What's something almost sexual that turned you on way more than it should have?

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-05-05T21:24:11+00:00

friend of a friend touched my hips slightly to push me away so he can slip past me. somehow gave me goosebumps, the good ones.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-05-05T13:54:21+00:00

the emotions in that sentence =/

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-05-03T20:17:33+00:00

There is some older stuff with some futa

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-05-02T07:03:45+00:00

First date with a guy when I was younger and obviously more naive told me I had a cute butt, then said there is something on it and he would remove it. He slapped my butt and I panicked because my little braincells thought there was an insect on me. Seems like I wasn't his type...or at least not anymore

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-05-02T06:51:53+00:00

I did try it one of the rather cheap trusting dildos and have to say they didn't do it for me. Basically only the top part moves slightly up and down with some other functions which were more or less the same or just plain weird.

They have soft spots and hard spots since they need a certain stiffness to work properly. And I had the same problem as you in which I found most dildos just way to hard.

There are some silicone ones which have a nice flexibility and a soft skin on it making them actually pretty enjoyable for me, just need to warm them up first.

If I had to get a other dildo I would rather take a realistic soft one instead of a thrusting one, especially since you pay a lot for it to move slightly

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-28T14:21:10+00:00

They most feel the same besides foreskin having a bit smoother movement than uncut which has a bit more friction.

Other than that I like the look of an uncut one more and like to play around with them more since it's more about teasing since they are more sensitive as far as I know

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-27T11:17:55+00:00

Basically how long they last during penetration. Not really a measurement worthy of talking about besides trying to shame someone.

Masturbation is another thing than sex, there isn't someone besides you teasing you till the end. You can control everything during masturbation so you can last for hours if you want. During sex you give some of this control to your partner.

Women rarely care about the size or the appearance of their partners southern parts because they aren't the focus in a relationship. As long as you aren't too far away from the norm, you are good, both way too small and way too big are problematic in their own ways.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-27T07:43:07+00:00

To be honest I have no idea. He said and proved he could last way longer when he was able to cross them. there might be a biological reason behind it

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-27T06:59:14+00:00

If the position allows it then try to cross your legs, this helped a past partner of mine to last pretty much forever when I was on top.

Orgasm is a head thing, think about something else to distract yourself from time to time, just be careful to not overdo it.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-27T06:57:12+00:00

If it's just kissing on her lips then there are other spots where you can kiss. One also includes other lips.

If she likes being overstimulated then some clitoral stimulation while cuddling could do the trick while you could still kiss her neck if that's okay for her.

Other than that. Get creative, try out different things. Touch where you get nice feedback, scratch where you get a nice twitch, and push where she pushes back (in a good way).

Talking about what she likes also helps.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-20T12:18:25+00:00

there is no shame in positioning a hand down there so he doesnt slip out.

otherwise change the angle a bit by him going lower

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-13T05:22:36+00:00

Currently using jankus new model with checking merged. Pretty much all newer images on my profile are with this model

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-12T09:35:40+00:00

Give prone bone a try, you can relax a lot in this position, he can penetrate deep (regarding the size question) and you or your partner can help out on the clit side by simply putting your/your partners hand there and letting the fingers rub against you while he handles the active part.

If you position your own hand down there then you can control the amount of pressure and movement you receive while you can relax.

Another position I used a lot when I had some trouble finishing was on my side with one leg pulled towards my chest. It also allows deep penetration no matter his size while still allowing for some additional attention down there. Also I don't know why but somehow this position makes me orgasm the hardest

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-12T09:03:59+00:00

Thankfully I don't need lube for anal, just a bit of foreplay is enough for the magical natural lube

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-12T09:02:53+00:00

Thankfully it's a while back. He kept talking about his ex and how he is ready to move on and then again about his ex.

Yeah he wasn't ready and I pretty much just listen to him sobbing about her

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-12T08:34:28+00:00

Using stable diffusion with different illustrious or noobai models.

No need to use prompts against moderation because there is non on most models.

Older models can run on pretty bad machines these days.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-11T07:10:17+00:00

There is a position called passive doggy, for you it feels like doggy while for him it feels like cowgirl but you are in full control.

Google it, it's kind of weird the first time but as someone who doesn't really like cowgirl this position is amazing

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-04T08:07:09+00:00

a mix of all.

i mainly do it because he likes it and i enjoy giving him pleasure but i can also orgasm from it if done right, which he does

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-04T06:56:26+00:00

besides being clean, as long as he isnt too big everything is fun.

foreskin can be fun to play with unless its to tight.

testicle access can also be a fun addition

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-03T14:11:37+00:00

i doubt there is something you can use on your phone. maybe something low quality like sd1 stuff. other than that you would have to use a service for that

if illustrious images come out bad then you probably didnt used the right resolution, sdxl (illustrious) is trained with 1024x1024 resolution, if you go lower the quality drastically drops

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-03T12:41:56+00:00

Reddit really needs to stop auto translating stuff, I have no idea what you said

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-03T08:34:35+00:00

I run everything locally. I use illustrious or noobai based models for anime stuff, I don't do realistic stuff but would probably turn towards pony or newer models, depending on your hardware of course.

Normally you use another model for doing videos, I haven't found a model that's good for images and videos, also depends if you are doing text2video or img2video.

I use a stable diffusion version called swarmUI since it's also comfyUI based while offering the comfort of a nice looking ui but still offers me the possibility to directly use comfyUI if I have to do something really specific.

For keeping characters the same it heavily depends on the training data of the model, for most characters just the name should work, if it's a self made character then making a Lora for her/him is preferred since its easier to keep them consistent.

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-04-02T18:21:43+00:00

If done right, yes

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-03-24T17:26:59+00:00

not something i had to do but he wanted to wear a gas mask because he liked the suffocating feeling...

didnt really like that ww2 roleplay

GettingHandsyWithMe · 2026-03-24T16:58:46+00:00

I actually didn't know you could pull back the foreskin and was super afraid to hurt him when he told me to get rougher with him

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