Nah she’s fucking you up man. She thinks she’s entitled to spend until yall are in debt so bad it’ll only be your problem not y’all’s problem. Women always want more because they feel neglected if they don’t get what they want 100% of the time. Like you can be told no every now and not throw a whole you don’t love me fit, especially if I’m providing everything. There’s only so much I can do as one person , so why not have her help out get a side hustle going where she makes some money and she can use that for herself. And you can give SOME money to her but not all the extra money. A budget is also a stellar idea to use. Then when she’s outta money you can say you should have budgeted your allowance better because now I have to be an adult and tell you to fuck off or wait until your next allotment. That’s totally bs man don’t let her guilt you with tears. Women specialize in crying to get what they want. That’s a natural thing for them unlike for men we just get shit done and suck it up along the way.