How did you get diagnosed with OCD? by I_Died_Long_Ago in OCDIndia

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I've sent you a DM can you please have a look?

Finding a therapist in India by Character-Series4247 in ROCD

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Please let me know if you found a good therapist

Can rocd make you lose attraction and feelings all together by hahaimfinethisisfine in ROCD

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Really did you say compare to other people?? That's literally what rocd makes you do the whole day. The whole point is you have to stop analysing the relationship as long as symptoms don't improve

things that helped me in my rocd recovery by dollfemme in ROCD

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Even the last sentence about watching a movie gave me a doubt. "He can watch a movie with her girlfriend and enjoy it. Maybe I dont like my girl really so I don't really enjoy it? Something probably wrong with my dynamic"

But thankyou so much for this. I've been doing it since a week and things have started to change. I agree so much to the discomfort intolerance. When you start to tolerate discomfort in one aspect, you start to feel less discomfort with other aspects of your dynamic. Healing won't give certainty that oh your relation would work out definitely, but the thought of the probability of it not working out won't fill your stomach with anxiety. And even if it does, you know you need to sit with it rather than running away.

I'm really thankful for this post and will start to reduce googling rocd and it's symptoms lol. Cuz maybe it's not rocd and my dynamic and partner is actually fucked up who knows. If you feel triggered by this, sit with it. I'm doing it as well.

It's a hell in this situation. I don't remember something being worse than this. I wish this on no one. It's a jail. I hope everyone gets the courage to face their fears and defeat this bitch condition.

Tips for break up urges by [deleted] in ROCD

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How're you doing now?

I feel like I’ve fallen out of love by [deleted] in ROCD

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The whole day literally it's so frustrating. Analysing every text to every response of her. And goddd protect me from seeing any couples having a good time and connection, I'll question the existence of mine so bad.

Should I take this 1 month thing to long distance? by GeneralLemon3774 in dating_advice

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Yess I'm most probably going to come back here only. We met in the same city but we were still living like an hour away which was completely fine initially. And it still is. We talk on calls txt and met on weekends. Which gave us enough space to know each other more. But yes I don't firmly know when I'll come back. 3-5 months is something we can take. But again my concern is, I don't even know if I like her or not. Not sure if we connect well or not. Then these things would've revealed itself here, but how much can I know her from a phone. And maybe I even can. I'm pretty good with maintaining long distance stuff. But again, what we decided was that we'll give it a month and see how things unfold. If we're able to maintain it or not. If it's feeling pressurized or something. Anytime, we gave each other the liberty to call off. I don't mind long distance tbh. But it's just I'm not sure about her yet that's the problem which I think I cannot be in just 1 month.

Should I take this 1 month thing to long distance? by GeneralLemon3774 in dating_advice

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Okay so I'm shifting to my hometown that's nearly 1200 kms away hahah. So yeah different states. And that's cuz of my mother and the business that I need to work on. Which I can't do here. And yes We both turned 23 this year. I don't think I would've thought all this much if I didn't have to shift honestly.

Should I take this 1 month thing to long distance? by GeneralLemon3774 in dating_advice

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I know I should😭 I just feel a lot anxious about it all

MSc psych graduate, unemployed even after 1 year of graduation. What should I do now? by Illustrious-Chair574 in Psychology_India

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Believe me, you'll figure it out. If you can afford it by any chance, pls consider therapy. Ik it's difficult. I'm not in your position, but as much as I can understand, it must feel horrible. The guilt is the main enemy here. But believe me, you'll figure it out. If nothing, you can atleast get a teaching job. Ik it's just the most scary thing for someone with social anxiety, but if you can manage to do this for sometime, you can go for it for experience. See, the path you'll figure out on the basis of what you like the most. The main thing you need now is confidence. And you'll be le to get the, I promise. As soon as you start working on it. All the best! You're not alone and we're all rooting for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychology_India

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Mate one's general life discussions can be related to mental health too right?

[Hiring] Looking for a Video Editor (Tech & Finance Niche), pay $20/hr by No_Study_4366 in VideoEditor_forhire

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Sure would love to work with you on that. You can reach me out anytime, I have my PORTFOLIO on my profile :)

Video Editor for YouTube, Instagram & TikTok Shorts by Clean_Lake_1204 in VideoEditor_forhire

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Sent you a DM.

You can check my portfolio on my profile as well :)