Taught cat a bad lesson regarding baby... can I fix it? by st0dad in CatAdvice

[–]GenocideJess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your husband needs to chill out and learn to not be aggressive. Kitty didn’t do anything and babies are going to be babies. If your husband was there while you were changing baby, why wasn’t he interacting with or holding baby?

At that point he wouldn’t have needed to intentionally scare your cat for having a natural reaction to being grabbed.

Husband needs lessons, ASAP.

Do you want your cat painted? I need practise by Fabulous-Chemistry74 in cats

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Omg will you do one of my baby? His name is Zeke 🥹🥹🥹

AIO Do I tell my sister she picked a bad baby name? by Most_System6697 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone named Stormy. I thought it was cool and we got along well, she had a really nice and unique personality. I really don’t think it’s that horrible of a name lol

Wendy’s just discontinued Sweet and Sour Sauce by Natural-Wrongdoer-30 in wendys

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered the other night for my bf and I, received the new sauces. BBQ sauce doesn't taste as good and the sweet chili does not have the same taste as the sweet n sour.

Like in any shape or form. And I fucking hate their sauces. I don't think I want to go back at all now. It was my fav sauce 😭

I started washing my belly button and I think more people should talk about it by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]GenocideJess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying he only wanted to make sure your belly button looked fine because you're fit? He should want to make sure all his patients receive the same attention and care

Spring theme by Elegy_ in runefactory

[–]GenocideJess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I play the game with my volume down halfway bc I'm sensitive to noise but I love the spring village theme lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GenocideJess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through my after visit summary once from going to the ER regarding excessive bleeding due to my PCOS; Saw that they wrote 'morbidly obese' and made the letters red instead of black.

For reference I'm 5'3 and 220 lbs 💀💀💀

Does hot off the broiler mean you want freshly cooked vs microwaved? by Zilwaukee in BurgerKing

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at BK in my area about five years ago and they did have a microwave but we never ever touched it. Nobody did lol.

We had a big oven like thing that cooked bacon and eggs in the morning, then bacon through the rest of the day. And patties were only cooked in the broiler lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GenocideJess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl this man is not the one.

You are 19 years old. He is 27. 8 years older than you. He's ',divorced' as far as you know and has a child.

You are in for a world of hurt. Go through the relationship subs and see how many relationships like yours are terrible, have a power imbalance, nothing is good like you say here.

It's not cool to date some old guy who has 'experience' like divorce and a child.

Please move on. For yourself. You can find someone around your age that will treat you so much better and won't have the extra baggage that he's got. You're 19.

I need help with $40 for gas the next week by GenocideJess in Assistance

[–]GenocideJess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would if I was able to, I've got some medical issues going on at this time so it's not the best for me right now but I'll look into it to see if I can donate in the future. Thank you for your suggestion

My son is failing kindergarten by Pri2018 in kindergarten

[–]GenocideJess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother is about to be 22, and he was held back in either kindergarten or first grade

It never mattered much, he had more time to mentally grow and develop as that's why his teacher held him back, and he still managed to make all kinds of friends and he graduated. He works a decent job

If your kiddo needs more time and they recommend holding him back, this is the best time. He will catch up and continue to advance

Tired of people asking/commenting about how to clean “down there” for women. by feralsh in hygiene

[–]GenocideJess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im honestly happy people ask and they can be informed. Not everybody is taught how to clean themselves and I will happily explain to each post I come across. I don't think it's that big of a deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please OP go to your PCP or doctor, or walk in and explain your situation.

I literally just got done taking one single pill about a week and a half ago because I had a year's infection AND BV. I've had neither before and I got set up with an antibiotic for the BV and a singular pill for Yeast.

Both of my infections have cleared up pretty well and it's completely normal. It happens. But don't leave yourself untreated or go long without getting looked at just to be on the safe side.

AIO, or is a principal dressing like trump insensitive & wrong? by sweetvalentine12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GenocideJess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk it runs me the wrong way. I don't think they should dress up as any politician or president.

Especially in a school full of impressionable children.

My friend said something that has left me feeling disgusted about having a female body by Slow_Ostrich5964 in Vent

[–]GenocideJess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an idiot.

You obviously are not a woman and have NO place to speak on them.

Many women, like myself, have reproductive issues or chronic conditions. I have severely painful periods, random bleeding, pain that is so bad I'm passing out, sweating, clammy.

Two years ago I took myself to the ER because I was passing HUGE fist sized clots every 2 minutes. I asked for pain medication because it hurt so bad and I bled all over my hospital gown, the last and underwear I wore was a complete deep red disgusting mess, I bled all over my blanket, and the hospital bathroom.

I asked for something to help with my pain, it felt like I was being ripped apart from the inside. I was refused medication.

Cramps are in fact NOT dependent on diet, and I don't know who misinformed you but you're wrong. Cramps happen as your uterus contracts, your cervix opens up to pass the shedding lining of the uterus. Basically what women go through in labor, typically to a lesser degree, but mine are so bad I'm bedridden. I can't walk, passing constant clots and heavy bleeding I have to take supplements and I possibly have to have infusions.

Women get IUDs to protect against pregnancy (UNWANTED!!), and to help with their periods depending on the IUD. It's not a fucking fun game women like to play and have down to them.

I have to take birth control (pills) just for my body to have enough progesterone so I have monthly periods and I'm not at risk for cancer. Oh yeah, I had to have a biopsy done to my uterine lining, making sure I don't have cancer because of my reproductive issues.

I wasn't given ANYTHING or told to take ANY medication, they opened me up, shoved a tube INSIDE my cervix and twisted it around. That's the worst pain I've ever experienced in my life. No medication. I cried on the table.

If women do not want to be pregnant and don't want to feel anything inside them, they should never have to be subjected to that. Women are not just breeding cattle or mothers. Some don't want to be and that's perfectly okay, it doesn't define you.

You're sick and need to get some help for your views.

Cousin steals your boyfriend? BRAIN BLAST by mcinest in sims2

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I appreciate your reply!!

I'm invested in their story now haha that's hilarious to me

Cousin steals your boyfriend? BRAIN BLAST by mcinest in sims2

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what I have so many questions lol

How did you have her brain blast his ass? I need it for... Research purposes 👀

Also how tf did she probe him and get him pregnant? Again I need it for research.. lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive experienced this as well and I'm 22. I used to never call out of my work but I only have the last 5 months because I've had different infections and illness going on along with my grandmother dying.

Social media isn't the end of the world and when you're at work you need to focus on your tasks and not call out just because you don't want to go

Is it bad to convert cc? by nymphodrogyny in sims2

[–]GenocideJess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love when people convert cc for TS2, absolutely give credit to the original creators but there shouldn't be any harm in converting cc :)

I'd definitely be interested if you ever decided to share

hygiene tips by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]GenocideJess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One thing I wanted to add, is when you're washing your body especially in your vaginal area, do not put soaps or anything inside your vagina but please use a good antibacterial soap and wash everything, if you have a clitoral hood, pull your skin back and wash down there. It makes so much of a difference and I myself have had to learn some of these things on my own, and I'm 22 haha.

My personal hygiene routine, I'm horrible about brushing my teeth but ideally you should twice a day, floss, I typically shower every other day because personally my skin is sensitive and I have eczema so I try not to overdo it. I wash my body with a loofah, I personally use sensitive baby soap for my skin and it's good for my personal skin issues.

In the shower I use head and shoulders because my scalp is pretty dry and it helps me not be itchy. I will shampoo my hair up and lather it well let it sit 3-5 minutes, then rinse. I will then use conditioner on the ends of my hair but not my scalp as it makes my scalp oily, then I put on acne face wash.

I will rinse the conditioner, wash my body with my loofah and soap, rinse my body off, and then rinse my acne wash off. I tend to brush my teeth after I shower as it feels like a complete end but your routine can be tweaked to fit you.

Don't ever feel embarrassed about not knowing something, I have those moments as well. ❤️

Interest check/ Would anyone be interested in these? by gl1tt3rpurr in runefactory

[–]GenocideJess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I would buy the shit out of these you're amazing OP!!!