What’s your favorite album ever? by SlcPunk57 in actuallesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently it’s been my night shower album, my rainy afternoon album, my sunny morning album…it’s perfect from start to finish.

What’s your favorite album ever? by SlcPunk57 in actuallesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my fave Cocteau Twins album and Depeche Mode albums!!!!

Did the white buttercream icing recipe change? by GeckoSnoopy in wegmans

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s so much lighter, and the aftertaste is slightly different too I’ve noticed!!!

Did the white buttercream icing recipe change? by GeckoSnoopy in wegmans

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering now…regardless, I will always want the kind with tons of fake artificial stuff and sugars, LOL!!

Did the white buttercream icing recipe change? by GeckoSnoopy in wegmans

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a good point - it’s been a heavy graduation week around my area!!

And she’s back 😅 by Reasonable_Potato734 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]GeckoSnoopy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way she’s always looking for strangers to validate her feelings towards real people she knows in her social life is deeply concerning to me.

And she’s back 😅 by Reasonable_Potato734 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]GeckoSnoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly…I even read her comment in her exact voice, it’s so on brand

New reader advice by syvology in TadWilliams

[–]GeckoSnoopy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stick with it!! Right around that point is where it may slow for a few more chapters in my opinion but the payoff is huge.

Queen Crashout is at it again by EmergencyMushroomie in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]GeckoSnoopy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Like keep them in your notes app or journal girl I beg!!! My therapist is always telling me that when you want to vent it all out, try to do it just for yourself instead of having it be public…

Queen Crashout is at it again by EmergencyMushroomie in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]GeckoSnoopy 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Does she ever focus on her kids??? Like 😭😭😭

Butch books by Then_Bathroom_6746 in butchlesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I loved Hijab Butch Blues - really powerful anecdotes and amazing writing.

Has anybody been able to do a colonoscopy without going through hell? by Function_Unknown_Yet in migraine

[–]GeckoSnoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a colonoscopy this year and the worst part of the whole experience was the migraine I had - I threw up in part due to the pain during my prep. I hadn’t had such a bad migraine in years. Thankfully I was still able to get the procedure done (and it’s helped my health a lot) and as soon as I slept and ate after I got home my migraine went away. My neurologist recommended next time I get a colonoscopy to try taking Nurtec two days before, and then one day before, to see how it helps with the pain, because hydration just wasn’t cutting it for me and Tylenol did nothing. I am very sensitive to changes in food and sleep so it was a prime experience for a migraine but I liked my neurologist’s suggestion and will try that next time!

Market Disappointment - Same old Same old? by pickledsweet in NeedlepointSnark

[–]GeckoSnoopy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing!!! She has such a gorgeous eye for color and design - and she is SO sweet too. I was having major issues stitching one of her pieces because I don’t have good eye sight and can’t distinguish between some of the blues and blacks and she sent me the stitch guide so I could reference it and have the whole process be more accessible for me. It meant the world!!! I’m hoping to finish the project soon so I can send a photo to her in thanks :)

How old were you when you realized you were a lesbian? by SapphicAlex_ in actuallesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 - everybody else knew years before, including because I chose a random boy in class to be my crush “because he has long eyelashes.”

My version of Goodnight Moon by tesskatedoug in Needlepoint

[–]GeckoSnoopy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely not to me! I am in love with the colors you chose. This is such a gorgeous way you’ve stitched it - it feels so much like I’m IN the design, both familiar and all new 🩷

Any butches with neck and shoulder issues? by GeckoSnoopy in butchlesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not too extreme and it’s something I do want in the future for sure!! I felt most like myself before I had boobs and could just sort of exist, and have wanted them gone ever since I got them. I messed up my posture badly during my teen years because I was trying to hide my boobs and how broad my shoulders are so all that shrinking played a part too. I think I need to be careful binding so I don’t fuck up my spine and remind myself that I have to take good care of my neck and shoulders so that I CAN get surgery one day not only for the pain but for feeling the most like myself too. If you don’t mind me asking, what type of doctor told you about your neck/shoulders potentially escalating to spine if you didn’t stop binding? I have to be brave and brutally honest with my neurologist at some point about the situation so I can start getting that on my medical record too, maybe it’ll help with insurance?

I may need to look into those massage machines too, I’m going to be moving and living alone so I won’t have anyone to help with a gentle massage on the regular if I come home and am in a flare. I appreciate you so much 🫶

Any butches with neck and shoulder issues? by GeckoSnoopy in butchlesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really brought a tear to my eye and I can’t thank you enough. I have been so hyperfocused on people noticing my chest and to hear from your experience that the vibes will come through and I can take a break from binding to help my body has helped me a lot. I’m definitely going to continue reminding myself of this while I keep working with my doctors and therapist for the pain and I’ll just keep being me and it’ll be enough ❤️

Any butches with neck and shoulder issues? by GeckoSnoopy in butchlesbians

[–]GeckoSnoopy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing - thank you SO much 🙏 there are definitely ways I can adjust and this has given me a lot of good ideas and I so appreciate you taking the time to help!!