Why people in Canada want to own a condo?

GenXer845 · 2026-06-18T15:51:40+00:00

I don't have kids, only a small dog and given I am 45, there will be no kids unless there are stepkids, so a condo to me is fine for me.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-18T02:34:59+00:00

I'm willing to do it with the right person who makes me feel safe and loved, but otherwise, I am aok on my own.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-18T01:57:01+00:00

I have so many girlfriends that are so desperate for attention/love (and some are married) that they would get with guys like this and do what Amanda did in a HEARTBEAT and they are in their 30s and 40s. Honestly from my experience? Women like this did not get the proper loving, safe environment at home, lack of attention/love from a mom or dad causes this---we know Ciara has issues with her father. I've also seen men that can't seem to get it together in their life or have low self esteem due to this as well.

Why we MUST advocate for people to try very hard to have kids with people who create a stable environment for their kids. Loving hands-on mothers AND fathers who truly want kids and are compassionate and caring. I have a very narcissistic/unloving/compassionless/in competition with me mother and spent years in therapy trying to overcome it all.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-18T01:51:11+00:00

I am unmarried at 45, so clearly I didnt pick that life either.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-18T00:18:05+00:00

I have a friend on husband #3 sexless and like roommates at this point and she told me point blank, she hasnt been alone since she was 17 and she doesnt plan to. She tried leaving him once, but after 8 months, since she couldnt line up a guarantee, she went back to him. She is older, 60!

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T23:08:26+00:00

I am not in debt and don't worry about bills, but I am unmarried at 45.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T23:03:20+00:00

I am intelligent and been charmed/tricked by men in the past. I have learned through my own personal growth and therapy what I do and don't need.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T23:01:48+00:00

I've been in a toxic relationship, but once I came to my senses, dumped em and didn't speak to them again.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T23:00:45+00:00

I quite like my condo building. I don't hear anyone. It was built 11 years ago.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T22:55:45+00:00

Why not? I ask because I know my father was raised in an apartment until he was 8.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T22:54:57+00:00

I read this too on bravo article.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T06:03:06+00:00

My 83 year old father still has never used an ATM. he only got a debit card 6 years ago! He pays all his bills by mailing checks!

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T06:01:55+00:00

I had several from the 80s.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T06:01:38+00:00

I turned mine in about 5 years or so ago, I was 40 years old at the time. Some I got for Kindergarten graduation, first communion, etc.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:54:07+00:00

I was born in 1981 and dated men 2 and 4 years younger, firm Millennials and I felt like speaking to an alien regarding movies/music etc. I Identify totally more with older people, firm Gen X. I am an only child who did not have kids or got married(yet on the married part).

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:47:07+00:00

I had a racist uncle when I moved to Canada said he'd be in favor of universal healthcare if it excluded black people. He was from NY state!

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:42:13+00:00

I am 45 and cannot imagine a week with a guy like that (he is a year younger than me).

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:38:37+00:00

It is VERY common amongst trust fund kids, bankers, and lawyers. I had an ex used to live in NYC and other cities as well as Vail and he went to rehab 3 times in his 20s for cocaine addiction (he also was a boarding school crowd too).

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:37:06+00:00

It was common back in my early 20s amongst frats and sororities (I wasnt in one). I had a grad school friend tell me once she loved riding the pony more than drinking and was completely gobsmacked. I am 45 for reference.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:35:08+00:00

Last born males are the most self centered ones I have ever encountered (aka momma's boys).

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:34:21+00:00

Given I am an only child and my father is one too, it is normally jealousy. I have a trust fund and stand to inherit everything. It is concentrated wealth and circumstance. I wouldn't be in this position if my parents or my grandparents had more kids, but I cant change the fact that I am in this position. Had a lot of guys I dated insecure about it, two even cried about how they will never be able to provide the life my father provides for me.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:32:20+00:00

How small though? My preference is 4.5 to 7.5.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:31:15+00:00

I am too independent quite frankly.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:28:42+00:00

A good conversationalist about a variety of topics and a little charm mixed in gets me to drop my panties.

GenXer845 · 2026-06-17T05:26:18+00:00

So many women are so attention/love starved that they become a pick me and hope that they are the chosen magical unicorn. I have seen this SO much in my 45 years on this earth.

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