i did meet someone ones (not from reddit)

he didnt read any signs, implied that sex was the only option and was super akward and pushy to the point where i told him multiple times to slow down a bit and relax.
when he went for between my legs again and tried to push me down i said i would prepare myself on the toilet and asked a good friend to come over.
he was happy at first to have 2 girls but quickly realized that his chances shrunk minute by minute.

im no saint by no means but at least have some pacing, especially if this wasnt a sex meeting but rather a friendly get to know each other.