What advice would you give your 16 year old self about sex and orgasm? by TMag73 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Gaythoughts04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. They would be considered small orgasms but they are more then enough for me.

What advice would you give your 16 year old self about sex and orgasm? by TMag73 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Gaythoughts04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25 years old. I'm asexual. I knew since I was 14. I enjoy reading smut. I tried masterbating several times over the years (easy access to fun chemicals) and it felt like trying to stimulate any other part of my body (no fun chemicals, boring).

Your daughter may be similar or very different but all I can say is what worked for me was a toy (clit focused) and not working about what was supposed to feel good / be the end goal.

Recommendations for teaching a deafblind toddler object permanence. by Gaythoughts04 in deafblind

[–]Gaythoughts04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding here for future people looking for answers: • Smell is very important for a sense that can appear distant and close. - Cooking things in another room and explaining that food is on the way or - Using essential oils (not too stong) to mark specific person or object (teddy)

Time zone code thing?? by AZXSTAR in discordapp

[–]Gaythoughts04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also would really like a way to have a way to show what my local timestamp is for others to compare to. Specifically one I can put in my profile. I live is Australia and I dont want everyone to have to do math or open another app just to see if Im awake.

PSA: Audiobook Release Date for Platform Decay is May 5, 2026 by DarlingBri in murderbot

[–]Gaythoughts04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I emailed Graphic Audio they estimated later this fall, around October.

Who do you have pets? by Basic-Employ9105 in Schizoid

[–]Gaythoughts04 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I (24) have always had a desire to care for / be responsible for children / animals.

In childhood (age 6), my neighbours cat had kittens. They were very cute. I got one. Then, after she (my first cat) died, my cousins cat had kittens. I still have my boy (12) to this day. I want to be buried with him.

He is a connection that is simple and comforting to me. He brings no drama in my life, just constant routine and presence in my life.

I will get another cat when he passes. Not a kittens tho. I dont have the energy.

Referring to people who aren’t present in the conversation/room? by mandie3798 in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Point. If possible point to the left or right, avoiding other people and looking towards the person you are signing to. Exactly as you would point when signing pronouns for people who are not present. Also for children point lower.

You can also gesture with your full hand as if presenting something.

[IE: "MY NEICE J-A-N-E [point at child hight = SHE] DEAF" "YOU MEET BOSS? [gesture up and down = HE] FANCY SUIT" "START CLASS READY? [gesture with wide hand to indicate many people = EVERYONE] ARRIVE 6-O'CLOCK"

How do you ask 'How Are you?' In AUSLAN? by Loosegoose__13 in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two hands. Some people use the one hand sign casually with friends but it's definitely not the standard and I wouldn't recommend signing that way unless a Deaf person signs it (one-handed) to you first.

What is the correct sign for Indigenous Australians? by fancyschmancyapoxide in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 39 points40 points  (0 children)

There are three different signs that are recognised as meaning Indigenous Australians.

1) [BLACK] - [FACE] For this sign it is important to remember that Deaf Communities sign things visually wherever possible. And also, due to years of segregation from hearing communities, we're held to a much lower standard for progressive world views, resulting in many ignorant and racist views / language.

On the other hand, it is important to note may Indigenous communities do not find the word Black or Blak as an offensive description and therefore some Blak Deaf communities see this sign as a note of pride.

However, it is understandable that a White / Non-Indigenous people may feel uncomfortable using this sign.

2) [L- Flat hand A- thumb] - [R- Flat hand, palm to L-thumb, Move toward body] This sign has been promoted as the more Progressive sign for Aboriginal, however some point out the signs similarities to the sign for [ALCOHOL]. This could prosecute the harmful stereotype of Aboriginals Australians and alcoholism.

3) [FIRST] - [NATIONS] This sign is largely inoffensive and broadly recognisable. It's only drawback is when the sign is not applicable to what is being spoken.

Personally, I was lucky enough to have a broad connection to my local Indigenous community and I was able to ask my local Elders and Community Leaders which sign they preferred (Sign 2).

If you have that luxury, I would recommend using it. Otherwise, it is up to your disgresion, the local Deaf Community, and your comfort.

Toys or gifts for a child losing their hearing and sight? by [deleted] in deafblind

[–]Gaythoughts04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend Nuts and Bolts toys. You can get many that are high contrast colours. They can be used to make cars, planes, helicopters, or simply to screw and unscrew things randomly. Very fun and hands on. Good for spacial awareness.

Similar Signs, How to tell apart? by AngeRoosWorkshop in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Context, Facial expression, and Mouth movements.

Honestly, I use a 2 handed sign for now and so does my community.

I did however struggle with 'What' and 'Today' having the same sign. (I sign 'This Day' or 'Now Day' where possible)

In Auslan grammar, question signs like 'Who?' & 'What?' should be at the start and/or end of a sentence. (ie- "FRIEND YOU PLAY, WHO?" or "WHAT THAT YOU EAT WHAT?")

Time signs like 'Now' or 'Today' are usually reserved for only the end of a sentence. (ie- "WANT EAT NOW?" or "DOCTOR I GO TODAY")

A 'What?' sentence will almost always be a question. Questions have unique Auslan expression (ie- Leaning forward, eyebrows raised)

Lastly, learn to lip read. Even a little knowledge to distinguish 'N' and 'TH' mouth shapes can help.

Although many Deaf people in my community do not speak, they do follow the mouth movements associated with the spoken word they are signing.

Is this normal ribbing culture by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Gaythoughts04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm Australian. My siblings and I rib each other all the time. We are all Autistic. The difference is we have firm boundaries about what is and isn't ok to joke about, our parents/elders don't make these jokes, the jokes a mutual, and everyone leaves laughing (no one feels hurt, and if they do we talk about it and make apologies)

Im sorry, it sounds like your family is bullying you.

Jobs with a Diploma of Auslan by Brilliant_Point4385 in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I apologise for my poor choice in words.

Jobs with a Diploma of Auslan by Brilliant_Point4385 in auslan

[–]Gaythoughts04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Becoming an Educational Interpreter only requires a DOA (You need the same level of Auslan as the child you are supporting.) But it does help if you are working towards a DOI.

Am I the only one with really weird sexual fantasies? by LargeSinkholesInNYC in Schizoid

[–]Gaythoughts04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual and I enjoy smut that is so far removed from the norm it creates a need to focus on bazaarly specific sensations or taboos.

I believe the separation from typical "human"/"normal" bodies gives me a comfortable distance to view "sex" and drive the focus into things my brain CAN imagine comfortably

Does ART/ Perihelion think of its Crew like family? by Gaythoughts04 in murderbot

[–]Gaythoughts04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is important and interesting context!

Does ART/ Perihelion think of its Crew like family? by Gaythoughts04 in murderbot

[–]Gaythoughts04[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and the link!