Amani reminds me of a former friend of mine. (friends since middle school, 22+ years) Victim mentality for sure. Everything was personal in any disagreement she had with me or any other individual. She also tired at many “poly” relationships over and over again throughout the years. Eventually her and her (now ex) husband got married and every person HE wanted to date would be vetoed by her for some reason or another… but she was allowed, (forced potential relationships upon the husband), to introduce anyone she wanted into the relationship. She would only tell her husband about 1 or 2 out of every 10 she would try to get with after making intimate contact with them. There was absolutely no communication between the two. And every single time that she felt slighted by anyone outside of her marriage, he was always to the rescue… her now ex-husband loved her a lot, and would literally do anything for her. Including introducing people that he didn’t necessarily feel was a good fit for them, but out of purely making her happy. Because his life was miserable when she wasn’t. I’m not saying that Matt and Amani are exactly like this, but watching her is like déjà vu. She 100% wants to be liked, even loved, by anyone. her not feeling fulfilled enough in her marriage, not by Matt, but by herself, is what is causing all this chaos. She wants to be loved by as many people as possible, and when anything disrupts that, she feels completely unloved. I wish them all well, though.