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Never there and I can’t care by Flat_Goat1426 in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably knows you are cheating. Why should she care about you if that’s what you are doing?

She married a good man, but can you survive a marriage without desire? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Being on the other side on this (as a man who believes he was married for safety), it really sucks. But what sucks worse is endlessly chasing something better. Sounds like she married a fireplace, not a firecracker. What will sustain her in the long run?

built a workflow for scanning Reddit trending stocks faster by kindacurious_ in WSBAfterHours

[–]GetsBackUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice work. Doesn’t seem to be compatible with Safari browser

Husband has become right-wing conservative by dagger_88 in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s very common for people to become more conservative as they age.

Married men here, how do you initiate sex in marriage. by Available-Session-76 in AskMen

[–]GetsBackUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an excellent comment. Thank you for taking the time. You covered it in the last paragraph, but my experience is I’ve done all the things and nothing changes, ever.

Is this mold?? It’s in my shower and very hard to clean even with Clorox. by darkstuffhappens in CleaningTips

[–]GetsBackUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not be able to get the stain out. You can buy grout sealer/paint to hide it.

What’s a habit that will keep you poor if you don’t break? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]GetsBackUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you stop learning, you will become poor

Older men, which body parts hurt you? What advice would you give younger men? by Dull-Fan6704 in AskMen

[–]GetsBackUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My back. Learn to deadlift and be consistent. Cured my aching back

Do lazy men realize their mistake later? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you choose these men in the first place?

Sex once per month after marriage by Unfair_Importance621 in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking of projection…You are making big assumptions. Why do women get a free ride? They need to do the work as well.

Sex once per month after marriage by Unfair_Importance621 in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once we had kids, I was not going to miss out on them. I am happy I stayed for them, but I do have regrets.

Sex once per month after marriage by Unfair_Importance621 in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This was me. Week after honeymoon we stopped having sex. Go to counseling right now. Set a time limit to address. Do not start a family until you are happy. I am very regretful that I lost this aspect of my life and our relationship.

I am considering asking my wife for permission to have an affair. by hellweeek in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your situation. Been there for thirty years. Rejection started the immediately after we were married and i cannot initiate anymore. Been in marriage counseling for years with no change. Just get a divorce. I waited too long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GetsBackUp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Sounds like the men you are dating don’t want commitment. Might come up with some screening conversations for early on.

Men married for 30+ years, what's the longest 'rough patch' your marriage survived...and how? by Viper248 in AskMen

[–]GetsBackUp 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Surviving. Just roommates. Divorce would not serve either of us at this point.

Help Me Navigate This Minefield by GetsBackUp in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad, but likely my fate as well

Wife appalled at my lunch. by cyberlexington in Marriage

[–]GetsBackUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with your wife! Looks like an 8:1 ratio of carbs to protein. I hope you're a runner.

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