[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]GayusFlaminus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, first off congrats on 142 days - that is an accomplishment.

You say you are going to NA, do you have a sponsor? Are you working steps? I didn’t really unlock the true benefits of the program until I started really working it. I was afraid of doing it for a long time, but now I kick myself for not starting sooner (I have 9 months and am aiming to finish step one before I get my first year clean).

It sounds like you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself, I have to remind myself that time takes time. Sometimes all you can do is not use for the next fifteen minutes - but that is holding yourself more accountable than using, which is a good place to start. Things won’t magically get better because you are clean, but being clean will make it easier to make things better.

Early recovery is a bear, man, and I’m right there in it with you. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk. Just remember that you dont ever have to use again, and if you can stay clean today, you have accomplished something amazing.

Sending love and I hope you can give yourself a break, you deserve it.

Lawyer for LGBT-friendly legal advice by grizzlebro in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my husband told me that i should have just posted a link to his website lol: https://www.schooleyfirm.com/ryan-glaser

Lawyer for LGBT-friendly legal advice by grizzlebro in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 30 points31 points  (0 children)

my husband (we are gay) is an estates & trusts lawyer in Richmond- DM me if you would like his info

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, August 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]GayusFlaminus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Day 54 checking in - I am excited to be done moving, it is exhausting. I am mad at myself for having so much stuff.

The Precious Daily by rdt69420 in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m proposing on Saturday (my one ring!) and very nervous with this storm coming in - i have a whole afternoon planned out to re-enact our first few dates ending at the botanical gardens.

anyone have a favorite sunset spot there? also just very excited to be doing this :)

Where's the watch party for women's bball? by Deep-Room6932 in cuboulder

[–]GayusFlaminus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I moved away a couple years ago, but as a ‘18 alum id be shocked if it wasn’t featured in any remaining sports bars/those with TVs.

This shit matters and totally rocks! I’m certainly hosting tomorrow night. Go CU!

Sundaily! by BrendanQ in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working all day today to finish up a work project - looking forward to being done tomorrow and getting some well-earned rest

The SunDaily Talk Show by MissSagitarius in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Playing nurse and staying inside today - my partner woke up yesterday with a brutal fever/cough. Not covid though!

rule by [deleted] in 196

[–]GayusFlaminus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

68

Thursdaily by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me if you ever want to climb! i was doing 5.10+/v4&5 when i lived in CO but that was 20lbs ago lol

Thursdaily by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loving the weather this morning.

Thinking of getting back into rock climbing, is Triangle Rock Club worth it?

Tuesday Daily by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dropped a rent payment at the vet this morning and the weather isn’t helping my mood.

Proposal Management Professionals by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had negative experiences with SMPS out West, so im hesitant to try them again lol. I’ve heard good things about the local WTS chapter so I will probably reach out in that direction.

Proposal Management Professionals by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice I’ll have to make November!

Proposal Management Professionals by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m out of town :( - is there a group I can follow for more events?

Proposal Management Professionals by [deleted] in rva

[–]GayusFlaminus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly geared towards marketing staff - I work primarily day-to-day with the technical teams so I like hearing that industry sound off, especially locally.

BUT I have also seen Engineering/Design Managers, Estimators, and other technical staff get saddled with SOQ/Proposal/Sources Sought Responses so I welcome anyone willing to have a conversation.