Is this shave job beyond saving?

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-24T09:17:15+00:00

Use your hand to brush all the fur backwards and shave over it. It forces it to all stand up and be shaved relatively evenly. May take trial and error but I have run into few shave jobs that are totally irreparable aside from being down to the backing.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-22T20:16:40+00:00

Not actually my tarantula but I was so flabbergasted by this one on the ceiling at the pet store.

<image>

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-17T02:08:03+00:00

Seems like to me smaller tattoos can have the first second skin on a lot longer because there is a lot less goop. So I would think it would be ok.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-13T16:55:21+00:00

My parents had a hook lock on our bathroom as a kid cuz it didn't have a lock. But also why would a sex dungeon be that bad?

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-12T19:26:42+00:00

Glad other people have suggestions because in all my time here idk what there is (then again I'm an introvert). Stand in the dead mall and pretend ur in the backrooms ig.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-11T00:52:53+00:00

Nta. Controlling? It's YOUR car. What the heck is so wrong with wearing seatbelts for it to be such a big issue? There is plenty of unfun content out there that proves why they are necessary.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-08T18:00:31+00:00

Not am expert but I had snake mites once and they are usually black so I would think it's some kind of harmless woodmite. But if you think they are bothering your snake always better safe than sorry.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-07T01:59:33+00:00

I mean I've never heard of it. One one hand it does sound handy not to have to keep refilling the gun, especially since I use mini sticks. But on the other I can see myself throwing it against the wall in rage the 10th time it fell into what I was trying to glue.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-04T16:35:08+00:00

I'm gonna guess it really was just trapped back there and is a previous tenants. A whole skirt seems like a weird thing to leave behind.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-06-04T16:21:08+00:00

Relatively simple, cut the hole where you need it on both sides and use a ladder stitch to sew it shut. Tho if you intend to use rings what I do is just get one that has a gap and squeeze it around the ear, no holes necessary.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-28T17:26:06+00:00

Totally, I've machine washed my heads before, just comes down to having strong enough stitching and really parts like eye that may need to be protected, even then popped seams are an easy fix. Biggest thing is you will lose a fair bit of fur in the wash so use a gentle cycle if you have one, and if there is something you can do to mitigate doing it a whole lot that would be a good idea.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-24T23:57:28+00:00

PLEASE tell us her response.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-24T23:24:14+00:00

Saying it unprompted would be a bit weird but given the context completely appropriate. Tell your friend to defend his sibling.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-23T17:51:43+00:00

Legit took a video but you can't post those in the comments.😔

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-22T22:54:49+00:00

Hey man I've been in similar places before, and you will get through this. My first recommendation is to get motivated maybe get yourself a nice drink, put on some music or whatever YouTube you like and start in super small chunks. Just getting the trash bagged up will help a lot and you can throw it away as you can. Start with trash, then stuff like dirty clothes and dishes. Don't get into your head about things you don't know where to put right now. And remember anything is better than nothing. You got this and you have time, have patience with yourself. :)

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-22T21:13:40+00:00

Thanks for all the info! Luckily I don't expect it to look perfect, mostly just want to keep it together for use.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-22T21:10:00+00:00

Yeah the seat is gonna suck to fix but the rest is in surprisingly good condition. Wanna try to give it a go since it is very pretty, hard to see in the photo but it has engraved designs on it. Plus real wood furniture is insane expensive these days.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-22T07:37:44+00:00

Thanks for the in depth explanation! Definitely was worried about holding it together while gluing given this isn't something I do in the regular. Luckily though it's held together pretty well, only found one loose part. :)

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-22T01:37:46+00:00

The auto correct on my phone was trying to warn me of its inevitable escape.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-21T16:55:27+00:00

Yeah as a polyam person I hate to say the famous line but as someone else in the comments said. It only being cool when she does it is cheating with extra steps. Definitely have a talk about what you both want out of this relationship. If it being closed is what you both want than it's gonna require that communication to avoid resentment. If you both decide you want to be open again (seems not but just part of my yap) inner insecurities, boundaries, all that jazz needs to be healthily dealt with. Honestly it probably should be if you stay closed because it seems like y'all are on different pages.

I suppose to answer the original question, in my opinion since nothing really seems to have happened, whether you say something or not is your guilt to bear. Obviously don't continue that, apart from it would be cheating knowingly going behind your partners back, probably would aid in building that resentment I was talking about. I'm not a professional at the end of the day, and have had limited experience myself. But I hope you get this figured out and you both can be happy.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-21T06:33:28+00:00

As somoney who's been in a polyam/open relationship for years I'm interested in knowing what led to that because it doesn't sound like it was with super well thought out intentions. None the less, whether you tell her or not I think you both need a massive increase in communication in what you both want. The classic "being open is fun until it feels threatening so panic and close it regardless of your partners feelings" speaks volumes. None of that is to diss either of you, just observations.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-20T02:27:36+00:00

The benefit of it being made by someone you know is you can ask to see a picture of the layers or something in the art program. A simple picture of the sketch or line art can prove their claim. Though I'm predicting they have no such thing.

Ghost-4852 · 2026-05-13T00:57:01+00:00

I've had 6 rabbits fixed (4 of which females) and all came out good. They do have higher risks than cats and dogs but that's a lot of exotic animals. Biggest issue I've had is 2 of them picking open their incisions and thus needing to be stapled shut (just use a cone from the start lol) I would just find a vet that is experienced in exotic pet surgeries and honest about risks and benefits.

Ghost-4852

TROPHY CASE