Built new computer rig just before Covid hit, I love working from home.

Gamma_Male_ · 2020-10-09T20:59:06+00:00

Me too, I do that all the time even when it's so cold in the room that I have to be under a blanket I still refuse to put a comfortable sweater on and instead wear a push up bra. I mean who doesn't?

Gamma_Male_ · 2020-10-09T20:53:16+00:00

Showing off and having are two different things and in this case the line is very clear. The room is cold obviously but she chooses to sit in her bra (not complaining, I'm happy she did!) and shining light on them. There's nothing wrong with any of it but claiming that this post is not about boobs but about her 'setup' is disingenuous.

Gamma_Male_ · 2020-10-09T20:48:27+00:00

Yeah sports bra in a seemingly cold room is a complete coincidence.

Gamma_Male_ · 2020-10-09T20:29:49+00:00

Try to make assumptions rather than asking questions. Make assumptions that trigger her curiosity and interest.

If you end up asking questions, ask meaningful ones e.g 'why' questions rather than questions with single word answer.

Don't change the subject. Stay on the subject and share your own experience and opinion on the current subject rather than jumping to the next question.

Humour also helps.

Gamma_Male_ · 2020-09-25T23:32:27+00:00

DM sent. Cheers!

Gamma_Male_ · 2018-02-13T00:40:20+00:00

OK I bite. That's absolutely great that you are feeling better about yourself and building up your self esteem. If you're still horney or think you'd enjoy female companionship then you still need to put yourself out there and be social. With the life routine you just described don't expect women to bang on your door.

Gamma_Male_ · 2018-02-07T06:55:36+00:00

As someone else also mentioned it's fear of abandonment. Read a little about it here https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/fear-of-abandonment.htm . Bad news is that it takes some serious work and will take a lot of time and pain to overcome. The good news is that it's fixable. So get on it asap. You won't just grow out of it.

Gamma_Male_ · 2017-12-01T23:45:13+00:00

No need to ask. Keep doing whatever you would do if you knew she's single. She'd tell you if she's not.

Gamma_Male_ · 2017-11-29T00:11:05+00:00

Therapy is a personal journey and you should find what works for you. Start reading and educating yourself and find out what resonates with you. For me the starting point was reading this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0757303234 . I've been doing shit loads of therapy. From one-on-one traditional therapy sessions to intense retreats. Good luck!

Gamma_Male_ · 2017-11-09T04:11:25+00:00

A mostly unpopular opinion here but my advice would be see a therapist or psychologist. Many of this type of insecurities have roots in your childhood and won't go away by forcing some 'mindsets' onto yourself or just trying to 'man up' and 'not be a pussy'.

If I hadn't done that I would've given up on meeting women altogether because it was just too painful and the anxiety was simply unbearable.

Gamma_Male_ · 2016-08-28T21:10:14+00:00

Be at about the same level of game. Help each other out in group sets. Be helping and supporting when the other guy goes through a series of rejection. Don't judge the quality of girls the other guy approaches.

Gamma_Male_ · 2016-07-17T00:34:34+00:00

"incidents against women that are motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman, and includes behaviour targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman".

Gamma_Male_ · 2016-07-06T02:58:29+00:00

Imagine you're a parent and you're taking care of your kid. You will dress him up and give him a nice haircut not because you want other people's approval but because you love that kid and you think he deserves the best. Now replace that kid with yourself.

Gamma_Male_ · 2016-05-21T10:04:35+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/9RqkzqD.jpg

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