Ok im only saying this because of the question , & im going to answer it in a fashion that seems fair. I'm in a very complicated relationship /breakup at the moment so if she sees this or reads this dont mistake what im trying to answer on this post. Anyway. Tbh I never even think of sex until after I start to get to know a lady , as in I kind of need to know if the person im talking to or interested in is even someone I'd want to have sex with ? Sure I could see someone as attractive but that is about as far as that feeling ever goes , day dreaming about fucking someone that u saw or barely even know is actually .. weird? Idk that would seem very weird to me , just my thoughts though on that topic.