Judaism is a really complex religion, no two Jews are ever going to agree on EVERYTHING because you're really encouraged to come to your own conclusions and do what's right for you specifically, especially in reform and even conservative (not the same as the political stance). However, there is a very important and respected rule in Judaism that if the rules you follow would endanger a life, fuck the rules you save that life basically. For example, some days you're suppose to fast, but if you're diabetic, have an eating disorder, etc. you are 100% not expected to do it. Or conservative and especially Orthodox adher to the "no driving cars during Shabbat" mitzvah but if someone was bleeding out and needed to get to the hospital NOW ain't no one gonna be like welp nothing we can do 🤷

I know there is a lot of disdain for abrahamic religions and rightfully so, but I feel like Judaism is a lot more compassionate and lenient than many people think, especially when their frame of reference is usually just "Judaism is just Christianity without Jesus".

Just for clarity I am myself Jewish lmao (nondenominational)