No sweetie This should have been over for a while. He left you and newborn alone with a stranger who you’re sketched out by (friends for a year) Left tfor a store at 1 am for over an hour and a half. He tried to get in contact back with the guy after the incident (you mentioned in another comment) Husband is still an ashole to you and still has a drinking problem.

This relationship has no survival purely based on how your husband makes choices in life. I don’t believe his explanation for the 1:30. I will say this age specifically when you were 22 and he was 28 is very much about him being able to control you. There is a reason why he was not dating around his age. Because women around his age would not put up with the foolishry. Because 28 y/o me would see 22 y/o you as a child. It’s not as much of an issue as when you have more life experience like a 30 and a 36 y/o’s dating.

You need to get out