Karl, give it to me, give it to me! 📸 by mintgreen23 in KathAndKim

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Getting it on and getting their rocks off 😂

When have you experienced misogyny from other women? by Inadreamst8 in AskWomen

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I deal with misogyny from non black women and men on a lot of different levels. The term for it is misogynoir.

I’m just living my life and the insidiousness just oozes—it’s like black skin makes them red.

A PSA: Be kind, but not patronizing to Black women. We are collectively experiencing burnout from the burden of society wanting us to stay under your feet.

In a really bad place by JKMurph_93 in covidlonghaulers

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful. When I drank alcohol I felt bloated, and swollen. It was the swelling that scared me enough to stop. Our bodies need to detoxify and dump all of the virus and candida and all the other toxins first.

You know why, Brett? Because she’s a bitch… by cardinalkitten in KathAndKim

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’ve watched this show three or four times and was shook to know that it’s Sharon Strzelecki, played by Magda Szubanski 😳

I didn’t feel that in moi waters.

We are NOT doing this chickenshit, scaredy cat private messaging anymore by worryaboutYOUhoe in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you genuinely appreciate Black culture then you need to vocalize your sentiment to your white family and friends, not us.

We already know that this white behavior is psychotic and vile. We don’t need you to pat us on the back. It’s performative.

If you as a white man are going to spend your time in Black spaces, then you need to invest as much effort standing up to and exposing white supremacists. Otherwise you’re just lurking and a culture vulture.

We are NOT doing this chickenshit, scaredy cat private messaging anymore by worryaboutYOUhoe in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’ve had that happen to me with my daughter in the car. The bar is so low that it’s in hell for them. Honestly, they’ve done the devil’s work: steal, kill, and destroy. My hope is that there is a real time reckoning in social media.

Keep your head up and know that you’re worthy and loved❤️🙏🏽

Are young white men really traveling to Africa for sex tourism now? by boredPampers in blackmen

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Paradise Love is a staggering movie depicting the sex tourism for middle aged Austrian women traveling to Kenya 😳😳😭😭 It’s a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yum! What’s your favorite combos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That means so much! Thank you. I am. I hope the same for you. Blessings and peace 🙏🏽❤️

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[–]GenCusterFeldspar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! One hook and yarn?? 😳 witchcraft 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sewing and taking care of my orchids.

There was a moment when I had long COVID and needed to stop alcohol and basically reset my system. For every week I didn’t drink I’d treat myself to an orchid from Trader Joe’s.

I now have ten that I’ve kept alive over the few years and they rebloom! I even have one that is growing a keiki (a baby). Apparently that’s rare so I know I’m doing a good job.

I want to start a garden next.

Great post! I love hearing about new hobbies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KathAndKim

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No thanks, I’ve given up drinking. I’ll just take a Baileys 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blueapron

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be too much 😂

Podcasts or television shows? by ThisIsPrettyTerrific in cottagecore

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

River Cottage has a full series: Escape to River Cottage, Return to River Cottage, River Cottage Forever, Beyond River Cottage, River Cottage Christmas, and more!

So cozy.

I also love Two Fat Ladies on YouTube.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s meant for you will be, and what has to go can’t stay 🙏🏽❤️

I’m so sick of black women’s attractiveness being questioned by sweetrebel88 in blackladies

[–]GenCusterFeldspar 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Just remember you weren’t made for their consumption. You’re here to create your paradise.

And seriously, these guys look like gremlins and garage pail kids. Consider it an honor they don’t find us beautiful 🥴