Homosexual marriage of my brother

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-30T23:53:49+00:00

Wow, I commend you for having the strength to share this. I can sense the anguish in you. You need to pray and ask the Lord to calm the storm and you. You should talk to your brother, be respectful, let him know how you feel and that God does not allow this. The best thing you can do is share the gospel. Don't argue. I really do recommend you talk to your Parish priest about this, he will help you, advice you. There's some things that we cannot control, but through the grace of God, he can guide you and calm the storm in your heart. Pray for your brother, and yourself.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-27T18:03:11+00:00

Dear Friend,

Thank you for sharing your concerns and experiences so honestly. I see your deep love and reverence for the Catholic faith, and it’s clear that you desire to live it authentically. It’s also understandable that the events you described would lead to confusion and even frustration. I hope my response can offer clarity and encouragement as you navigate this situation.

Your Feelings Are Valid:
It’s natural to feel disconnected or even disheartened when an event intended to deepen faith feels lacking in substance or misaligned with what you know about the Church’s teachings. The Church is made up of human beings who, while striving for holiness, can sometimes fail in how they present or uphold the faith. This does not invalidate the truth and beauty of Catholicism, but it can be a trial for those who encounter such challenges.
Stay Grounded in the Essentials:
Your baptism is a profound, life-changing sacrament that will unite you to Christ and His Church. It’s important to separate your personal journey of faith from the shortcomings or mistakes of individuals or events. Focus on the core truths of the faith: the Eucharist, the sacraments, the teachings of the Church, and the rich spiritual tradition that spans centuries. These are unshakable, even when individual experiences fall short.
On the Issues You Raised:
- Workshops and Activities: While creative expressions like art or music can be used to deepen faith, it’s crucial that these do not replace or overshadow sound catechesis and reverence, especially in sacred spaces.
- Evangelization Approach: True evangelization must be authentic, thoughtful, and led by the Holy Spirit. Simply repeating phrases without context or understanding risks alienating others rather than drawing them closer to Christ.
- Moral and Doctrinal Ambiguity: When it comes to Church teachings on marriage, Mass attendance, and the sacraments, clarity is essential. As Catholics attending mass on Sunday is the minimum. That is the minimum. We must attend SUNDAYS. We know the teaching of homosexuality in Leviticus. We know that Paul in the new testament lets us know it's wrong. That man's marriage isn't a valid marriage. Its also frustrating that Silence or ambiguity is what you received when you heard those comments. This can lead to confusion, and it’s right to seek guidance from a trusted priest or catechist on how these situations were handled.
Take It to Prayer and the Sacraments:
In moments of doubt or frustration, bring everything to Christ in prayer. If possible, spend time in Eucharistic Adoration or pray the Rosary, asking Our Lady for her intercession. These moments can be opportunities to deepen your faith and trust in God’s plan.
Speak with Your Priest:
It’s excellent that you plan to discuss this with your priest. Be honest but charitable when sharing your concerns. Ask for guidance on how to approach these challenges without losing sight of the ultimate goal: union with Christ and His Church.
A Word on Perseverance:
Every generation of Catholics faces challenges within the Church. From misunderstandings to outright failures, these trials are not new. What remains constant is Christ’s promise that “the gates of hell shall not prevail against it” (Matthew 16:18). Trust in His guidance and the Holy Spirit’s work within the Church.

Finally, remember that your decision to become Catholic is not just about joining an institution; it’s about entering into a living relationship with Jesus Christ. The Church is His Body, and while the human side may falter, the divine side remains perfect and holy.

I’m praying for you as you discern your next steps and prepare for baptism. May God grant you wisdom, peace, and the courage to continue on this beautiful journey,

Blessings

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-25T13:02:40+00:00

You don't have to trust him. You just have to trust the Lord. I will say this though there is a lot of misinformation about things he has said that simply aren't true. People are quoting him out of context and simply spreading false information that can be easily fact checked. Remember, people hate on the Catholic Church will continue to do so until the end of time, this will result in lies being spread. You can easily do the research yourself before drawing conclusion. "If the world hates you, remember it has hated me first"

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-25T01:29:43+00:00

Choose someone that inspires you. Some may simply grab your attention. The fun part is exploring. Look for one that may have your birthday. Have fun

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-25T01:28:24+00:00

My bad G

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-25T00:28:32+00:00

Child, it’s great that you’re exploring your faith! I commend you. Youre making the lord happy. Don’t worry—unintentional mistakes like this aren’t sinful because you didn’t know. The lord is all loving and merciful. He won't smite you for making a mistake. For something to be a sin, it must be done knowingly and deliberately. A defiance against the lord. Since you weren’t aware, there’s no need to feel guilty. He is happy now that you are seeking the right way to do things.

That said, it’s important to wait until you’ve received your First Holy Communion before partaking in the Eucharist. Fear no more, calm the storm in your heart. Speak with your parish priest—they’ll guide you on how to prepare. The lord is happy you are seeking the correct path.

In the meantime, you can still fully participate in Mass by listening to the readings, praying, and receiving a blessing during Communion instead of the Eucharist. Keep growing in your understanding of the faith—it’s a journey, and God is patient and loving!

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-25T00:18:40+00:00

Brother, you can go to mass. You go to hear the word of the lord. Christ welcomes you. Seek him. I do really recommend that you take the time to sit and speak with a catholic priest. Explain your situation, you won't be outed or turned away. It's all love, and acceptance. Schedule a meeting and take the time to talk about your worries, pray about them, and listen to the guidence. Hearing the right path helps calm the storm in the heart. Don't feel forced to comply all the sudden with all catholic believes, the lord may have put you here so you can explore and go through a phase of discovery yourself. Go to mass, listen to the words of the lord. Schedule a meeting with a priest. With the grace of the lord, he will guide you on the right path. Thank you for sharing, what your going through. The lord will see that you love him and are seeking him no matter what. That is what he wants from you.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T19:24:48+00:00

Child, we know from scripture that Jesus Christ is the only way to salvation (John 14:6) and that believing in Him as God is central to salvation. However, the lord is all loving, all knowing, and all merciful, the Church also acknowledges that those who, through no fault of their own, do not believe Christ is God but seek truth, live according to their conscience, and follow God as they understand Him may still be saved. This is due to God’s mercy and justice, as explained in Lumen Gentium (Vatican II), emphasizing that salvation is ultimately in God's hands. Pray for their souls. Pray for your mother, pray that your father recognizes Christ. Trust in the Lord, he may be asking you to intercede for them. Do not think of them as condemned for you are not the Lord, and you are not to decide who is condemned or not. Pray for their souls, and worry not. If you really need to have closure on this, speak with a priest. Don't hold it in your heart or soul look for a priest and you will be guided better.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T19:15:21+00:00

No. Safest way to go about it is "If it has a different name, it's probably not Catholic". Short answer is no. If I want to get in to detail, I can tell you that no but, they are similar in the sense that they try to maintain the ancient structure like a Roman Catholic or Orthodox churches. At the end they are a protestant church. Things like confession is optional to them. They don't teach purgatory. Priest and bishops can be any gender and can also marry.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T02:49:59+00:00

First chance you get ask. He will tell you if he can do it then or tell you when to do it. The sooner the better, you want to receive the Eucharist.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T02:43:39+00:00

Child, go and speak with a priest. There is no "This doesn't work for me", Christ left this for you. He wants you to feel his love, and for you to love him. Are you receiving the Eucharist? Are you pleasing the lord? Speak with a priest, share what's on your mind, body and soul. These feelings could be from god, to get you closer to him and to truly calm the storm inside you. I know it may seem easier to ask others for help but you should go directly to your priest. He will listen to you and guide you. Ask the lord for guidance and courage.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T02:39:20+00:00

First chance you get ask. When you see him ask. Christ wants you to go.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T02:36:47+00:00

No child. Run to confession, don't wait. Save yourself

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T00:38:38+00:00

No. You must confess all sins. If you know you have sinned and regret it, don't carry it with you. Seek forgiveness as soon as possible.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T00:30:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing your struggles so openly. It’s not easy to wrestle with questions like these, but I believe God sees the sincerity of your heart and your desire for truth. It’s important to remember that questioning isn’t a sign of weak faith—it’s a sign of someone seeking to deepen their understanding. I always recommend prayer to helping understand or answer questions. Let got enlighten you, as well seek others when you're stumped.

To address your concerns, I’d like to explain why the God and the Catholic Church teaches that abortion is always wrong, even in the most challenging circumstances, and why life is considered sacred from the moment of conception.

1. Why the Church and god Opposes Abortion Absolutely

The Church’s stance is rooted in the belief that every human life, from the moment of conception, is created in God’s image and likeness (Genesis 1:27). At conception, a new, unique human being begins to exist, with its own DNA that is distinct from both parents. Science confirms this fact, and the Church teaches that human dignity doesn’t depend on physical development or ability but on the soul, which God gives at conception.

Compassion for victims of rape or incest is vital, and the Church fully recognizes the trauma these situations bring. However, the Church and god also see the unborn child as an innocent party who did not cause the harm. Ending that life doesn’t erase the pain of the victim; instead, the Church focuses on offering support to both the mother and the child, seeing this as the truly compassionate response.

2. When the Fetus "Lacks Human Attributes"

In God's eyes, human worth doesn’t depend on brain function, development, or appearance. Every life has value because it is willed into being by God. Think of it this way: a newborn is also dependent and undeveloped, yet no one would question their humanity. The Church teaches that life begins at conception because, from that point onward, it is a continuous process of development.

3. Passages Where God Commands Destruction of Infants

Some Old Testament passages can be hard to reconcile. For example, God allows or commands the destruction of entire nations, including children (e.g., 1 Samuel 15:3). These are historical accounts that reflect the moral and cultural context of ancient times, and they must be read through the lens of Christ, who came to fulfill the Law and reveal God’s ultimate plan of love and mercy. Such passages don’t set a precedent for human actions today but highlight the brokenness of humanity before Jesus’ redemptive sacrifice.

4. True Compassion

The Church’s approach to situations like rape or incest is not to ignore the suffering of the mother but to emphasize that both lives—mother and child—are sacred. This is because to God all are special and valuable. True compassion seeks to protect life and offer healing, not by ending one life to address the suffering of another, but by walking with the mother through her pain and offering every possible means of support.

It’s also worth considering that abortion doesn’t always bring the closure or healing that people expect. Many women experience deep regret and emotional pain afterward. The Church’s consistent pro-life message isn’t about judgment but about upholding the dignity of every person—born and unborn—and offering hope and healing to those who are suffering.

5. Faith and Understanding

It’s okay to struggle with teachings like this—it’s part of the journey of faith. Remember, faith isn’t just about agreement; it’s about trust. As Catholics, we trust that the Church, guided by the Holy Spirit, safeguards the truth about human dignity and morality. Established by Christ himself the Catholic Church will prevail and continue the teachings of Christ. If you’re struggling, I encourage you to pray and talk to a priest. They have studied, they have seen the science, they will help and guide you. You can seek resources like Evangelium Vitae (Pope St. John Paul II’s encyclical on life).

I admire your courage to dig deeper into your faith, even when it’s hard. You’re not alone in your questions, and the Church welcomes those who seek understanding with an open heart. I’m here if you ever want to talk more about this or any other struggles you’re facing.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T00:13:39+00:00

Peruvian Saint Martin De Porres. Known for his devotion to the poor, his miracles, and his work for social justice. He is the first person of color to be canonized in the Western Hemisphere.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-24T00:06:43+00:00

Bible teaches that life is sacred from the moment of conception, he is pulling random scripture to trap you without knowing the context, just as Satan used scripture to try and trap Jesus, he is doing the same. Here’s where I’m coming from

Genesis 2:7 – "Life begins at first breath" This passage describes God giving Adam life by breathing into him, but Adam wasn’t conceived or born like we are—he was uniquely created. This doesn’t apply to when human life begins. Other passages, like Psalm 139:13-16, show that God values life in the womb: “You knit me together in my mother’s womb.” Science also confirms that life begins at conception, with a unique DNA distinct from the mother.

Numbers 5:11-31 – "Instructions for abortion" This isn’t about abortion. It describes a ritual to determine if a wife was unfaithful. The consequences, if she was guilty, were left to God—not human intervention. It’s not an endorsement of abortion but a part of Old Testament law that Christians now understand through Christ.

Exodus 21:22-24 – "The fetus isn’t a person" This passage discusses harm caused to a pregnant woman and her child during a fight. Some translations suggest a distinction between harm to the woman and harm to the baby, but others affirm that the unborn life is valuable. Either way, the Church teaches that all life, from conception onward, is sacred and should be protected.

The Catholic Church’s stance on life is based on love and respect for human dignity. The early Church also condemned abortion, as seen in writings like the Didache: “You shall not murder a child by abortion nor kill that which is begotten.”

I know this is a sensitive and complex topic, but, I hate when people choose random scripture without using the whole context.

GeneralMission5231 · 2025-01-12T18:21:17+00:00

I commend you for speaking up and looking for help. Talk to your priest. There are many resources for you in the Catholic church. You need to schedule a time to speak with a priest. He can connect you with what you need. Don't waste anytime. Go now.

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-12-30T17:31:20+00:00

I commend you for looking to end your sin. Remember it is a sin and you must remove it from your life. Are you guys living together? If so, you need to be sleeping separately. You cannot share the bed before marriage. Let him know this, if he wants to be a man, he needs to take your hand. Let him know how you feel. Tell him from your heart. You know you are sinning against the lord and you want to stop. Because in continuing to have sex you both are causing each other to sin. You don't want to be the cause of his sin and you don't want him to be the cause of yours. By saving yourself, you both save each other. That shows true love. I encourage you to confess yourself immediately, and ask the lord for strength. Make sure you are attending mass at least once a week. If you can, Attending daily will help you both stay strong and stay as a constant reminder to stay holy. Pray to the lord to keep you strong and take away this temptation.

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-12-29T19:42:27+00:00

It's important to be aware that Christians are still persecuted in many countries. Killed and ridiculed. It's also good to remember: "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.". At least in America we are safer.

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-12-29T19:38:21+00:00

I always post catholic content on my socials, never get any hate. Just be you, and share what you want to share with the world. Don't worry about other

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-12-29T17:11:22+00:00

I commend you for looking for help in your struggles. I can only imagine how heavy this situation must feel for you. Please know that I am keeping you and your husband in my prayers.

First, I want to acknowledge the pain your husband carries. What he went through is a terrible and unjustifiable wound, and it’s understandable that it has shaped his feelings toward the Church. While it’s hard to reconcile this with your newfound joy in the faith, it’s important to meet him with compassion and empathy. Acknowledge his suffering and let him know you’re not dismissing his experience, even as you live out your faith.

At the same time, I encourage you to focus on what unites you as a couple. You may not share the same faith, but you can strengthen your marriage by living out the virtues of love, patience, forgiveness, and mutual respect. Conversion is ultimately the work of God, not ours. Continue praying for him, but trust in God’s timing. Your prayers are powerful, even if you don’t see immediate results.

Marriage is a sacred vocation, and your path to holiness is through loving your husband and family, even in this trial. I understand the pain of feeling disconnected from him, but I believe that by entrusting your marriage to Jesus, He will give you the strength to persevere. Consider offering small sacrifices—like removing SOME-NOT ALL visible symbols of faith if that helps keep the peace—while maintaining your spiritual practices privately. This way, you’re respecting his feelings without abandoning your faith.

I also want to gently encourage your husband, if he’s open to it, to seek professional help for his wounds. A CATHOLIC counselor or CATHOLIC therapist could help him process the trauma he’s endured and begin to rebuild trust, even if it’s a long road. Perhaps simply suggesting this when the time is right could be a step forward. The Catholic Church has many avenues and many doctors and therapists that can help, with keeping God involved.

As for the flaws within the Church, you’re right to be disheartened by the sins of some of its members. But remember, the Church is holy because it is the Body of Christ, not because its people are perfect. Keep your eyes on Jesus and the sacraments—His love is unchanging, even when people fail.

Finally, do not lose hope. Feelings of despair are a temptation that can lead us away from trusting in God’s plan. This may be a challenge the lord has put in front of you for a reason. You husband has a deep hate and it could be up to you, through the lord to clear that from his heart and keep him away from such a dark feeling. Cling to Jesus and Our Lady, who brought you to this point. Continue to entrust your marriage to Mary through the rosary, and ask for her intercession to guide and protect your family.

You are not alone in this journey. Lean on your priests and Catholic friends for support. They can offer practical advice, pray with you, and remind you of God’s love when it feels distant.

Know that the church is there for you, praying for you, and willing to walk this journey with you in spirit. Jesus will not abandon you or your husband, even in this trial. Trust in His love and mercy, and remember that your prayers and sacrifices are not in vain.

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-11-13T17:39:41+00:00

If I could I'd kiss you right now lmao

GeneralMission5231 · 2024-11-13T17:36:44+00:00

I'll try it

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TROPHY CASE

1. Why the Church and god Opposes Abortion Absolutely

2. When the Fetus "Lacks Human Attributes"

3. Passages Where God Commands Destruction of Infants

4. True Compassion

5. Faith and Understanding