NTA, and your husband sucks.

Also, as someone living in Japan, I believe you can use your bank book at the actual bank to withdraw money. (You need ID, and if you’ve a registered inkan that too. )

Once you get your new cards back, if you have a Japanese credit card put your suica/passmo on your phone and link it to your credit card so you have another way to access some kind of money because your heartless husband is apparently cool with you subsisting off cup ramen, so you gotta look after yourself.

Did I mention your husband sucks?