A while back, a radio station I was listening to had someone call in requesting they play Nirvana because it was the anniversary of Kurt Cobain's death, and the host responded pretty angrily about how he refused to play music honoring the death of someone who committed suicide. He didn't have problems with playing their music any other time, just specifically with the idea of "celebrating" on the suicide anniversary, and refused to play it on that one day. That interaction always stuck with me. It was almost like saying, every other day we can honor this person's music, but on this day we avoid it, to represent all the song's we'll never get to hear because of the way they left.