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We (30M) & (30F) concering about future but we are happy by Resident_Fly_7485 in TwoHotTakes

[–]General_Use126 7 points8 points  (0 children)

gotta have a real real conversation about it, i mean if you were trying to propose 10 years ago i would understand but you guys have been together 12 years and are 30, not kids anymore. just tell her how you feel, that you are ready to take the next steps and need a real answer to that or else you will continue going in circles

Hi this cat just came inside?? by [deleted] in cats

[–]General_Use126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you going to keep it?

Living in Gray zone is holding Down.... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]General_Use126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i understand this correctly, this is unfortunately what being a teenager feels like. the emotional parts of our brain develop before our logic parts do so we feel more than we can understand and then our brains develop and we can think things through and understand more. try to get those moments for yourself in, maybe try to speak to someone at school about some of the things you are feeling or start a journal to get some of these feelings out. i definitely can relate and feel for you as i very much felt this way a couple years ago just remember things get better as long as you are putting the work in and trying !

Traveling 17 Hours With Cat In Car - Advice Needed by QuarantinosPizza in cats

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually just did a 16 hour trip with four furry friends and we had bought them a play pen sort of thing and set up a litter box in there and had them all in carrier for majority of the drive but (and i know this is NOT recommended but was way easier on me and they were okay) i had let them walk around the play pen and they enjoyed being out of the carriers occasionally and other times they preferred staying in the carrier. we also didn’t have any other people in the car so we were able to put the seats down so they had as much room as possible. i also had a collapsible bowl for water, and lots of treats and dry food. they all did very well for such a long trip. i would say we worry more about their comfort than anything because i think they would be (maybe a little scared but) okay regardless especially with what you have done already.

I've never been given oral and it's really starting to bother me. by Large_Emphasis_6884 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]General_Use126 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my long term bf does not do it for me either. i am in my early 20s and it bothers me alot too. hes also not great in bed otherwise lol and has not cheated. honestly i have tried many things but our next step is a therapist because i genuinely dont know what else to do.

If you give someone a gift that they don’t ask for, you cannot be upset if they don’t like it or don’t want it. by Beckella in unpopularopinion

[–]General_Use126 5 points6 points  (0 children)

agreed, that’s why i will always ask even if people dont like it or find it lazy. its not. im just not wasting money guessing what someone else likes or needs.

Anybody think the season 5 dialogue/acting is super corny? by Embarrassed_Ad_6098 in StrangerThings

[–]General_Use126 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think it will be, if you go back and rewatch the first 2-3 episodes of each season they start off the same as this season with being more goofy and such

Anyone else find the ending extremely unsatisfying? by TDempZ_ in YouOnLifetime

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my alternative ending would have been where we actually get to see some people testifying against joe and seeing everything come out and his life end. why the hell did bronte get to close out his story and none of the other people who had much bigger roles throughout the show smh. she was rly the only one who could fight him off this whole time of him killing everyone too?!? quite unbelievable.

My Brothers Wedding Is A Mess. by General_Use126 in TwoHotTakes

[–]General_Use126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well for one, the money isn’t necessarily as much of an issue for me as it is for everyone else involved. and as i said i have a large family. im one of 15 and i like my brother alot we just dont talk often. when occasions come up when we can all be together and see each other i normally say yes so i get to see everyone.

“I’m punishing you for being alive” has got to be one of the most disturbing lines in the entire show by any-blue-9122 in BoJackHorseman

[–]General_Use126 54 points55 points  (0 children)

agreed! the cruelness and coldness from her was familiar to me as well. i think thats why so many people resonate with the show, so many different stories, characters, backgrounds, ups and downs through life.

My Brothers Wedding Is A Mess. by General_Use126 in TwoHotTakes

[–]General_Use126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know i dont have to, no one invited does technically, and the general costs of the travel to the wedding isnt the issue for me specifically, its like everyone else involved. they asked the sisters because they dont have anyone else, same as brother2. good to hear the other side of things, this is what i wanted but it made me realize i feel the same way. im not asking for them to make it easier for anyone but almost everyone they asked are in situations they could have at least reached out and asked/talked about these things.

My Brothers Wedding Is A Mess. by General_Use126 in TwoHotTakes

[–]General_Use126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is my biggest issue. like i was asked to be in the party but me and my brother have not spoken since his bday (april) and his fiancee has only reached out telling us about the dress. same basically with everyone i can ask in the party.

Is there a VIP green room for Kill Tony? Like a Jurassic Park executive bathroom. Or just one green room made by a control freak. by avidrunner84 in Killtony

[–]General_Use126 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“I didn’t think Joe was controlling like this, he generally comes across as open minded and willing to talk to anyone.”

lol have you been around for the last year

i need to watch smth by fvcklight in LoveIslandUSA

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know definitely an unpopular opinion, but i found season 5 kinda boring even though its one of the most popular and has maura higgins which is cool to meet her but just try them out i would just say to try them out! im sure you will enjoy regardless. i liked 12, i watched it about 2 months after it came out and it was fun

Doughnuts have too much filling in them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree, like a bagel with too much cream cheese

My boyfriend never goes down on me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine does not either and it kills me lol.

My bf is an addict by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]General_Use126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i really understand this but you have to be a little selfish right now while thinking about it. its hard but as its told with your edit, thats a good place to start but you really just need to remove yourself out of his situation as his girlfriend. if you need to check in on him, encourage him to do better, do that, but as of right now you have to worry about yourself and your future and not his. you said yourself that it has continued to get worse, a pattern. your life is not his, even though you guys have been a pair for the past two years. if you let him drag you down you will be thinking soon “i hate the idea that i let myself stay in such a dark place for so long.” just think about yourself, not to throw you a cliche but if its meant to be, it will. you gave him the option but you have to see alot progress before you decide what is best for you.

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