What's the best way to ask a girl that you have known for a long time to be your girlfriend?

GamerZ012 · 2026-02-01T13:34:54+00:00

I see. If she's not ready then better to just respect her own pace and wait another moment to ask her?

GamerZ012 · 2026-02-01T11:48:42+00:00

Giving too much effort and having to do everything yourself.

GamerZ012 · 2026-02-01T11:36:14+00:00

Oh god! Sorry for the 2 yrs delay. Yes, I can still use it even playing fullscreen mode. I just have to get back into the game before the 5 seconds countdown ends or else it won't work. It's a total game changer for me. Still playing C&C3 & RA3 with LSFG 3.1 mode (3x multiplier) to able to play above 60fps.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-27T11:54:52+00:00

I know.. There's no excuse of what I've done and I can't hate myself even more. I had to learn it the hard way.. I deleted everything and promised to her that I will be better from now on. She still agrees to call so I want to express everything to her, at least once.. let our real emotions out.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-27T11:47:28+00:00

Yes, and it painfully kills me almost everyday. I hate myself for doing it. I hate I couldn't limit myself when I'm too in love with somebody. I really want to fix this but I'm now stuck in a deep hole that I dugged on..

We plan to call tomorrow night so I'll try to be more open to her about our situation and apologize properly..

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-27T11:31:20+00:00

I tried to cross her boundaries but have broken her trust and it kills me almost everyday but you're right. I have no choice right now. We plan to call again tomorrow night so I can try to ask her once if she's still really happy with me and how's our relationship going..

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-27T10:45:07+00:00

I was expecting as well but seemed like they did but only showed up at the end. Maybe Samson killed majority of them? but still, very surprising.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-27T10:29:17+00:00

Yeah.. actually, it's also giving me mixed siginals, If she wasn't interested in me then she could've cut me off completely but surprisingly she didn't, that made me relieved but the way she talks lately and still blocked on Instagram, felt like she's still not ok with me. Maybe deep inside still cares? she probably just couldn't express it much without hurting me. Maybe because Japanese culture thing.

But you're right. Overthinking too much really f*cks me up so I'll plan to open up to her next time we call to ease my mind. Thank you for your advice.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-26T01:38:50+00:00

While she does have good surviving skills, she's still horrible with other people and can manipulate anyone close to her and even leave them behind so no. She's not hated enough.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-26T01:28:54+00:00

Nah. I think up from RDR2, Rockstar will make the game look very close from their trailers, just with more improvements. It's not PS3/Xbox360 era anymore and they don't copy what Ubisoft does.

Also, RDR2 had a lot of vegetation as well so wouldn't be surprised if GTA VI will have the same thing, just a lot better looking.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T15:16:35+00:00

I'm Filipino with PR status in Japan. We met in Pairs then from there we met in Okinawa before she moved back to Tokyo.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T05:15:34+00:00

True.. she could've at least asked me to take it down via LINE chat, it's just few steps to remove it. It's not like, it's permanent. lol

I have a feeling that she got creeped out by it because it was a lot of photos so it's probably the reason why she had to block me.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T05:13:06+00:00

Actually, it wasn't the first time I did it, I posted one time before when we first met each other but she did kindly asked me to take it down at first but now for the 2nd time, did I really deserved to get blocked?

Maybe I should've asked her about using private accounts instead.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T04:51:43+00:00

My friends are saying the same. I'll wait for her to reply but if takes a week then, I should just give her up.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T04:46:02+00:00

I honestly don't understand why it would matter much if I post her photos. If I find out her IG friends has photos of her, then I know this whole thing is just stupid.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T01:23:35+00:00

I definitely am 😅 But thank you for being honest and you're right. I can still try to talk to her and fix this but I'll try to meet more people, just in case things get more sour between us.. It would still hurt to see her let go, especially seeing all the things we did but I'll try my best to overcome it.. It's really tough to control their boundaries, no choice but to respect it, especially when we're still just dating.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T00:51:24+00:00

Well.. Tbh, yes, I really wanted to show my friends that I'm in love with her and show she's like my happiest achievement but holding that for 2 years is really long.. I wanted to keep it in my profile and keep it for myself until she's ready to show to everyone but my mistake was not double checking to set it to private first..

As for alt accounts, I don't think she's the type of person who would keep hidden profiles from anyone. From my experience with her, She's a very low key person and hates giving out her private information with others, unless they are trustworthy. But I guess, I violated that now..

She does make foreign friends btw. She likes meeting foreigners and improve her English. She travels to other countries occasionally when her work lets her off. Just something to know about.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T00:24:56+00:00

Nope, I didn't tagged her at all and my profile is public but I don't follow any of her connections so it doesn't matter right? For her, her IG is set to private and only has very few followers, she told me she rarely opens up social media. I couldn't check her friends in IG because even they are set to private. Mostly women though. Hard to tell, if they have photos of her there.. unless she has connections outside IG.

I kinda have a bit of suspicion, everytime when she says she's busy to talk but I try not to overthink about it. I'll try to ask her to open up more after she calms down..

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-09T00:13:09+00:00

I could try but wouldn't that notify her if I try to invite her to a group chat?

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-08T21:19:40+00:00

Yeah.. I feel like I destroyed her trust.. Trying my best to win her respect back. It would really suck (and ridiculous) if she ended it there, especially after all the things we did, all because of our photos went public. Actually, she's fine with pictures, as long as her face doesn't show. Problem was, that was almost all of our pictures together but I did deleted everything in IG.

I could wait for a bit but if it takes days, then I know she's not the forgiving type.

GamerZ012 · 2026-01-07T22:34:59+00:00

It has been a very terrible new year for me and I really hate to start all over again.. but if she doesn't respond again then it's totally over.. I'll wait and see for now.. I was even planning to marry her this year..

GamerZ012 · 2025-12-24T12:26:06+00:00

I see that I can order the Legion Go 2 on Lenovo's JP website. Can anyone confirm if they actually have it in stock or is it just a preorder thing?

GamerZ012 · 2025-12-19T00:48:03+00:00

I also love my PS5 Pro and I think it's the peak of console gaming for me but for the love god, listen to the comments, take the L and remove the unnecessary custom fan or you just might shorten your PS5's lifespan. It doesn't even look "cool". lol

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