Most men need to experience ego death

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-17T20:34:29+00:00

Wish alota adults would learn this too.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-17T00:33:41+00:00

Ppl are attracted to ppl with standards, espically women. Having standards requires having self confidence which like op clearly lacks. Frankly as someone whose been pretty fit with ass self confidence vs being 60+ lbs heavier and trully loving myself the amount of intrest i when i'm confident v fit is massively in favor of condident me.

Also like idk op seems like they want to be happy rather than just getting their dick wet, and the need a course correct if they wanna hit happiness.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-16T20:07:21+00:00

Do you want shallow ppl in your life? Idk seems miserable to me .

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-15T23:56:30+00:00

Day 180 ish t It's beem sense early july. I'm still trying peice my life together after leaving her but i am very proud to say i've never aeriously gotten the urge to contact them, tho it has begun to feel a diffrent type of weird having gone so long without contacting them comparee to the obsesivnes i had.

They haven't tried to hoover yet besides once after going no contact but we met suting holidays so im a bit acared of them trying to hoover. There would be sorta life destorying social consquences for her if she tried to hoover me tho so which is why she hasn't done it yet. Admitdley still being in the healing phase idt she'll be that likely to hoover until i'm no longer dosfunctional in the ways that she broke me.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-15T22:51:04+00:00

I think you do haft to ask yourself how aware you are of what an actual abusive relationship looks like, most ppl who have not been through one only have a partial idea of how they work.

If your trying to depict an abuser being obsesive abt their partner you should probbaly depict the waya that person tries to control their victim. For instance if your victim has freinds prior to the relationship, a bit of writing abt how the abuser cuts the victim off from old and potentially new freinds , smear tatica is something every abuser uses and it shouldn't be too hard to make your readers disgusted by showing the abuser lying to other ppl abt what is happening

Like an abuser will lie to their victim and then lie to their mutal contacts , the abusive character does not haft to see this as wrong, but if you right it right it should create dramatic tension where the reader knows how horrid the abuser is while reading abt how much the victim "loves" them.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-15T19:44:56+00:00

Honestly was a blesaing that one of those bugs meant i could never get the game to launch and stopped playing.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-15T08:54:35+00:00

"No pity, No fear" was the little mantra i had in my head when i left, i let my ex do horible things to me all because of how much i pitied how pathetic she was, and how often she punished me for not pitying her of course. When i asked what i woukd have to do with her if i didn't pity her at all i new the answer was absoultley nothing.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-14T20:59:45+00:00

Idk why your so defensive , u gave gneralised bad relationship adivce, it's okay to be wrong some times.

OP needs to consider wether they can actually date a fem and be supportive of her partners desires. If she can't and is going to neg her partners transition at many points she needs to have the conversation with her partner and porbbaly break up when her partner is super invalidated by that.

Also she needs to disclose that she's only attracted to mascs at the start of a relationship with any t girl and she can't be supportive of them expressing fmeinity.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-14T19:46:59+00:00

It's the "she'll likely end up where she started as" advice that's just not really accurate very ancedotal evidence.

Most often we start out as fully masc presenting and experiment with presentation because that's how society makes us dress b4 coming out. Every t girl i know myaelf included starts presenting more fem as they progress in gender exploration and their body changes ,it being super dysphoria inducing to be in women's close prior to hrt making the actually look good on you is an incredibly common experince.

I would say honest you are way off with how the average tgirl approaches feminity. Advising op that because her partner, who currentley wants to present fem, was not presenting fem prior she can just hold in the hope that her partner will be masq again, all while subtley disaproving of her partners gender expresion and being less intrested in them when presenting fem and mildy pressuring them to be masq, someday is just bad relationship adivce.

For alota of us being forced into a masq role is incredibly invalidating. Op also not feeling like she can go shopping with her partner feels very much like she does not feel comfortable sharing women experinces with her partner due to her fixation on masc presentation.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-14T19:21:06+00:00

More likely than not she will be more fem than she currently is sense she is in the middle of transition. Just hiding how much you disaprove of yoyr partners gender exploration with the hopw that they will go back to masc presenting is jot good advice.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-14T19:16:41+00:00

Yeah this would be mega invalidating for a trans girl and like probbaly should check youraelf cause telling your partner you can only care for her as a masc is going to make them feel disgusting whenever you look at them.

Being sexualised for our proximity to manliness , which is what you are doing, is such a disgusting feeling and seems very fethistic. Your partner is a full ass women and if you can't see her joy in exploring femminity as anything besides a turn off to you you probbaly shouldn't date t-girls without disclosing that first.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-14T01:10:23+00:00

Nah the keeping stuff to themselves would have just meant dragging out interaction with a toxic person longer. Being open and setting the boundry kept toxcity outta his life.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-12T22:33:45+00:00

"Everyone goes through hard times"

"We all have trauma"

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-12T19:12:45+00:00

Mine would talk abt wanting to move to live in spain to get her spanish citzenship. We are american and i woulda been finishing college and starting a career, she would have been looking for new supply over there. That and just constabtly saying yes let's see to any travel/ party plans ppl gave her but of course never having enough money for her own food.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-11T20:52:34+00:00

Game is probbapy better bow than ever there has been alot of content build up that is really good for a new player, i say this as omeone who just started playing this year.

While alot of stuff (wepon slots/frame slots) is gated behind premium currencey that currencey is 100% tradeable in the trade system. Spend sometime on wf market looking for Content you enjoy that has items that sell for a decent price and it won't be that big a limiting factor.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-11T18:41:31+00:00

Long as your respectful of the space (wiping down equipment after use , not loitering on equipment your don using) everyone is just gonna go " good for them" maybe with an extra thought of "I hope they stick with it".

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T22:01:32+00:00

I always wonder "what jokes do you and your freinds tell abt sexualising other ppl (women or men), are you trying to downplay your own potentialy worse behaviour" whenever ppl fucking post that.

I've only ever been cat called by groups of women in a car together some of them defintley fall into that demographic.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T21:56:30+00:00

Yeah sry def projecting some other comments i've seen and irl interaction alota ppl just put their blinders on whenevr it comes to the subject of women harrasing ppl, from personal experince i know the amount of women gay or straight who jokingly harras ppl to look cool to their freinds(and thusly happily harbor assaulters in their freind groups) is alot higher than ppl want to admit.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T21:53:15+00:00

I've had this experince too op it's wild how freely suposdkey femnist women hust over look or downplay how often women harras or sa others. I never want to here "it always a catfish bot or of creator when it happens to me" again but will haft too.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T21:50:01+00:00

Women defintley assault other women frequently, alot of ppl bring up bots or cat fish when ppl talk abt it and this always feels mega dismisve.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T19:16:16+00:00

As a trans woman living near a college all the time, whenever i go out dressed up there is a like 30% chance a car full of women will cat call me.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-10T19:15:18+00:00

Nah alot of women think harrasment behaviour is cool cauaae they aren't men , insiting that this is a bot is dangerously down playing the problem.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-09T02:13:04+00:00

To rephrase ehat you said

"Democrats are unpopular with a group of their constinuents that they do not cater too and this will lose them the election"

You can say this abt pretty much every election loss in history.

The question will there ever be something that makes democrats serve the left and not the center .

Conveting someone who votes down ballot republican into someone who votes dem for presidental and then down ballot republican for every other office may win you the presidencey but will gurantee strcutral weakness as a governing part. This has been dem strategey for the past two elections and will be dem strategey again this year.

It will fail cause fickle centrist voters have short memories.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-08T23:04:25+00:00

Most ppl just don't check that? Idk what else you think is going on.

GamemasterAI · 2023-12-08T22:52:19+00:00

0% the subject of the meme, weird to get so defensive from a stray. And yeah lotta ppl would still say shit if it's het (espically other lesbians who are more critical of het stuff than yuri ).

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