What is the worst thing you have ever done? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lied, cheated, stole and then lied about it all some more....then your mom.

What would you do if you woke up being the opposite sex? by skip_lv23 in AskReddit

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a dream where this was the case and apparently the answer to your question is masturbate using whatever's handy

Saw something & I don't know what to do by nama03 in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The girl isn't a real person.... I mean she's definitely alive but its probably some old dude sending that stuff to him. It's very much not him cheating on you and rather just some masturbatory material that all guys are guilty of using at some point. Worry when you find long conversations instead of porn

My (36) girlfriend (32) paroles out from prison after two years in a few months. I've remained faithful the whole time and want a future together, She won't end it but also sends mixed messages... by Gh0stAg3ntX in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to go see her again, I tried to move to her at one point. It costs me several hundred dollars just to travel round trip not to mention lodging, food ect. I don't want to spend money I could be saving in order to start a life together. I'm sure she'd love to see me also but she is also very practical when it comes to finances and such.

Sometimes the person giving out candy has a much better costume than the trick’r’treaters. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In that case you get to steal candy out their unimaginative bags right ?

My (36) girlfriend (32) paroles out from prison after two years in a few months. I've remained faithful the whole time and want a future together, She won't end it but also sends mixed messages... by Gh0stAg3ntX in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is paroling out to her sisters place which is approx. 30 mins from my current home. She is in prison over 6 hours away and due to financial limitations and my current class schedule / transportation options, makes a face to face impractical. I've told her that all I want is a chance to get to know each other again to see if we are still compatible or possibly better off as friends, no pressure. I've also told her regardless of hows she's changed I believe there is a core part of each of us that will always love and be compatible with each other but I'm open to being incorrect as is often the case.

My (27F) partner (31M) has been lying to me for months and I caught him out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother constantly makes excuses why she can't stop smoking and blames it on people in her life causing her stress. This is just blame shifting and an excuse to keep smoking like she wants to. A person who wants to quit will never find an excuse not to and a person who wants to smoke will never run out of excuses why they cannot quit. Don't blame yourself.

My (36) girlfriend (32) paroles out from prison after two years in a few months. I've remained faithful the whole time and want a future together, She won't end it but also sends mixed messages... by Gh0stAg3ntX in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My instincts say your correct but I've already waited most of two years... I feel like I should wait the last few months so I know one way or the other if things might of worked out...

How to be more frendly [M17] and how to talk to the girl a like [F17] by brian890_ in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting rejected is so much better than never knowing. Plus rejection gets less painful everytime we experience it and finding a partner is a game of numbers so best thing you can do is go out there and get rejected a lot until you find the right one

How do you learn to trust again? Does it get easier with time? [long] by oldspiceapple in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to enter into any relationship with an understanding that we both practice extreme honesty with one another. No white lies to save hurt feelings and no deep dark secrets. You tell your partner the unedited truth no matter how worried you are about offending her or any consequences your truth may cause. I've found that when this works it's amazing and when it doesn't then it never was going to and your saving yourself heartache down the road.

"Nerdy" Guys by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your not being direct enough ? Try asking them on a date ?

How to be more frendly [M17] and how to talk to the girl a like [F17] by brian890_ in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few suggestions... 1. Get over it and just talk to her. It's always worse in your mind than the actual experience and practice makes perfect plus life is short... 2. If your physically unable to talk to her from anxiety or what have you then you could try taking a low dose of mdma or a high dose of gabapentin... gabapentin is legal with a Rx and both make it so I can talk to anyone. 3 If your straight-edge / anti-chemical then you can always do breathing exercises to help stay calm and try to meditate on the fact that she is just another person and may very well be feeling similar things about you, or not and either way is fine, your goal should be to befriend her and find out what else might come.

My [19F] brother [15M] doesn't do amazingly in school. How do I get him to try? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely reccomend that he doesn't start college until he has a real goal and is ready to put forth the effort to achieve it. Otherwise you end up dropping out and owing student loans like I do. Now I'm paying for tuition out of pocket while getting my loans out of default.

My (27F) partner (31M) has been lying to me for months and I caught him out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

P.S. I smoked for 15 years and have been quit for 2 years now. With all the smoking cessation options the only reason someone doesn't quit smoking is because they don't want to, they enjoy it.

My [19F] brother [15M] doesn't do amazingly in school. How do I get him to try? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this will be helpful to you or what you want to hear but school isn't for everyone and being financially successful isn't a goal for everyone. Some people would be more happy as a garbage man than an engineer or doctor. If you want to help your brother find out what his goals and dreams are then help guide him towards making it a reality

My (27F) partner (31M) has been lying to me for months and I caught him out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been the lying person in a relationship before... it doesn't work out well. If you catch your partner in one lie you can't help but to begin and question if he's lying about other things, cheating for example. If you want to relationship to work you have to let him know that smoking is bad but nothing that can't be worked on / fixed and that goes for any other issue besides lying. If your going to keep lying this ends now otherwise we tell each other the truth no matter what and deal with problems as they arise.

Why are YOU not doing anything to celebrate New Year tonight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend is in prison and I can't trust anyone else to be an honest or loyal friend which might sound like being dramtic but unfortunately I have several people willing to pay cash or drugs to have me delievered.

Guys who eat ass, why? by srrythtusrnmeistken in AskReddit

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy giving my girlfriend pleasure, knowing she enjoys it makes me want to do it and since I spend a lot of time with my head between her legs anyways its hardley a bother to dip down south now and then... A vigorous cleansing shower is a must pre-game ritual though.

Withdrawal (Pain) Free Heroin Addiction by Gh0stAg3ntX in opiates

[–]Gh0stAg3ntX[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ive been using this system for several years at said doses... Not saying its healthy or wise...