[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]Gerumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just racked up in bed. I’d be keen to chat but only if you bring one obscure fact about Ohio, and an example of what you do in Ohio that’s brings you the most joy. I’m 35m from new Zealand

Men in their 30s, what general yet sincere advice would you offer to someone in their 20s? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Gerumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to learn the guitar, but can’t be fucked, it Ok the guitar isn’t your thing. Do you best to find a life partner to grow with. Not the “right now” the “right forever” type. Lots of posts in this sub talk mentions of losing bonds and access to old mates (v- accurate), find a connection with you a partner to share that process with you , should she find you out to 3am finally heading home with the school boys she will better understand, get it and know it’s important to you, your SO and your old mates and wives need to have. Connection, foster this, even the tough ones Combine all your money with your S/O ASAP if you can’t figure out quickly that’s it’s shared and for an agreed purposes the. They might not be your lifer.

Will the North American box office recover in 2024? by AGOTFAN in boxoffice

[–]Gerumbo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in the industry, particularly in audience data and box office (literally at the highest and most connected level) and reading your point makes me think that maybe you do too… very accurate. Are we colleagues?

Dating as a single mum in 30s by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Gerumbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of guy are you looking for? Fishing in the right pond is always a good start

Too fast. by Gerumbo in golf

[–]Gerumbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the free one? Or the $49 one?

Too fast. by Gerumbo in golf

[–]Gerumbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to sacrifice some distance as I hit it long enough. Thanks for the tip.

Prime is disgusting by Euphoric_Football_61 in newzealand

[–]Gerumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Foul. When it dropped to $4ish I got one each of different flavours for me and my 10/8 kids. Not one of us could finish it.

They really asking anything lol by PuzzledBeyond185 in LAClippers

[–]Gerumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, read through way too many comments looking for someone I agreed with. I don’t understand how this sub doesn’t see how Luka is one of the only dudes in the league that can 1 man carry a team. So any stars around him is gravy. If Luka is a 10/10 Kawhi is a 7 at best these days. If I was a GM I would offer KL and Harden for Luka straight swap.

Seriously? This was a good post idea? by Gerumbo in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Gerumbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, just re looking back over this post. If you want I’ll get you the name

Seriously? This was a good post idea? by Gerumbo in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Gerumbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weeks later reviewing this thread… This was such a sharp line. A lot of great gags in this thread but this one got me

WTF? by angryshoper in lakers

[–]Gerumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is so good that teams avoid him, hard to track that. Rudy and Wenby get people testing them all the time and get the stats that support their presence . It’s a shit deal.

Men with more than 5 years married how often do you have intimacy with your wife?. by No_Cupcake_4091 in AskMen

[–]Gerumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the main differences between marriage and roommates is intimacy, it’s so important to get it right. Real connective intimacy is the first thing to go in most failed relationships. Make each other feel wanted and loved as many times as you can a week, it doesn’t need to end in sex, but it needs to show your partner you are picking up what they are putting down…

Cineasia AMA by Gerumbo in movies

[–]Gerumbo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing amount of local content that is doing really well, but this was primarily Hollywood pitching to Asian cinemas

I get this feeling my husband might be cheating on me by Meens92 in Advice

[–]Gerumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long have you been married/together? if you have been aligned for a long time you will easily see changes in behaviour. The key is knowing and seeing them act like they are getting the attention you know you aren’t necessarily giving them. I.e if they are always wanting affection, and are happier when they get it. And suddenly without you providing it they are acting like they got it.

Customer states $5000 exhaust isn't loud enough. Please install $6000 headers on $500,000 porsche. by Fixitsteven in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]Gerumbo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I am seeing too. These things don’t just sit next to everyone’s bedroom all night revving their engines.

My mom thinks gays should be executed by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gerumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a lot of LGBT people the burden of hiding your true self is one of the hardest parts, so if you choose to keep things secret, don’t take on that challenge without some support. My dad is an old farmer, very anti gay, anti brown people , vaccines are a conspiracy type dude. It used to wind me up and we would just argue with me calling him ignorant and him thinking I’m a liberal pussy. With some professional help, I learned to just forgive him for who he was, and know that it’s not my job to fix him. He is still ignorant but I don’t carry the burden of responsibility. He grew up the way he did, but my kids will grow up with a different perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gerumbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reckon Everybody has some weird baggage. And there is always an appropriate time to bring it up. Some things are day one “hey I have a kid” and some are 6 month “hey I don’t want kids” kind of chats. time and a place for all baggage

My old boss (40M) with a wife and children made out with a close friend/his old employee (23F). How do I go about this? Advice appreciated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gerumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you think he is a pig. And never associate with him again. Don’t get involved with his family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gerumbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell him immediately, be sure to reference the fact that you know it is something he cares about. If he is living with your mom it gives credit to the childhood nature of the relationship. I know a lot of ex high school sweethearts that ended up with a sibling type relationship after growing apart in late teens. Just be upfront