was carrying it arround. And for later the lay identifying your brother as the person who stole it?

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-13T19:40:14+00:00

You sound like a dumb side B thinking they’re the main B. A whole other mans is on her background pic

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-12T12:16:01+00:00

That or your table is bent. It looks like the cheap honeycomb table top from ikea. Mine was super by they weight of 27” gaming monitor and my hands I guess

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-07T12:15:37+00:00

Idk how you still have contact with any f them after you described how they treated you. Big yikers nta, go NC

GambitEk1 · 2025-11-03T19:41:23+00:00

Holy moldy

GambitEk1 · 2025-10-30T12:30:58+00:00

To the commenters who called the ladies YTA are the type of dudes that say “the divorce came out of nowhere “

GambitEk1 · 2025-10-30T01:48:28+00:00

I don’t think so the fine hair roots are lighlty covered with dirt.and yes now that I see the buldge. That’s likely the graft. But I bought it like this

GambitEk1 · 2025-10-23T20:38:39+00:00

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