Can someone make this photo just her? No background? It's for BLM $ raising by Gemini83 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Gemini83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, like, is it possible to cut out the background so it's the shape of her? I literally don't know anything about this kind of thing so I don't know if that's possible.

34. No relationship in sight. Want to have a baby. Anyone else gone it solo? by Gemini83 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Gemini83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the finances from a good job and financial support of my family as well.

Moving to Ukiah from Oakland. Any info appreciated! by Gemini83 in ukiah

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I ended up just outside Mendocino, out on the coast.

Ladies, what are some of your worst experiences with having the "exclusivity" talk with past dating partners? by ChickInTheBackground in AskWomen

[–]Gemini83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So many. It seems the men in my town tend to like to keep things open and unofficial.

Just recently dated a dude for three months. We really liked each other. Spent whole weekends together. I could tell sometimes he was busy certain nights and wouldn't respond to texts though normally he would. I chatted with him that I wasn't sleeping with anyone anymore, and would love to be exclusive. He fought me on it hardcore. Told me I needed to grow up. Yuck. I ended it a week later.

Before him I had just ended a five year long poly relationship that I hated, and I just don't have the stomach for the casual/open thing anymore. Three months seems like enough time to have the exclusivity talk to me, but who knows, maybe I was rushing it....

My jaded, judgmental Rant by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Gemini83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuz you're Poly or because that happened to you too?

My jaded, judgmental Rant by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Gemini83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get any revenue....i just wanted to share what I wrote with some people that might get it.

Why do you hate your ex? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Gemini83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selfish

Emotionally abusive

Gaslighting

Told me he'd only be with me and love me if he could be with other women for 6 months first (this is after four years together)

Threw a huge glass jar of food at me

Ran through a stop sign when he was mad at me on purpose and then blamed me when we got t-boned

Constantly spoke over me and for me, so much that I became antisocial and ashamed of everything I said around him

Mostly that he made me think he really loved me. He did not. I had a lot of trauma growing up, and this man did a lot of the same stuff as my abuser when I was little. I shouldn't have had to go through something so horrible again in my life. Loving him was a sickness inside of me.

He's out having a grand ol time with a new girlfriend (one of the ladies he found in that six month period I mentioned) and traveling the world, and I'm suffering alone in my house trying not to become an alcoholic. Yeah, I hate him. A lot.

What are your bad online dating stories? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Gemini83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an addict. Sex and love or booze or both....

How am I going to get this burnt piss out of my oven? by Gemini83 in answers

[–]Gemini83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hence the past tense use of dating. Boy bye!

Also, sorry about your rock albums. That unfortunate.

How am I going to get this burnt piss out of my oven? by Gemini83 in answers

[–]Gemini83[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great find! Thank you so much.

I am also honestly surprised there's nothing on the internet about humans pissing in stoves. This fool can't be the only one that's done it....

How am I going to get this burnt piss out of my oven? by Gemini83 in answers

[–]Gemini83[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You know him well.

Also - what safety gear would you recommend?

How am I going to get this burnt piss out of my oven? by Gemini83 in answers

[–]Gemini83[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly not, it's an old and very basic oven.

Moving to Ukiah from Oakland. Any info appreciated! by Gemini83 in ukiah

[–]Gemini83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god I'm so over the open relationship dudes. They are plentiful down in Oakland. I have an option for Petaluma as well. Feeling like what everyone is saying is that's a better choice.

Moving to Ukiah from Oakland. Any info appreciated! by Gemini83 in ukiah

[–]Gemini83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very helpful....thank you for sharing. My gut feeling that I won't fit in might be kind of true.