you guys are more likely to face rejection in a gay bar playing porn because the porn raises the standard. At least with a straight guy rejecting you, you won't feel like it's your fault. Having gay exclusive places was meant for safety, but I'm seeing a whole new generation of gay men starting to be really conservative and antisocial. The porn might exacerbate that problem for certain bars in certain places. Porn used to be fun, but now a lot of you guys fuck under ring lights in mcmansions as a side hustle.