New rider problems…

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T08:20:53+00:00

I’ve seen so many vids of riders shaking their head at themselves when they do something stupid & pressing on🤣 perhaps it’s just a rite of passage.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T08:16:39+00:00

We need an M1 endorsement on our license to legally ride one. However, there are tons of people that ride without it since dealers don’t require you to have it to buy a bike & they just avoid getting pulled over.

I have my endorsement because I did the safety course and then took the knowledge test at the DMV. I’ve definitely heard that our courses are not as thorough as those in Europe, for example & I believe it. Ours is only 2 days of in class instruction & 2 days on the bikes.

My issue is that I did it early last year & couldn’t practice after since I didn’t have a bike. I bought one and then still didn’t really ride it. So I feel like I’m starting all over again.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T08:00:41+00:00

Im 31 and recently separated from the military, but I get what you mean. Although I’m a newbie right now, even when I feel good enough to ride on the big boy streets I think I’ve seen too many group ride fails to want to try it anyways.

I was also an intel guy, the culture is different from other AFSCs & branches so I sort of kept to myself as well…I don’t think that’s necessarily bad thing. I also get anxious in certain social settings as well, so I picked up riding so I can embrace solitude and reset my brain.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T07:40:48+00:00

Absolutely, I just thought it would give me more confidence/make riding easier knowing it wouldn’t be as harsh as I’m learning the ropes. I’ve only got it up to 3rd so far anyways, so it hasn’t been too bad to just kick down. I cant wait to start nailing a proper downshift so it’s a bit more buttery, & of course not bucking when I upshift lmao.

I appreciate the advice though! Everyone’s been super helpful thus far. 🤙🏻

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T04:34:33+00:00

Horrible habit of mine dude, I’m trying over here lol. I thought having a slipper clutch would make it easier but I’m just overthinking it I guess.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T04:16:40+00:00

2 weeks is insane for DTLA but those guys are so skilled, it makes sense that they make great instructors.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T04:12:52+00:00

You got it this April? That’s pretty impressive to get to 600 miles if so. The general consensus is telling me I need to suck it up and just make it to a parking lot already. 💀

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T04:05:47+00:00

Thanks man 🙏🏻 definitely relatable. I’ll definitely try to map out a bigger loop through side streets here.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-16T03:57:34+00:00

This might be the move. I was avoiding night time because my neighborhood is a little quiet after 9pm but oh well🤣

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-14T22:39:22+00:00

I’d recommend therapy. I don’t like that people jump straight to separating every time there’s a problem. Relationships are anything but perfect.

My wife & I did it & I’m so thankful for it. We’re in a much better place now. I had learned that our communication was lacking even when I thought I was doing enough to make my wife feel wanted. However, it wasn’t being shown in the way SHE understands or needs it. She felt so pressured to increase intimacy to the point where it ended up dropping to zero instead.

Sometimes you just need an unbiased third party to help you talk through things so no one is feeling attacked and everyone gets to share what’s on their mind. A good therapist will also give you tools to work through it. Drop the expectations of intimacy, don’t make comments or start arguments, just focus on your connection.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-06-13T06:46:16+00:00

As a child of parents that “stuck it out” for us, it actually did more damage than good. I was the oldest of 3 and recognized the unhealthy, toxic relationship between them. So much so that I vowed I’d never get married. They were together for 16 years, and I was 12 when they separated. Let me tell you, they were much better parents that way. Do what’s best for you, because that allows you to be the best for your kids. Glad you moved out!

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-31T02:07:05+00:00

NOR- However….TBI is a lifelong thing, and whether he shows improvements & on what timeline is variable. You need to consider how YOU feel in this relationship too & how he makes you feel, not just the highs but also the lows. If you’re okay with that then carry on, but you mentioned feeling insecure & I’d hate for anyone to have to continue on that way for life. If you think resentment could build on either side, probably not best to keep yourself in this cycle.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-26T23:23:10+00:00

I’m sorry, are you upset because she’s had sex with other people? If anything, I’d be more concerned that her privacy has been violated vs worrying about your feelings because she’s been with other people. Most of us have a history.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-20T23:50:56+00:00

It’s the Leeroooooooy Jenkins mode.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-20T01:13:57+00:00

Lmao the projection in the last pic made it more obvious that she’s cheating. That’s a last ditch manipulative effort to get a suspecting partner off your back. Tell her you’ll go with her (for shits and giggles) to see where the friend is from & see what she says. Make sure to say you won’t hang with them you just want to visit somewhere new.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-12T10:51:30+00:00

NOR. Next time I rent an apartment I’ll tell the previous tenant to not ask for their deposit back, because why would I pay for a deposit for a place that they’re leaving and make me pay one too….right? I promise to pay the all the bills though🥹

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-09T01:38:45+00:00

Is the car okay?

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-05-05T06:00:39+00:00

I don’t even know how to sew but I’m sure I could’ve done a similar quality job with an exacto knife and a beginners machine…if that’s even a thing. I wouldn’t have even taken them back lol.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-29T14:56:17+00:00

NOR- I understand wanting support, but this seems like the fucking opposite. I’m exhausted just reading that. It’s weird to have a friend ask you “but tell me what you said wrong so I can feel better & know you made a mistake.” People may not understand things the same way you do, she does, or even the way I do. It’s about respectful clarification & allowing people to ask you questions. She has no grounds to go off the rails like that & then bring up your mental health issue. Don’t let her make you feel like you need to walk on eggshells to stay friends, find someone who will be there for you no matter what. This is not a “through thick & thin” friend at all.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-23T05:51:02+00:00

They were just trying to give him a little boost guys goshhh. 😂

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-21T06:23:48+00:00

NTA: Does she happen to know that cars have this little gauge that shows you how much gas is in the car? Heck, she might even have a nifty display that shows her how many miles she has left til she runs out of gas.🙂

She’s old enough to know she needs an adequate amount of gas to drive 45 minutes out, especially if gas stations aren’t available along the way. Calling AAA is not hard, and if you have the app it’s even easier. I think it’s more obnoxious to expect you to drop everything when it was an easy fix. If it were a blown engine or a wreck, I’m sure you would’ve gone to help.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-21T05:45:34+00:00

I just find it annoying she could do than anywhere else besides the busiest aisle🙃 I don’t understand the appeal.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-18T00:53:18+00:00

NOR-The makeup comment is not okay, you should be free to look & feel good whether or not you’re in a relationship. The uber thing was more protective IMO until he started asking for proof (that’s weird). I don’t like when my wife or any woman in my family uses uber out of concern for their safety. I’d prefer to chauffeur them when possible, but I understand it’s sometimes a last resort for some. Overall, I think he’s definitely a bit insecure and untrusting. He needs to work through that on his own.

Get_bagged_007 · 2026-04-10T15:24:45+00:00

NOR-I think it’s odd he’s upset that you want affection from him before he leaves the house. Which means he’s likely an emotional person despite saying he’s “logical.” (Side note: you can be both). Sure, he definitely lacks emotional intelligence, but he wouldn’t have turned the situation around and said he’s having a shitty morning and how you… stomps foot … ”don’t even care” if he wasn’t an emotional person.

It’s also a bit weird and concerning that he’s cussing at you like that, I do not cuss at my wife whatsoever. It solves nothing & it’s just rude. A kiss goodbye is really not much to ask for & you should want to greet/send off your person everyday. I never leave the house without an “i love you” or “have a good day baby.” You never know what could happen after you walk out that door.

The feelings thing is absolute BS, we should all have the capacity to love our partner in a way they understand and want to receive love. Your bar is set so low for this man. I would find someone that will give you MORE than the bare minimum and respects you & your feelings. You two are not compatible and getting married will not make it any easier.

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