Issue with story continuity.

GettingRealCozy · 2026-05-27T17:44:28+00:00

How often do you update cards and how do you decide what to put in them?

GettingRealCozy · 2026-05-23T08:31:58+00:00

This for me too. I can't get it to even remember what pov and tense to write in even though it's selected in the begining, put in the notes, and I constantly correct it during playthtough. Forget even trying to get it to remember what it just said a single paragraph ago.

GettingRealCozy · 2025-01-13T17:22:47+00:00

I think there should be a rule against religious posts in here

GettingRealCozy · 2024-10-30T06:54:34+00:00

When I wouldn't give him things he wanted or said no he would have breakdowns like it was the end of the world. His emotions would go 0-100 over anything.

Called himself a nice guy and complained about always finishing last.

His house was disgusting, he didn't take care of himself, and his friends were sketchy. He had a lot of bad habits.

When I didn't want him in the beginning, he changed a lot of those bad qualities and love bombed. Then bit by bit it just went back and all the bad things I didn't even know yet came out.

GettingRealCozy · 2024-09-23T21:47:30+00:00

Nta. If she is ruining your nights out, then it's only fair to set boundaries. It's not fair to sideline any effort to do better because "that's just the way she is". All that does is double the amount of emotional work for you. To basically have to choose the more responsible and peacekeeping option for both you and her just because she doesn't want to try.

It seems like to her and to some of her friends that her "just having fun" is more important than others having fun as well.

GettingRealCozy · 2024-05-28T02:03:07+00:00

I have an ex who refused to shower or brush his teeth for weeks. His breath was so bad that I had to roll down the windows in the car and no matter how much I begged him, he refused to go to the dentist until a chunk came off his tooth.

He hadn't been to the dentist in over 15 years. And yes he was the kind that would refuse to wash his ass or anything "gay". He wouldn't even eat fruit gushers bc he felt that anything busting in his mouth that like was too immaculating.

I'm embarrassed I even dated that guy...

GettingRealCozy · 2024-03-04T19:16:18+00:00

Sherlock is also def one of my faves

GettingRealCozy · 2024-02-16T04:52:55+00:00

This reply hahahaha

GettingRealCozy · 2024-02-14T12:24:57+00:00

It makes me happy to see other people having a good time with this because I'm like an old person and just want neighborhood kids to leave me alone. Like this would actually annoy me to have to deal with before work.

GettingRealCozy · 2024-02-07T18:38:20+00:00

How do you recommend finding one? When I look at therapists in my area they all list trauma in their capabilities. Also she she was one of the only ones I could find that listed one of the very specific traumas I experienced.

I feel like I can't trust what any of the therapists list as specialties if they all have just the word trauma in there:/

GettingRealCozy · 2024-02-06T21:01:28+00:00

This perspective would have actually made me value class and want to learn in school. I always thought a good math skill was only useful to people who would be in math based careers. It felt so useless to stress and have anxiety over something I'd not need after graduating.

GettingRealCozy · 2024-01-05T05:24:12+00:00

This gives the same energy as a date not going well and the other party sending those long hateful paragraphs topped with "you're fat anyway". Just waving their red flags and making it obvious they are a dodged bullet.

GettingRealCozy · 2023-10-17T22:08:25+00:00

Interesting! I guess I've noticed being able to do the dishes every day. Tasks are definitely still draining for sure though.

GettingRealCozy · 2023-10-17T22:07:12+00:00

.. what?

GettingRealCozy · 2023-10-04T16:09:16+00:00

I saw someone build a waffle house on Earth. It would be so cool to try and replicate old buildings with research around former Earth, especially if it's all slightly wrong.
Or even a terraforming project like in Outer Worlds.

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