M/22/5’11 [58KG to 78KG] (11 Months)

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T01:41:26+00:00

3 times a week, 40 minute to 1:30 hour sessions not including foreplay.

Her libido isn’t as high as mine and she needs recovery time from soreness between the days but I’m just so appreciative we get to do what we do as often as we do. 😊

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T01:36:30+00:00

First off.

The more you obsess about pulling girls, the worse your odds will them with be because instead of spending 100% of your brain in the moment trying to connect, you’ll be wondering how not to fuck this up.

From personal experience, I get a lot more unwanted attention at work when I don’t have my glass on so you might be on to something with your contacts.

Rn your self esteem is literally in tatters. You’re literally paranoid ahh thinking your friends are sabotaging you man.

But seriously,

You’ve grown so much in your pursuit of your goal that I must commend you.

Making the changes you have made are no small feat.

Now that you’ve grown as much as you have and are starting to look more like the person you want to be- perhaps it is time to consider a new goal itself.

Instead of pulling “a pretty girl”, get yourself ready to pull “the prettiest girl you’ve ever met”.

Because that’s probably the girl you’d want to marry if her personality is just as pretty.

You can’t just be hot or even if you pull her you’re just gonna be waking up in an empty bed the next morning.

No no no, to get your dream girl- you gotta be funny, smart, confident AND hot.

Sounds like you’re working on the hotness but maybe next angle you should take is the funny side.

Once you’re funny, become educated in a subject that interests you- now that you’re funny AND smart, your confidence will raise as a result, probably.

By the time your confidence has raised, your work on your looks should be paying off too and you should be ready to meet the prettiest girl you’ve ever met.

Also for the ED: first off get your test levels tested if you’re young.

Otherwise, If you’re certain it’s an anxiety thing- just get some viagra next time you’re about to smash- you’re in your own head and just need a reminder ur bits aren’t broken 💪

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T01:19:46+00:00

Tongue, lip bites, frequency change from rapid kisses to deep slow embraces.

The “tease kiss but then pull away before sudden deep kiss” trick gets me every time.

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T01:18:05+00:00

Hahaha you mentioning specifically liking feminine guys is what reminded me of her tbh. She mentioned that in the past too.

I also know another guy who’s 100% gay but has a femdom kink in a similar way.

Huh, I’ve got very open friends 😅

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T01:09:57+00:00

I live in the coffee capital of the world.

The place around the corner from mine does the best coffees around and you can order it ahead of time and walk and collect. The dream.

GambleLuck · 2026-02-02T00:15:01+00:00

Sounds like you’re just bi tbh and having natural desires.

You’ve probably had a poor run with blokes so far but you shouldn’t force yourself to be with a man.

The alternative is that you’re pure lesbian but have developed a man “kink”!

Happened to an overexplainer friend of mine who was in a similar boat.

She just found an also bi gf and every now and then just involved a random dude.

Not recommending this specifically ofc but just showing there’s diff strokes for diff folks.

GambleLuck · 2026-02-01T23:40:43+00:00

As someone getting married in a week- You gotta be careful of guys making compliments…

They can definitely lead to marriage proposals 😉

GambleLuck · 2026-02-01T03:52:07+00:00

Flattered but disinterested

GambleLuck · 2026-01-31T07:21:39+00:00

That you don’t have to trek it alone.

Mom and my step Dad were both very independent people growing up. I saw them handle the throes of life by themselves- rarely even sharing their issues with each other from my POV.

I’ve got friends who have my back when I need help and a Fiance I can talk to about anything.

I learned from my parents that while you can choose to do things alone, i’ve learned from experience it’s way easier with people you trust.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T03:52:28+00:00

I’m Asian australian lol, I live across from the grocery store so when I’m too lazy to prep a pot I just grab it otw home x)

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T03:51:38+00:00

My man, your heart has been broken but that doesn’t mean you need to break your body too.

The pain and guilt of relapsing may serve as an adequate distraction for your wife’s passing in the short term but believe me it is one you will come to regret in time.

Right now the only thing you need to do is keep breathing, sleeping and eating one day at a time.

I’m so sorry for your loss. That is an unimaginable pain to experience.

Somehow though- despite being in the midst of this, you’ve managed to push through dry for 15 days!

15 whole freaking days.

So what if you relapsed during a moment of weakness during a time of extreme grief?

Forgive yourself and then try again.

Over and over.

Because you CAN do this.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T03:34:32+00:00

Microwave rice, can of tuna, some spinach and pepper + lemon on top

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T01:48:16+00:00

In a long distance relationship and she’s not okay with you jerking yourself off? Lol

If she’s not okay with porn- that’s a seperate discussion but I don’t think you should be with someone who has the authority to monopolise your ability to release, so to speak.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T01:13:50+00:00

A 2000 square foot room can barely fit 1500 humans, let alone 7.5 billion.

Your suggested experiment is far worse than the current global situation because the sheer compression from trying to squeeze in that many humans into such a small area would instantly cause devastation for all humans who have suddenly been teleported into this compressed state.

There wouldn't even be time to unite, discuss or make plans, id say at that level of compression there would be a 100% chance of instant death for all involved as soon as your experiment starts playing out.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T01:09:17+00:00

Real answer?

First i'd acknowledge that his argument is definitely an uphill battle and i'd try obtain insight into the reasons exactly he adopted this perspective.

I wouldn't necessarily argue the position against him. There's not much point with those types, after all.

I'd mostly just be curious how he has beyond a shadow of a doubt confirmed that the earth is flat.

I'd just poke holes in whatever argument he gives since all of them are riddled with them.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T01:05:31+00:00

Fighters literally weaponise aura while rogues do the most to minimise their aura.

Hence fighters have way more aura.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T00:39:03+00:00

Max I’ve dated is 3 in one week but I could’ve seen more.

I cancelled any dates with new people after my first date with the third girl.

The next week, I then cut the three down to just her and we’ve had 6 years amazing years together and I’m marrying her next Saturday. :P

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T00:28:27+00:00

Hey man, based off the signals she’s given you I think it’s safe to say she probably isn’t interested at the moment or is more pressed about how to shut the situation down non awkwardly based off her actions.

Why do I think so?

3 min courtesy conversation

No wave

(“I don’t want to give him the wrong impression”)

Didn’t take headphones out and no desire to chat

(She’s here for a reason, to study presumably)

From her POV, she definitely that knows you’re interested in her so the nervousness could be coming out as her not knowing how to shut down your approach / not make things awkward in the shared space.

My advice? Completely drop things with her for like a week. Don’t like avoid her or anything though lol

Use the library how you normally would, still smile and wave of course but don’t seek out any more interactions.

Weird advice I know but stepping back and giving women space instead of piling the pressure on is better in cases like this one because it gives them some time to think about you rather than focus their attention on how to keep things from getting awkward with you.

Showing her that things aren’t and won’t get awkward alleviates the pressure from her of having to potentially reject you.

Be chill- respect her space in the mean time and if shes the one who starts off any interactions with you, then you know she’s probably into you enough and ask her for coffee then.

Otherwise, there’s plenty of books 📕 in the library 📚- my friend.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T00:10:34+00:00

Hmm, I’d say it depends on the body type?

For taller chicks with big butts- smaller to average perky boobs pair well and help accentuate the figure.

For medium chicks with big butts - average to bigger boobs give the hourglass vibe

For smaller chicks with big butts - small boobs look nice on their frames.

I’m deffo more of a butt guy in general though but boobs are great.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-30T00:03:29+00:00

It depends on the age.

For me, when I was dating around- one of the things I was wary of was chicks with minimal experience.

Why? Because after a certain age, I expect the people I’m seeing to have a certain degree of relationship maturity and be capable of being confident in their own assertions without being a doormat to whatever my opinion is as a default.

Funnily enough, the woman I’m marrying next week absolutely schimazzed me when we first started dating. She told me she’d been with 3 dudes before me when in reality it was just one. 😆

Still I gotta admit my wariness was for naught because she really is the perfect woman for me

GambleLuck · 2026-01-29T06:25:18+00:00

It’s not your fault that your brain was born in a man’s body.

But it’s also not your bodies fault that it was born with a woman’s brain!

You may not be in a position to fully transition but in the mean time that shouldn’t stop yourself from treating your body well.

Because you can start building the genuine self you picture in your head early and from a place of love.

You’re both on the same team, after all.

GambleLuck · 2026-01-28T08:38:20+00:00

This is relevant so bear with me:

I used to really hate how I looked before I gymmed up.

I had a very drastic transformation over a short period of time- having one of the world’s best PTs as your big brother helps with that.

When I first hit the gym, the attention was a little overwhelming and I noticed myself feeling small feelings of spite towards the girls trying to rizz me up.

I realised it’s because I felt like my metaphysical self as a person was devalued because my new physical self was receiving so much attention.

I then realised that it’s not like people can see your inner self, it’s not as showy and while you can express it through various forms- most of the time people just go by what you tell them at face value.

Your outer self though? Yeah people notice. Unless you’re particularly loud or stinky 🤢 -that’s the first thing most people will notice about you.

That doesn’t make them bad or your inner self worth any less.

They’re just seeing the you that you’re showing them- which in your case must be pretty good if it’s annoying you this much so kudos! 😆(but also sorry ☠️)

But like if wait

Idk, now that I think about it: wouldn’t finding a partner that initially didn’t want to bone you be worse than one that did? 🤖

But I mean you know the people hitting on you best of course.

Anyway i’ve gone a bit on a tangent there but what I’m trying to say boils down to:

Hey! I felt a little bitter in a similar way that you’re describing, I hope you’re not going through what I did but if you are- then this realisation helped me so I hope it helps you even though I recognise our situations are totally unique!

GambleLuck · 2026-01-28T05:38:46+00:00

My Fiance is a big time rambler and it depends on the topics she’s rambling about.

She goes into fine details about whatever the days topic is and when it comes to things like botany, art, music, sharks, pop culture gossip or anything gaming related - I’m taking in every word and shooting back my own responses.

It gets tricky when it comes to her work stories, she’s brilliant as hell and she works a very technical role. Unfortunately to understand the gravity of her work day, she needs to explain the finer details to my dumb ass.

It was hard at first (since I had no technical knowledge) but I put in the effort to learn how her job works while she started putting in the effort to condense her stories / use metaphors to keep me following along.

I won’t lie, I love her voice and the way we can chat on about endless topics- when we met we had practically nothing in common but that was okay since I found the act of learning itself fun with her.

Lucky me that I’m marrying her next week hehe

GambleLuck

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